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About the Author

Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Questions for Rosie & Sherry can be sent to datingmaze@aish.com. Due to the large volume of questions received, they are unable to answer each one.

Rosie Einhorn (a psychotherapist) and Sherry Zimmerman (a psychotherapist and former family lawyer) are the authors of the newly-released book, Dating Smart – Navigating the Path to Marriage, published by Menucha Publishers. They are the founders of Sasson V'Simcha (www.jewishdatingandmarriage.com), a non- profit organization that provides programs and services in North America, Israel, and Europe to help Jewish singles and the people who care about them.

 

Dating Advice #86 - Parents at War

Dating Advice #86 - Parents at War

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

His parents are convinced the wedding should be cancelled, and they're going to war to prove it.


Dating Advice #85 - Lack of Communication

Dating Advice #85 - Lack of Communication

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Her boyfriend doesn't listen carefully enough, and she loses her cool. How can she keep control while getting her needs met?


Dating Advice #83 - Too Good To Be True

Dating Advice #83 - Too Good To Be True

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Projecting an image that is too cool and successful, may send your dates running away.


Dating Advice #82 - Glaring Red Flags

Dating Advice #82 - Glaring Red Flags

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He may be a narcissist, or a control freak. In the meantime, he treats her like a queen and she doesn't want it to end. What's the long-term prognosis?


Dating Advice #81 - Pre-Occupation Hazards

Dating Advice #81 - Pre-Occupation Hazards

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

When someone is pre-occupied with an outside relationship, is there room for dating to fit in?


Dating Advice #80 - Transpo Etiquette

Dating Advice #80 - Transpo Etiquette

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The guy acted like a boor and now she wants to know: Is he a diamond in the rough, or just too selfish to care.


Dating Advice #79 - Parents at Home

Dating Advice #79 - Parents at Home

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's lonely, but can't imagine getting married since it will mean leaving her parents alone. How can she deal with this guilt-trip?


Dating Advice #78 - The Perfect Fit

Dating Advice #78 - The Perfect Fit

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She is the Super-Woman, but can't find the Super-Man. The clock is ticking and she's getting impatient...


Dating Advice #77 - Excess 'Ex' Baggage

Dating Advice #77 - Excess 'Ex' Baggage

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He says he loves her, but he still seems emotionally tied to his ex-wife. Is it worth sticking around?


Dating Advice #76 - Why Doesn't He Call?

Dating Advice #76 - Why Doesn't He Call?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

After one date, the guys never call back. Is it her weight -- or some deeper message she's putting out?


Dating Advice #75 - International Hook-up

Dating Advice #75 - International Hook-up

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

It's the old problem of knowing when to take the leap. But with a new twist -- he's on the other side of the globe.


Dating Advice 74 - No Second Date!

Dating Advice 74 - No Second Date!

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

After one date, he's had enough. But what's the best way to let her know that?


Dating Advice #73 - Compromising Values

Dating Advice #73 - Compromising Values

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She wants a Jewish family, but she's fallen for a non-Jewish guy. Now it's time to make the big decision.


Dating Advice #72 - Breaking the Barrier

Dating Advice #72 - Breaking the Barrier

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Singles in their 40s have a unique set of dating challenges. Sometimes the answer is found by looking in the mirror.


Dating Advice #71 -- Emotional Connectivity

Dating Advice #71 -- Emotional Connectivity

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

These newlyweds never laid the foundations for emotional intimacy and sharing deep thoughts. Now how do they start the process?


Dating Advice #70 - Off-Line Maneuvers

Dating Advice #70 - Off-Line Maneuvers

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Online, the light is green. But making the transition to the real world has been a dismal failure.


Dating Advice #68 -

Dating Advice #68 - "El Cheapo?"

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's looking for generosity, but he's not financially forthcoming. How does she deal with these dynamics?


Dating Advice #67 - Newlywed Blues

Dating Advice #67 - Newlywed Blues

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Now that she's married, she's thinking back how life was better as a single. Is there a way out of these doldrums?


Dating Advice #66 - When Will I See You Again?

Dating Advice #66 - When Will I See You Again?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Two readers, same problem: They can't get someone to commit to the next date!


Dating Advice #64 - Spiritual Chasm

Dating Advice #64 - Spiritual Chasm

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's leaning toward traditional Jewish practice. He's an atheist. Is there hope for them together?


Dating Advice #63 - Fear of Abandonment

Dating Advice #63 - Fear of Abandonment

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's afraid that she'll stop dating him. What's the psychology behind this fear -- and how can he fix it?


Dating Advice #61 - Missing the 'Goodbye' Word

Dating Advice #61 - Missing the 'Goodbye' Word

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She has two guys on her mind. One of them never calls. Should she take that as a hint?


Dating Advice #60 - Struck Out Again!

Dating Advice #60 - Struck Out Again!

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He pushed hard for a breakthrough, but she backed off. The pattern repeats. Now he's burned out.


Dating Advice #59 - Revealing the Painful Past

Dating Advice #59 - Revealing the Painful Past

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

There's a lot lurking beneath the surface. The big question is: When do I let it all out?


Dating Advice #58 - The Bookworm Quandary

Dating Advice #58 - The Bookworm Quandary

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's a super-intellectual and she's not. Is this a deal-breaker?


Dating Advice #57 - Troubling Behavior

Dating Advice #57 - Troubling Behavior

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Anger, flirting, irresponsibility. The warning signs are fast and furious. But she still wants to hang in there.


Dating Advice #56 - Divorce Details

Dating Advice #56 - Divorce Details

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

When dating a divorcee, how and when do you get details on the failed prior marriage?


Dating Advice #55 - Double Dating

Dating Advice #55 - Double Dating

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Juggling multiple dating partners is tricky business. But is it ethical?


Dating Advice #54 - Over-40 Blues

Dating Advice #54 - Over-40 Blues

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She wants to marry a Jewish guy, but at this stage of frustration has turned to the Christian dating scene. Is something wrong here?


Dating Advice #53 - Unraveling the Past

Dating Advice #53 - Unraveling the Past

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The pattern is not a good one. It stretches back to childhood. How does she climb out of this hole?


Dating Advice #52 - Flip-Flopped Dating Life

Dating Advice #52 - Flip-Flopped Dating Life

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

When she pursues, they run away. And when she's not interested, they fawn. Has someone got this backwards?


Dating Advice #51 - Building the Emotional Investment Portfolio

Dating Advice #51 - Building the Emotional...

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

These newlyweds are trying to build emotional intensity. Do they have the same needs? How is it done?


Dating Advice #50 - High School Hangover

Dating Advice #50 - High School Hangover

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The pickin's are slim enough as it is. And now that someone's finally interesting, her friend is giving her a guilt trip.


Dating Advice #49 - What's Wrong, Doc?

Dating Advice #49 - What's Wrong, Doc?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

His poor track record leaves him wondering: Is there something fundamentally wrong? Therapy seems to be the answer.


Dating Advice #48 - Blind Date Etiquette

Dating Advice #48 - Blind Date Etiquette

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's tired of expensive dinners that lead nowhere. For the first date, isn't there a better way?


Dating Advice #47 - Five Year Span

Dating Advice #47 - Five Year Span

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Things are going great, but there's a 5-year age difference. So what's the big deal?


Dating Advice #46 - First Date Jitters

Dating Advice #46 - First Date Jitters

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

On paper, he's a great guy. But he can't seem to break into the world of dating. What's the problem?


Dating Advice #45 - Too Much Tension

Dating Advice #45 - Too Much Tension

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's working 80 hours a week, and it shows on his face. No wonder he's having trouble meeting the right woman.


Dating Advice #44 - Ready to Give Up

Dating Advice #44 - Ready to Give Up

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

After so many rejections, he's basically given up hope of finding his match. Is there any way out of this rut?


Dating Advice #43 - Wasting My Time?

Dating Advice #43 - Wasting My Time?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's stuck, and she wants to get on with life. What gauge should she use to know when it's time to move on?


Dating Advice #42 - Over-Weight Date

Dating Advice #42 - Over-Weight Date

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's overweight, feeling rejected, and is ready to give up the singles scene altogether. Is there a solution to this dating dilemma?


Dating Advice #41 - Conversation Freeze-Up

Dating Advice #41 - Conversation Freeze-Up

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Dating chit-chat is not his strong point. How do you generate good talk when the mouth runs dry?


Dating Advice #39 - Coping With Anger

Dating Advice #39 - Coping With Anger

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's got a short fuse. What will it take to make this relationship work?


Dating Advice #38 - Break-Up Methodology

Dating Advice #38 - Break-Up Methodology

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Sometimes you gotta say "bye-bye." But how do you do it without making the other person feel bad?


Dating Advice #37 - Long Distance Love

Dating Advice #37 - Long Distance Love

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He wants to keep it going, but the distance seems too vast to overcome. Here's some handy tips.


Dating Advice #36 - Upper Demographics

Dating Advice #36 - Upper Demographics

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's not so young anymore, and he wants to know: Have the rules of the dating game changed?


Dating Advice #35 - The Right One?

Dating Advice #35 - The Right One?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

What is your checklist for the "right one?" Our experts help pare your list down to something realistic.


Dating Advice #34 - Physical Barrier

Dating Advice #34 - Physical Barrier

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Dating is so much of an emotional activity. But what happens when physical limitations come into play?


Dating Advice #33 - Overcoming Fears

Dating Advice #33 - Overcoming Fears

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Something's holding her back. Before she gets married, she'll have to get to the heart of the matter.


Dating Advice #32 - In-Laws and Outlaws

Dating Advice #32 - In-Laws and Outlaws

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Keeping the in-laws happy is one key to a happy marriage -- especially when cultural differences come into play.


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