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Isn't Losing Wonderful?

Isn't Losing Wonderful?

Why defeat is better than victory.

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Published: October 13, 2007


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Visitor Comments: 13

(13) Jakub, October 18, 2007 1:18 PM

thank you

Thanks for this "liftup"! What doesnt kill you makes you stronger and the enemy is a good teacher.

(12) Yechezkel, October 17, 2007 8:25 PM

The story behind the story

Uri's insight about the Colorado Rockies tragedy (see comments above)adds a whole other dimension to this: see www-cbsnews-com/stories/2007/07/23/national/main3087644.shtml

(11) steven fox, October 17, 2007 6:17 AM

Cleveland has learn alot from defeat

but not as much as the Cubs......

(10) Fernando Ocumare, October 17, 2007 3:21 AM

SO MUCH TO LEARN AT THE END

I have lost so many things in my life. Friends,loved ones in general, money, my bussines; All that brought a dark cloud of insecuretness to my daily activities. I took me years to understand that I had acquired the ability to help others by just listen to their problems and be there for them in their hard moments. I simply developed a sort of "soft place to fall"
image that allowed me to realize how HaShem turn any bad sitiuation into an exciting opportunity to help others.

Fernando Ocumare
ocumared@hotmail.com

(9) Anonymous, October 16, 2007 10:53 PM

Thankyou for this truth. I was feeling rejected because some paintings of mine were not juried into an art show. To top it off my friend won first place today. I asked God to make my wound better because I was very hurt. There was the answer ,I never thought of defeat this way.

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