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About the Author

Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Questions for Rosie & Sherry can be sent to datingmaze@aish.com. Due to the large volume of questions received, they are unable to answer each one.

Rosie Einhorn (a psychotherapist) and Sherry Zimmerman (a psychotherapist and former family lawyer) are the authors of the newly-released book, Dating Smart – Navigating the Path to Marriage, published by Menucha Publishers. They are the founders of Sasson V'Simcha (www.jewishdatingandmarriage.com), a non- profit organization that provides programs and services in North America, Israel, and Europe to help Jewish singles and the people who care about them.

 

Dating Maze #381: Letting Go of Love

Dating Maze #381: Letting Go of Love

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Should I move to Israel to reclaim my love or am I chasing a dead end?


Dating Maze #380: Fiancée’s Troubled Past

Dating Maze #380: Fiancée’s Troubled Past

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

My son’s fiancée has a mental health history that is making me very concerned.


Dating Maze #379: Marriage or Career?

Dating Maze #379: Marriage or Career?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Do I need to slow my climb up the corporate ladder in order to get married?


Dating Maze #378: He’s Not Ready

Dating Maze #378: He’s Not Ready

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

I am ready for marriage and children, but he’s not sure. What should I do?


Dating Maze #377: Too Much Information?

Dating Maze #377: Too Much Information?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

When I revealed personal information, he broke if off cold.


Dating Maze #376: Married to a Nerd

Dating Maze #376: Married to a Nerd

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

I always dreamed of a social butterfly; instead I married an introvert.


Dating Maze #375: Sister on the Loose

Dating Maze #375: Sister on the Loose

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Help! She’s close to getting engaged, and I’m concerned she’ll make a terrible spouse.


Dating Maze #374: Can You Start Wearing Make-Up?

Dating Maze #374: Can You Start Wearing Make-Up?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The man I'm dating wants me to wear make-up – and I hate make-up!


Dating Maze #373: Choosing Between Dog and Man

Dating Maze #373: Choosing Between Dog and Man

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

I love my dog and he’s demanding that I give it up.


Dating Maze #372: The Rebound Effect

Dating Maze #372: The Rebound Effect

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

It’s my first serious foray after a tough break-up. Am I expecting too much?


Dating Maze #371: Abusive In-Laws

Dating Maze #371: Abusive In-Laws

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

My future in-laws are aggressive and violent. Help!


Dating Maze #370: Too Old for a Baby?

Dating Maze #370: Too Old for a Baby?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

I want to become a father. Should I marry a 47-year-old woman?


Dating Maze #369: Fear of Men

Dating Maze #369: Fear of Men

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

As a child, I was bullied by boys, and now I can’t seem to start a relationship.


Dating Maze #368: Just Text Me

Dating Maze #368: Just Text Me

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Our entire relationship consists of text messages. Is this normal?


Dating Maze #367: Spoiled Rotten

Dating Maze #367: Spoiled Rotten

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The man I’m dating lives like a 30-year-old adolescent.


Dating Maze #366: Long Distance Expectations

Dating Maze #366: Long Distance Expectations

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

After two months of long distance dating, I’m bored and restless. Should I keep trying to make it work?


Dating Maze #365: Ruined Wedding Day

Dating Maze #365: Ruined Wedding Day

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Everything went wrong and I can’t get over the disappointment.


Dating Maze #364: My Suicidal Past

Dating Maze #364: My Suicidal Past

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

What are the dating implications of revealing my dark secret?


Dating Maze #363: My Ungrateful Fiancé

Dating Maze #363: My Ungrateful Fiancé

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

My fiance is complaining about the gifts we receive.


Dating Maze #362: Marriage Prep

Dating Maze #362: Marriage Prep

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

We don’t want to make mistakes and learn the hard way!


Dating Maze #361: Husband Plus Three?

Dating Maze #361: Husband Plus Three?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The man I’m dating has children, but my life is carefree!


Dating Maze #360: Not in Public

Dating Maze #360: Not in Public

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The guy I’m dating doesn’t want to be seen with me in public. Should I be concerned?


Dating Maze #359: Wild Past

Dating Maze #359: Wild Past

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

I feel guilty about my past escapades. Should I tell him about it?


Dating Maze #358: Can’t Say No

Dating Maze #358: Can’t Say No

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He wants to get married and I’m afraid to hurt him by breaking up.


Dating Maze #357: Loyal to the Tribe

Dating Maze #357: Loyal to the Tribe

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

I want to marry a Jewish guy, but they all seem to be dating non-Jewish women!


Dating Maze #356: In-law Collision

Dating Maze #356: In-law Collision

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Our engagement broke up because I’m bickering with his mother. Can things be salvaged?


Matchmaking for Everyone

Matchmaking for Everyone

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Practical ways to help your friends find the right one.


Dating Maze #355: Performance Anxiety

Dating Maze #355: Performance Anxiety

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

When speaking with a good prospect, I get intimidated and close up.


Dating Maze #354: Keeping Score

Dating Maze #354: Keeping Score

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He wants everything to be 50-50. Do successful relationships work that way?


Dating Maze #353: Intense Chemistry

Dating Maze #353: Intense Chemistry

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Does my strong attraction mean we’re not building a deeper connection?


Dating Maze #352: Awestruck Strikes Out

Dating Maze #352: Awestruck Strikes Out

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Coming to grips with unrequited love.


Dating Maze #351: Help Me Want to Get Married!

Dating Maze #351: Help Me Want to Get Married!

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Am I a commitment-phobe, or is something else holding me back?


7 Steps to Trusting Again

7 Steps to Trusting Again

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

How to bounce back after breaking up.


Dating Maze #350: Digital Pursuit

Dating Maze #350: Digital Pursuit

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Has online dating changed the rules?


Dating Maze #349: Professional Failure

Dating Maze #349: Professional Failure

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

I love this guy but it seems like he’ll never succeed.


Dating Maze #348: Different Pace

Dating Maze #348: Different Pace

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

By the time she’s ready, I’ve already lost interest.


Dating Maze #347: Stuck in the Dating Desert

Dating Maze #347: Stuck in the Dating Desert

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

With no match in sight, I'm building resentment.


Dating Maze #346: Offensive Words

Dating Maze #346: Offensive Words

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

How can I stop my date from using foul language?


Dating Maze #345: Off the Deep End

Dating Maze #345: Off the Deep End

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Whenever a disagreement crops up, we both go into fear mode.


Dating Maze #344: Creating the Perfect Profile

Dating Maze #344: Creating the Perfect Profile

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Increase your likelihood of success in online dating sites.


Dating Maze #343: Across the Pond

Dating Maze #343: Across the Pond

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

My fiancé now insists I leave Chicago and move to London with him. But I don’t want to.


Dating Maze #342: Fielding Suggestions

Dating Maze #342: Fielding Suggestions

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

“Come on, what have you got to lose?”


Dating Maze #341: Getting Over the Hurdle

Dating Maze #341: Getting Over the Hurdle

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

My fiancée doesn't want to spend what I think is necessary quality time. It's starting to freak me out.


Six Rules for Digital Dating

Six Rules for Digital Dating

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Sage advice from Aish.com’s dating experts.


Dating Maze #340: Going for the “Look”

Dating Maze #340: Going for the “Look”

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Help! I'm only attracted to one type of "look" and can't get past it.


Dating Maze #339: Dating Anxiety

Dating Maze #339: Dating Anxiety

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Things are going great, but I'm terrified of what might happen next.


Dating Maze #338: In the Dumps

Dating Maze #338: In the Dumps

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Seven months ago my engagement was broken off. I'm filled with anger and can’t move on.


Dating Maze #337: Laid-back and Single

Dating Maze #337: Laid-back and Single

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

I'm a good-looking guy. Why can’t I get any serious dates?


Dating Maze #336: Jealous Friend

Dating Maze #336: Jealous Friend

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Help! I really dislike my girlfriend's close friend.


Dating Maze #335: Up In Smoke

Dating Maze #335: Up In Smoke

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She refuses to date a guy with an addictive habit.


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