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Stopping a Suicide

Stopping a Suicide

Is stopping a suicide merely a question of public interest - or is it also a spiritual matter involving God?

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Consider a man beset with multiple problems.

He is suffering from incurable cancer, has lost his job, is deep in debt, his wife wants a divorce, and he is estranged from his children. He decides to end his life and climbs over the rail of the Golden Gate Bridge.

As he is preparing to plunge into San Francisco Bay, he is spotted by police.

The police dispatch a highly trained psychologist, who talks to the man in an attempt to dissuade him from taking his life. In the meantime the police identify the man and confirm that all his problems are indeed true. He is not crazy, just distraught.

Should the police intervene? Whose life is it anyway?

The Factors in Question

Is taking the man off the bridge is a legitimate use of police power?

Is it for or against the public interest to let people jump off bridges?

Is it for or against the public interest to let people jump off bridges?

Is this a deeper issue concerning the preservation of life, or just a simple matter of public inconvenience?

Should society demand that he live – overriding his desire to end his own life?

Is there ever a time when suicide is justified, especially when a person is legally competent?

If a person has no choice about coming into the world, should they likewise have no choice when to go out?

Posted Comments

lupus@jay-mar.com wrote:

"I think suicide should be prevented. I have worked with terminal HIV patients and have been given more than one death sentence by physicians concerning my lupus. I was close to death as were my patients. When a diagnosis that is hopeless is given, we (and our families) start to prepare them."

steepclimber@aol.com wrote:

There should be laws to protect the individual's right to choose their own way to die. If doctor-assisted suicide were legal, people wouldn't have to jump off bridges!

Naomi wrote:

What is required is good pain control, meditation, relaxation techniques, good care, love, affection and counseling. Then one can cope with a lot more and may even be happy to be alive in times of pain.

With pain control, meditation, love and counseling, one can cope in times of pain.

anonymous@gmail.com wrote:

When someone commits suicide, he may end his own suffering, but everyone he leaves behind suffers for the rest of their lives. I know this from first-hand experience.

anonymous@juno.com wrote:

I attempted suicide. Now seven months later I have found a lot of reasons to live. Yet I still am not sure I would stop someone else. To be there and get out is very difficult. There is a price to every ticket!

paysach@hotmail.com wrote:

I think that the police should not interfere with this man's decision. Even though I do believe that he is doing the wrong thing by committing suicide, nevertheless this a religious belief and the police have no right to carry out a religious issue.

Jewish Perspective

Judaism regards suicide as a criminal act. Someone who commits suicide is considered a murderer. It matters not whether he kills someone else or himself. His soul is not his to extinguish.

Judaism's opposition to suicide is found in the story of Noah's Ark. After the flood, God says to Noah:

Your blood which belongs to your souls I will demand; from the hand of every beast will I demand it. From the hand of every man; from the hand of every man who is his brother will I demand the life of man. (Genesis 9:5)

The Talmud (Baba Kama 90b) learns from the first part of the verse, "And surely the blood of your lives I will demand," that one may not wound his own body. All the more so, he may not take his own life.

Metaphysical Laws

There is a deep spiritual consequence to suicide.

When a person commits suicide, the soul has nowhere to go. It cannot return to the body, because the body is destroyed. And it is not let in to any of the soul worlds, because its time has not come. This state of limbo is very painful. A person may commit suicide because he wants to escape, but in reality he is getting a far worse situation.

In this world, if we try hard enough sometimes we can solve the problem. But after death there are no solutions, only consequences.

When a Jew commits suicide, he is not permitted a full Jewish burial, and there is even a debate whether shiva (the seven-day mourning period) is observed or whether the kaddish prayer is said.

(In practice today, however, suicide is usually treated as a normal death, since it is assumed that the person was not of a normal state of mind.)

The Suicide of King Saul

In the Bible we see an incident in which suicide seems to be permitted.

The Philistines were battling against Israel, and the men of Israel fled from before the Philistines and fell slain on Mount Gilboa. The Philistines overtook Saul and his sons, and they slew ... the sons of Saul. The battle then focused against Saul. The archers found him, and Saul was terrified of them. Saul said to his armor-bearer, "Draw your sword and stab me with it, lest these men come to stab and torture me."
But his armor-bearer did not consent, for he was very afraid. So Saul took his sword and fell upon it. When the armor-bearer saw that Saul was dying, he also fell upon his sword and died with him. (Samuel II, 1:5-10)

The Sages offer a number of reasons why Saul's suicide was unique:

  • Saul feared that his enemies would use torture to try to force him to worship other gods. (Ritva – 14th century)
  • Suicide is permitted in the face of an attempt at forced conversion. (Rabbeinu Tam – 12th century)
  • Suicide is permitted only if the lives of others would be in danger as a result of torture. (Rabbi Shlomo Luria – 16th century)
  • Saul acted out of respect for the Israelite kingship, as he feared the Philistines would mockingly parade him through their cities. In other words, he committed suicide to sanctify God's name. (Y'dai Moshe – 20th century)

In summary, suicide is absolutely prohibited, unless there are unusual and extenuating circumstances – e.g. forced conversion, endangering the lives of others, or sanctifying the Name of God.

DISCLAIMER: This module discusses sources for the purpose of education. Any real-life situation must be discussed with a rabbi, well-versed in Jewish law.

Published: January 26, 2000


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Visitor Comments: 20

(20) Randy, June 3, 2013 1:15 PM

Depression

Mental illness and depression are debilitating . people take their own life sometimes when they are delusional and out of touch with reality. How can they suffer when they don't even know what they are doing

(19) BurtB, April 6, 2011 6:47 AM

suicide is never justified

Of course G-d loves us. just because you are miserable, you can not end your life to end your suffering. You can take morphine for the physical pain. You can pray for the spiritual pain. You can try to look at your life differently, but you do not own your soul. That belongs to G-d. As someone who has had suicidal thoughts, I can tell you that one does not think logically in a depression. One literally can not see the positive side of any situation. It was like standing in front of a door and not being able to see it was open, no matter how often or logically people showed me.

(18) John Brennan, December 24, 2010 11:18 AM

I agree you suicide your spirit stays around.

Two houses I lived in were haunted by men who took their own lives.

(17) anon, December 10, 2010 9:55 PM

What about those (Jewish or otherwise) that committed suicide to avoid falling into the hands of the Nazis?

(16) Anonymous, October 20, 2009 3:21 AM

Suicide

If someone wants to commit suicide, I believe it is their personal choice and that while friends and family can and will try to talk someone out of those feelings, nobody should be forced into counseling or put onto medications. Granted, this is my opinion, and if I wanted to end my life, I believe it's my choice and nobody else's business.

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