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Dating Advice #131 - Sabotage Path

Dating Advice #131 - Sabotage Path

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Why can't she get past the first date?

Dating Advice #130 - Genetic Risk

Dating Advice #130 - Genetic Risk

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Marriage within the Jewish community has some genetic risks. Pre-testing is the answer.

Dating Advice #129 - Setting the Pace

Dating Advice #129 - Setting the Pace

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Many people can't process the emotional data generated by too-frequent dating.

Dating Advice #128 - Late Start

Dating Advice #128 - Late Start

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's never dated seriously, and worries that this 'lack of experience' will hurt her down the road.

Dating Advice # 127 - Chronic Decision

Dating Advice # 127 - Chronic Decision

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She met a great guy, but his medical history has her worried. How should she weigh her emotions against the practicalities?

Dating Advice # 126 - Double Dating

Dating Advice # 126 - Double Dating

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Is it okay to date more than one person at a time?

Dating Advice #125 - Historical Cover-Up

Dating Advice #125 - Historical Cover-Up

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's moved beyond past mistakes, but feels guilty for not 'telling all' to her potential husband.

Dating Advice #124 - Engagement Panic

Dating Advice #124 - Engagement Panic

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's engaged and enduring daily anxiety attacks. Is there a way to get to the chuppah without totally losing her mind?

Dating Advice #123 - Getting the Guy to Budge

Dating Advice #123 - Getting the Guy to Budge

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She finds that older singles are socially awkward and commitment-phobes. Is there a solution?

Dating Advice #122 - Full Disclosure

Dating Advice #122 - Full Disclosure

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Two letters regarding the best time and place to discuss a sensitive medical condition.

Dating Advice #121 - Under Mom and Dad's Thumb

Dating Advice #121 - Under Mom and Dad's Thumb

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Her parents monitor her phone calls and scrutinize her dates. What's the chance of a successful courtship?

Dating Advice #120 - Waiting for the 'L' Word

Dating Advice #120 - Waiting for the 'L' Word

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's got baggage and is holding back emotionally. Her family says it's time to get out. Should she stick around?

Dating Advice #119 - Older and Wiser?

Dating Advice #119 - Older and Wiser?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He prefers dating women half his age. Is there any reason not to?

Dating Advice #118 - Dowdy and Unkempt

Dating Advice #118 - Dowdy and Unkempt

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's still wearing the same ill-fitting clothes she wore in high school. Is there any hope?

Dating Advice #117 - Ultimatum Time

Dating Advice #117 - Ultimatum Time

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Oops! She forgot to tell him that she's dating in order to get married.

Dating Advice #116 - Distant Attitude

Dating Advice #116 - Distant Attitude

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Are cold feet a sign of a genuine problem -- or just cold feet?

Dating Advice #115 - Border Conflict

Dating Advice #115 - Border Conflict

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The future in-laws oppose their daughter moving out of town. Is this a control issue?

Dating Advice #114 - Trying to Get it Right

Dating Advice #114 - Trying to Get it Right

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's still trying to get clear the basic issues of attraction and shared values.

Dating Advice #113 - Check List

Dating Advice #113 - Check List

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Imagine your ideal image of a spouse -- and then discard that image.

Dating Advice #112 - Second Fiddle?

Dating Advice #112 - Second Fiddle?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

If you marry someone with kids, where does that put you on the totem pole?

Dating Maze #111 - Superwoman?

Dating Maze #111 - Superwoman?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Is it possible to combine a demanding career with motherhood?

Dating Advice #110 - What's the Rush?

Dating Advice #110 - What's the Rush?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She can't understand all the commotion about a ticking clock.

Dating Advice #109 - The Missing Spark

Dating Advice #109 - The Missing Spark

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Hollywood tells us that a relationship needs romance, fireworks and sizzle. But is that reality?

Dating Advice #108 - Leaving the Nest

Dating Advice #108 - Leaving the Nest

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Some bad energy at her parents' house has him worried. Is this what their future marriage will look like?

Dating Advice #107 - Fertility Fears

Dating Advice #107 - Fertility Fears

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

With the clock ticking, she wants to become a mother before finding a husband/father.

Dating Maze #105 - Repairing the Broken Heart

Dating Maze #105 - Repairing the Broken Heart

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Her confidence in men is destroyed. Is she doomed to a life of loneliness?

Dating Advice #104 - Dealing with the Ex-husband

Dating Advice #104 - Dealing with the Ex-husband

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

They're both divorced with children, and living in distant cities. Can this work?

Dating Maze #106 - Blind Wedding

Dating Maze #106 - Blind Wedding

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's never met her fiance, and he refused to say hello to her parents on the telephone. Anyone detect a problem?!

Dating Advice #103 - Getting a Late Start

Dating Advice #103 - Getting a Late Start

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Already well into her 30s, she's now looking for her first serious courtship. And she's terrified.

Dating Advice #102 - Too Many Choices

Dating Advice #102 - Too Many Choices

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

When it rains, it pours. He's got 3 women lined up ready to get married. Which one should he choose?

Dating Advice #101 - Break-up Lessons

Dating Advice #101 - Break-up Lessons

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The crash-and-burn of his first long-term courtship is full of important lessons for the future.

Dating Advice #100 - Single Mom

Dating Advice #100 - Single Mom

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's trying to put the confusion of divorce behind her, manage the kids, and start dating again. Will it work?

Dating Advice #99 -

Dating Advice #99 - "The Ticking Clock"

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

At age 31, she wants to finish her education before getting married. Is that a mistake?

Dating Advice 98 - The Tall Handsome Doctor

Dating Advice 98 - The Tall Handsome Doctor

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's got a promising medical career, but is lost in the dating maze.

Dating Advice 97 - Shaving Off 10 Years

Dating Advice 97 - Shaving Off 10 Years

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He lied about his age in the dating profile, and has yet to fess up. Should she call him on it?

Dating Advice #95 - Sharing the Load

Dating Advice #95 - Sharing the Load

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Is it better to keep score, or just to give freely with no expectation of return?

Dating Advice #94 - Smoldering Ex-Flame

Dating Advice #94 - Smoldering Ex-Flame

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's still friends with a woman he used to date, and it's making his new date batty.

Dating Advice #92 - Unrequited Love

Dating Advice #92 - Unrequited Love

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's infatuated with a woman at work. She'd rather ignore him. Now what?

Dating Advice #91 - The Sneakers and Bag-Lunch Date

Dating Advice #91 - The Sneakers and Bag-Lunch Date

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He's terminally cheap. Could that have anything to do with his lack of success in dating?

Dating Advice # 89 -

Dating Advice # 89 - "Jilted!"

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She traveled 7 hours for a date, and he didn't show up. Or maybe he did...

Dating Advice #88 - Does Love Conquer All?

Dating Advice #88 - Does Love Conquer All?

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Her date has a lot of problems, but she is determined to make this work, no matter whatever it takes.

Dating Advice #87 - Cold Feet

Dating Advice #87 - Cold Feet

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

With the wedding one week away, she's having doubts.

Dating Advice #86 - Parents at War

Dating Advice #86 - Parents at War

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

His parents are convinced the wedding should be cancelled, and they're going to war to prove it.

Dating Advice #85 - Lack of Communication

Dating Advice #85 - Lack of Communication

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Her boyfriend doesn't listen carefully enough, and she loses her cool. How can she keep control while getting her needs met?

Dating Advice #83 - Too Good To Be True

Dating Advice #83 - Too Good To Be True

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

Projecting an image that is too cool and successful, may send your dates running away.

Dating Advice #82 - Glaring Red Flags

Dating Advice #82 - Glaring Red Flags

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

He may be a narcissist, or a control freak. In the meantime, he treats her like a queen and she doesn't want it to end. What's the long-term prognosis?

Dating Advice #81 - Pre-Occupation Hazards

Dating Advice #81 - Pre-Occupation Hazards

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

When someone is pre-occupied with an outside relationship, is there room for dating to fit in?

Dating Advice #80 - Transpo Etiquette

Dating Advice #80 - Transpo Etiquette

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

The guy acted like a boor and now she wants to know: Is he a diamond in the rough, or just too selfish to care.

Dating Advice #79 - Parents at Home

Dating Advice #79 - Parents at Home

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She's lonely, but can't imagine getting married since it will mean leaving her parents alone. How can she deal with this guilt-trip?

Dating Advice #78 - The Perfect Fit

Dating Advice #78 - The Perfect Fit

by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.

She is the Super-Woman, but can't find the Super-Man. The clock is ticking and she's getting impatient...

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