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About the Author

Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich is the Associate Rabbi at Congregation Beth Jacob in Atlanta, Georgia. Ordained at Baltimore’s Ner Israel Rabbinical College, he holds a BA in Psychology from the University of Maryland, and a Master of Science Degree in Professional Counseling from Georgia State University. Drawing on his warmth, humor, and personal experiences, Rabbi "Y" is popular for leading interactive parenting and marriage workshops in Atlanta and elsewhere. Rabbi Freundlich's wife and children have accepted their roles in providing endless material for his videos. He can be reached at rabbiy@bethjacobatlanta.org.

What's On Your Shoulder?

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Some items have to be thrown into the trunk - it just shouldn't be our children!


Annoying Questions

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Our kids always ask questions when we’re busy doing something else - yet that is the best time to teach them!


Where are you?

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Owning up to their failures is difficult enough for our kids. The least we can do is give them a chance!


Unburden Them

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

It's the same amount of time and energy - might as well give it with a smile!


Let Me Talk to Mommy

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

"One Voice" requires consultation. Use it often!


Protective Exposure

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

We can teach just as much through exposure to values and behaviors that we don't agree with!


After the Lollipop

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

It's one thing to say thank you while the lollipop is still in your hand; it's a different experience to be able to say it after the lollipop is long gone!


Worth a Thousand Words

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

It's worth the effort! Pictures create bonds and memories our words simply can't!


Irrational Parenting

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

If we can recognize how irrational we are when we're angry, we might avoid some serious parenting mistakes!


But Where Are The Instructions?

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Knowing the basics is not enough - we have to figure out the details too!


Selective Vision

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Sometimes we can bless our children - by ignoring them!


But I Don’t Like Lemonade!

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

That may be true, but if your child is selling it, buy it anyway!”


Consuming Infants With Fire

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Contention and fighting unleash unwanted consequences. Protect your kids!


Too Close To See

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Of course we know our kids best - that's why we need outside help to figure out what's going on!


Whose side are you on?

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

We can only handle criticism when it comes from someone who is on our side.


Robbed of Responsibility

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Yes, sometimes you can care too much! An overzealous parent robs their child from learning accountablity!


Urgent Reward

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

We're excellent at immediate focused punishments - but how focused are we when it comes to rewards?


Let it Go

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

We might remember our children's past struggles throughout their childhood. Leave them there - in the past!


Homeless at Home

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Is it possible to feel homeless in the comfort of your own home? Our children don't want to find out!


Winning with Words

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Everyone wants the secret to raising kids who will honor their parents. Just go ask Mommy.


Sticks and Stones and Baseball Bats

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

No one forgets how much damage a baseball bat can do - but we could use a reminder about the power of our words.


I Don’t Know

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Dealing with those three dreaded words.


What’s On Your Shoulder?

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Some things have to be thrown into the trunk – it just shouldn’t be our children!


Right Time, Right Place

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

The delicate nature of knowing when and where to say it!


In a Name, is Love

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

But it all depends on how you say it!


After the Apology

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Accepting an apology is only the beginning - restoring the relationship is the key!


Lazy Children

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

No one dreams about raising lazy children!


Power to Amend

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

It's one of the greatest gifts we can give our children - let them watch us clean up our mistakes!


Be There With Bells On

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Because it's so much easier to handle our day when we know what's coming.


But Do You Really Want To?

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Of course we're going to do things for our kids - but it's the "heart" of the matter that they really care about. No one likes to feel like a burden!


Good Under Pressure

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

It’s much harder to perform with someone looking over your shoulder! Give your kids some space and remove the pressure – they’ll appreciate it!


Reliably Respected

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

The Art of Complaining

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Our children will look at us to see HOW we complain about the issues we have - both with them and with others. And that is quite a test!


Our Secret Weatherman

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Our children do not appreciate when we point out to how many things we do for them. But our spouses can do it for us!


Remember the Frogs

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

We would also hit the frogs if they were driving us crazy. But how do we handle our kids?


Changing the Scenery

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

The Cheapest Gift

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

I Love You All The Same

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Of course we love all of our children the same. But do they know that?


What's Taking So Long!

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Just Accept it – everything takes longer with kids


But What Do You Want Me To Do About It?

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Most of the time, the reality is that there is nothing we can do for our kids about life's disappointments - other than respond appropriately!


The Unexpected Voice

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

We all have a “voice” that our children expect to hear from us. The question is: Whose voice is it?


Glamorless Kindness

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Let Them Hear it, Too

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

An 8 Year-Old Behind The Wheel

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Plausible Praise

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

89 Percent

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

Haman's Voice Within

Haman's Voice Within

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

According to Haman, Brooks Conrad is a total failure, and so are you.


Miracle on Ice - Chanukah Edition

Miracle on Ice - Chanukah Edition

by Rabbi Yechezkel Freundlich

The Jewish definition of “miraculous” is different from Merriam-Webster.


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