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Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Rabbi Dov Heller is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who holds Masters Degrees in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University and in Contemporary Theology from Harvard University. He also holds a B.A. in philosophy and was ordained a rabbi in Jerusalem in 1982. He is director of the Aish HaTorah Counseling Center in Los Angeles, founder of the Relationship Institute, and runs a private practice specializing in adult psychotherapy, marriage counseling and personal guidance. In addition, he provides an international coaching and counseling service via telephone helping people solve their relationship challenges. Visit his website at www.claritytalk.com.
Judaism’s Bill of Obligations in Marriage

Judaism’s Bill of Obligations in Marriage

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

A daily reminder on what it means to be a mensch.


10 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married

10 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

How to know you're ready to tie the knot.


5 Ways to Stay In Love Forever

5 Ways to Stay In Love Forever

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Excellent advice for every couple.


Ten Questions to Ask Yourself

Ten Questions to Ask Yourself

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Sometimes life is overwhelming and we need to put things back into focus. These 10 simple questions will do wonders.


How to Build Trust in Marriage

How to Build Trust in Marriage

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Without trust in your marriage, you are headed for an abusive relationship (or may be in one already).


Ten Ways to Marry the Wrong Person

Ten Ways to Marry the Wrong Person

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Blind love is not the way to choose a spouse. Here are practical tools for keeping your eyes wide open.


Dating Strategies for the Marriage-Minded

Dating Strategies for the Marriage-Minded

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

A relationships coach lays out his 5 golden rules for evaluating the prospects of long-term marital success.


Get More Pleasure Out of Marriage

Get More Pleasure Out of Marriage

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

A simple tool guaranteed to improve your marriage if you commit to trying it.


Five Steps to a Great Marriage #3: Be Like Builders

Five Steps to a Great Marriage #3: Be Like...

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Staying married means sharing meaningful goals and values.


5 Steps to a Great Marriage #5:  Be Masters of Growth and Healing

5 Steps to a Great Marriage #5: Be Masters of...

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

A crucial task of marriage is to allow yourself to discover your weaknesses and take responsibility for working on and correcting them.


5 Steps to a Great Marriage #4: Be King and Queen

5 Steps to a Great Marriage #4: Be King and Queen

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Your spouse is your number one priority. Becoming queen and king means creating an unshakable alliance between husband and wife.


5 Steps to a Great Marriage #2: Be a Team

5 Steps to a Great Marriage #2: Be a Team

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Do you have the communication and negotiating skills needed to be a team?


5 Steps to a Great Marriage #1: Be Friends and Lovers

5 Steps to a Great Marriage #1: Be Friends and...

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

5 practical tools on becoming "beloved friends."


7 Steps to Lasting Love

7 Steps to Lasting Love

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

How to stay in love the rest of your life.


Mastering The Gratitude Attitude

Mastering The Gratitude Attitude

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

It begins with getting rid of the entitlement attitude, which puts "my rights" ahead of everything else.


Getting Closer

Getting Closer

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

An eight-week intimacy building program that will greatly increase the closeness and pleasure you want to experience with your spouse.


Six Habits of Happily Married Couples

Six Habits of Happily Married Couples

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Success in marriage hinges on consistent performance of these key habits.


Falling in Love With God, Step 4 - Service: Payback Time

Falling in Love With God, Step 4 - Service:...

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

Judaism offers a unique solution to the spiritual dilemma of how to payback God.


Falling In Love With God, Step 3: Indebtedness

Falling In Love With God, Step 3: Indebtedness

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

To experience God deeply, we must face the undeniable truth that we are hugely indebted to our Creator.


Falling In Love With God – Part 1

Falling In Love With God – Part 1

by Rabbi Dov Heller, M.A.

To enjoy the greatest pleasure in life, we need to embrace the half of the glass that's full and the half that's empty.


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