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About the Author
Dr. Michael Tobin
Dr. Michael Tobin has been a practicing psychologist for 38 years, and for the past 25 years he's been in private practice in Jerusalem. He specializes in marriage and family therapy and has been a professional trainer and supervisor since 1992. He has led numerous workshops for couples in Israel and the United States and developed an interactive series of family dramas that were performed throughout Israel . Dr. Tobin is the founder of the critically acclaimed website, www.wholefamily.com, which received finalist status in the family category of the internet academy awards. Dr. Tobin is the author of numerous articles on marriage and family and is the co-author of a book on marriage published in English, Hebrew, and German. Dr. Tobin is married to Dr. Deborah Risk Tobin and they have lived in Efrat with their family since they made aliyah in 1986.
Ask the Rabbi/Psychologist: My Father’s Affair
by Dr. Michael Tobin and Rabbi Yaacov HaberShould I tell my mother?
Ask the Rabbi/Psychologist: The Enabler
by Dr. Michael Tobin and Rabbi Yaacov HaberI'm ashamed for enabling my husband’s verbal abuse.
Ask the Rabbi/Psychologist: Mother-In-Law from...
by Dr. Michael Tobin and Rabbi Yaacov HaberShould I tell my husband it’s me or her?
Ask the Rabbi/Psychologist: Fighting Daughters
by Dr. Michael Tobin and Rabbi Yaacov HaberHow do I get my daughters to stop fighting with each other?
Ask Rabbi/Psychologist: Pushing Kids to Excel
by Dr. Michael Tobin and Rabbi Yaacov HaberShould I push my daughter to play piano publically so she can develop her full potential?
Ask Rabbi/Psychologist: Career versus Marriage
by Dr. Michael Tobin and Rabbi Yaacov HaberOur marriage is not my husband’s priority. I had no idea that I would be a slave to his career.
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10 Things Never to do in a Marriage, Part 1
by Dr. Michael TobinTransform a relationship mired in negativity into one based on trust and safety.
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Those Little Annoying Things
by Dr. Michael TobinYou don't restore a marriage by getting the other to do your will. You transform a relationship by creating love, collaboration and respect.
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A Question of Character
by Dr. Michael TobinAfter catching her fiance in a serious lie, should she go ahead with the marriage?
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Working Toward Love
by Dr. Michael TobinLove is not mystical. If you want the benefits of a deeply committed and loving relationship, then you have to put in the effort to make it happen.
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A Ten-Year Power Struggle
by Dr. Michael TobinA power struggle can only continue if both antagonists "play the game."
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Marital Games
by Dr. Michael TobinA couple is caught in the common marital game called "Who is the Biggest Victim?" where the two competitors vie for the position of whose needs are more legitimate.
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10 Things Never to do in a Marriage, Part 2
by Dr. Michael TobinTransform a relationship mired in negativity into one based on trust and safety.
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Ten Terrifying Truths about Marriage
by Dr. Michael TobinGet rid of the illusions and let your marriage soar.
