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Virtue Makes You Beautiful

A viral video about modesty.

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Published: October 13, 2013

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Visitor Comments: 39

(24) Sandra, February 20, 2014 2:49 PM

Love it

This song is so refreshing . I am 62 and I dance in the car to this. I saw this on Facebook and sent it to my grandchildren. It was gone before they could watch it. So happy I found it again.

(23) tamara bonacquisti, February 13, 2014 9:39 PM


This is awesome!! After all the garbage I have seen come out of the music industry so far this year I am thrilled to see some of the youth of our future put things into perspective for each other! Way to lead men!!!

(22) Annette, October 20, 2013 4:37 AM


Truly refreshing and well done. And yah I'm a lady! (There are still some with self respect)

(21) Wayne, October 18, 2013 12:16 AM

What modesty is not

Modesty is not a question of how much skin shows. If it were, Muslim women wearing burkas would all be more modest than non-Muslim women (and men) who don't wear them.

John T. Malloy wrote a book called Dress for Success. The thrust of the book is to dress in a way that gets you favorable attention from your boss, customers, girlfriend, etc. I followed the advice and it helped me get a better job. Was I dressing modestly? NO WAY! I was dressing to be favorably noticed. So even though a button-up shirt covered slightly more skin than a tee shirt, it was less modest.

Is a person more modest in January because he wears a coat and gloves than he is in July wearing a short sleeved shirt? Is a motorcyclist wearing a leather jacket more modest than a pedestrian wearing a cotton shirt?

Something(s) to think about . . .

Rebecca, December 19, 2013 1:41 AM

Modest is not skin deep

Modestly is about showing who you are on the inside. Its about representing yourself, not as a body and an "object" to use (this applies to girls) but rather as a person with self respect and integrity. A person who sees themselves as a capable individual rather than a nice and attractive body.
Therefore a girls modesty is seen in the way she dresses. Someone who wants to be seen as a person, will cover their body in a respectful manner. Unfortunately, as seen so often in todays society, a girl who wants attention, will show off her body. She gets attention for being an attracting object/ physical body, not for the person and soul that she is.

When a young lady is applying for a prestigious job, she is not wearing a mini skirt and tank top. Why? Because she does not want to be seen as a body, she wants to be seen as the bright and capable person she is.

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