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Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Sara Debbie Gutfreund received her BA in English from the University of Pennsylvania and her MA in Family Therapy from the University of North Texas. She has taught parenting classes and self-development seminars and provided adolescent counseling. She writes extensively for many online publications and in published anthologies of Jewish women's writing. She and her husband spent 14 wonderful years raising their five children in Israel, and now live in Blue Ridge Estates in Waterbury, Connecticut, where Sara Debbie enjoys skiing and running in her free time.

Oklahoma Tornado

Oklahoma Tornado

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

When there are no words, there are tears.


Five Things Every Mother Wants to Hear

Five Things Every Mother Wants to Hear

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

A Mother’s Day wish list.


After the Crash

After the Crash

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Sometimes life can change in an instant.


Boston Lockdown

Boston Lockdown

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Terrorists can’t take away our essential freedom.


Responding to Terror

Responding to Terror

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Four ways to react to the horrific bombings in Boston.


Ride the Crave

Ride the Crave

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Urge surfing and the count to greatness.


Barricades of Prayer

Barricades of Prayer

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

My summer with Israeli soldiers confronted my fear of living.


A Tribute to Margaret Thatcher

A Tribute to Margaret Thatcher

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Her proudest moment was saving an Austrian Jew.


Passover & the Power of Love

Passover & the Power of Love

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

After the tragic death of my rabbi and Rebbetzin, my Passover memories are awash with saltwater tears.


From Homeless to Harvard

From Homeless to Harvard

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Passover is the time to tell your story.


Revisiting Betty Friedan

Revisiting Betty Friedan

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Breaking free of feminism's constraints.


Dream Footprints

Dream Footprints

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Five famous dreamers and the lessons we can learn from them.


Every Inch Counts

Every Inch Counts

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Sometimes one inch can lead to a mile. Purim shows us how.


The Happiness Challenge

The Happiness Challenge

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Brendan Marrocco lost all four limbs in Iraq. He has a lot to teach us about living with joy.


Why I'm Raising My Children With God

Why I'm Raising My Children With God

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

The most precious gift I can give my children.


Four Amazing Trees

Four Amazing Trees

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Spiritual lessons from trees, for Tu B’Shvat.


Three Apps for the New Year

Three Apps for the New Year

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Three ways to deepen your resolutions.


Learning from My Parents' Divorce

Learning from My Parents' Divorce

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Sometimes brokenness makes you stronger.


The Connecticut School Shooting

The Connecticut School Shooting

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Asking why in the aftermath of tragedy.


When Christmas and Hanukkah Crashed

When Christmas and Hanukkah Crashed

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

For the first time in my life, I was the only Jew in the group.


Times Square Kindness

Times Square Kindness

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

A police officer’s private act of kindness becomes a web sensation.


Five Ways to Be Grateful

Five Ways to Be Grateful

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

How to unlock the door to gratitude.


5 Dysfunctions of a Team

5 Dysfunctions of a Team

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Principles for building a strong marriage.


The Blind Woman at the Gym

The Blind Woman at the Gym

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Learning how to see.


The Nanny Nightmare

The Nanny Nightmare

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Three essential lessons.


Voting for Mom

Voting for Mom

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

The campaign advisor warned my mother: “You can’t win unless you campaign on Saturday.”


The Fury of Frankenstorm

The Fury of Frankenstorm

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Five ways to bring awe into your life.


Obama's Look Alike

Obama's Look Alike

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

It’s not only the inside that counts.


Felix Baumgartner’s Amazing Feat

Felix Baumgartner’s Amazing Feat

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Lessons from breaking the speed of sound.


Tomorrow

Tomorrow

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Don't rush to plan tomorrow. Make it count, today.


Bat Mitzvah Gifts for My Daughter

Bat Mitzvah Gifts for My Daughter

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Spanning three generations, I want to give you some very special gifts that are close to my heart.


If Only

If Only

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

On Tisha B'Av I can feel the weight of thousands of years of “if onlys.”


Fissures

Fissures

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

I've lost my connection to the past, and no matter how much time passes, there is a crevice in my heart.


My Lost iPod Cable

My Lost iPod Cable

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

In Egypt, the Jewish people were hanging on by a tiny thread. So was I.


It All Counts

It All Counts

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

I thought I was a giving person. Then I got married and had kids.


One Pure Thing

One Pure Thing

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Bringing the hidden light of Chanukah into our lives.


Gimme Shelter

Gimme Shelter

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

We are all homeless until we use the tools we've got to build shelters for our souls.


Living with Our Souls

Living with Our Souls

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

I can hear the echo of Rav Noach's words: You need to learn. You need to teach. You need to live with what you know.


Fathers and Memories

Fathers and Memories

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Daughters never forget.


Where Are You?

Where Are You?

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

On Passover God is anxiously waiting for His children to come home.


Date with Myself

Date with Myself

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

A busy mother goes on a solo vacation and finds answers to some tough questions.


The Three Hardest Words

The Three Hardest Words

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Without admitting that we need each other, it is almost impossible to give and receive love.


Where Are You?

Where Are You?

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

On Passover God is anxiously waiting for His children to come home.


Treasuring the Details

Treasuring the Details

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Love means paying attention to the details.


Abundance

Abundance

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Why do we focus on the spaces in our lives instead of the abundance?


My Mother the Judge

My Mother the Judge

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Watching Judge Lefkowitz balance the needs of four generations and a seat on the New York State Supreme Court was impressive, especially to her daughter.


Einstein's Regret

Einstein's Regret

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Despite time and space being relative, our ability to try is a constant.


What Else Is There?

What Else Is There?

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Do I try to find the hidden meaning in my life at this moment or pretend that I'm free to give up?


Seeing the Stars

Seeing the Stars

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

Holidays are not about escaping reality. They are about finding the inner beauty of our lives.


Warsaw Ghetto Furniture

Warsaw Ghetto Furniture

by Sara Debbie Gutfreund

How can we yearn to return to a place that we don't remember?


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