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Dating Advice #140 - Rookie Lessons

Dating Advice #140 - Rookie Lessons

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Seven possible reasons why she said "no" to a second date.

Dating Advice #139 - The One Sticking Point

Dating Advice #139 - The One Sticking Point

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The wedding is a week away. He's a great guy, except for one thing...

Dating Advice #138 - The Unmarriageable Syndrome

Dating Advice #138 - The Unmarriageable Syndrome

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He thought their engagement was just around the corner. But suddenly she dumped him.

Dating Advice #137 - Exit Etiquette

Dating Advice #137 - Exit Etiquette

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Keep it short and simple. And no lingering emotional attachments.

Dating Advice #136 - Networking for Marriage

Dating Advice #136 - Networking for Marriage

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Finding the right one: A-to-Z guide for picking the needle out of the haystack.

Dating Advice #135 - Intra-Office Intrigue

Dating Advice #135 - Intra-Office Intrigue

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These co-workers are dating, but trying to keep it all a secret.

Dating Advice #134 - Dating Mentor

Dating Advice #134 - Dating Mentor

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How the participation of a third party can help facilitate one's getting to the chuppah.

Dating Advice #133 - Internet Two-Timer?

Dating Advice #133 - Internet Two-Timer?

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Something looks very suspicious. Should he break the engagement?

Dating Advice #132 - The Mensch Who Looks

Dating Advice #132 - The Mensch Who Looks "Okay"

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He's the perfect dream. Except for one thing...

Dating Advice #131 - Sabotage Path

Dating Advice #131 - Sabotage Path

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Why can't she get past the first date?

Dating Advice #130 - Genetic Risk

Dating Advice #130 - Genetic Risk

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Marriage within the Jewish community has some genetic risks. Pre-testing is the answer.

Dating Advice #129 - Setting the Pace

Dating Advice #129 - Setting the Pace

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Many people can't process the emotional data generated by too-frequent dating.

Dating Advice #128 - Late Start

Dating Advice #128 - Late Start

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She's never dated seriously, and worries that this 'lack of experience' will hurt her down the road.

Dating Advice # 127 - Chronic Decision

Dating Advice # 127 - Chronic Decision

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She met a great guy, but his medical history has her worried. How should she weigh her emotions against the practicalities?

Dating Advice # 126 - Double Dating

Dating Advice # 126 - Double Dating

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Is it okay to date more than one person at a time?

Dating Advice #125 - Historical Cover-Up

Dating Advice #125 - Historical Cover-Up

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She's moved beyond past mistakes, but feels guilty for not 'telling all' to her potential husband.

Dating Advice #124 - Engagement Panic

Dating Advice #124 - Engagement Panic

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She's engaged and enduring daily anxiety attacks. Is there a way to get to the chuppah without totally losing her mind?

Dating Advice #123 - Getting the Guy to Budge

Dating Advice #123 - Getting the Guy to Budge

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She finds that older singles are socially awkward and commitment-phobes. Is there a solution?

Dating Advice #122 - Full Disclosure

Dating Advice #122 - Full Disclosure

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Two letters regarding the best time and place to discuss a sensitive medical condition.

Dating Advice #121 - Under Mom and Dad's Thumb

Dating Advice #121 - Under Mom and Dad's Thumb

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Her parents monitor her phone calls and scrutinize her dates. What's the chance of a successful courtship?

Dating Advice #120 - Waiting for the 'L' Word

Dating Advice #120 - Waiting for the 'L' Word

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He's got baggage and is holding back emotionally. Her family says it's time to get out. Should she stick around?

Dating Advice #119 - Older and Wiser?

Dating Advice #119 - Older and Wiser?

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He prefers dating women half his age. Is there any reason not to?

Dating Advice #118 - Dowdy and Unkempt

Dating Advice #118 - Dowdy and Unkempt

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She's still wearing the same ill-fitting clothes she wore in high school. Is there any hope?

Dating Advice #117 - Ultimatum Time

Dating Advice #117 - Ultimatum Time

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Oops! She forgot to tell him that she's dating in order to get married.

Dating Advice #116 - Distant Attitude

Dating Advice #116 - Distant Attitude

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Are cold feet a sign of a genuine problem -- or just cold feet?

Dating Advice #115 - Border Conflict

Dating Advice #115 - Border Conflict

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The future in-laws oppose their daughter moving out of town. Is this a control issue?

Dating Advice #114 - Trying to Get it Right

Dating Advice #114 - Trying to Get it Right

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He's still trying to get clear the basic issues of attraction and shared values.

Dating Advice #113 - Check List

Dating Advice #113 - Check List

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Imagine your ideal image of a spouse -- and then discard that image.

Dating Advice #112 - Second Fiddle?

Dating Advice #112 - Second Fiddle?

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If you marry someone with kids, where does that put you on the totem pole?

Dating Maze #111 - Superwoman?

Dating Maze #111 - Superwoman?

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Is it possible to combine a demanding career with motherhood?

Dating Advice #110 - What's the Rush?

Dating Advice #110 - What's the Rush?

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She can't understand all the commotion about a ticking clock.

Dating Advice #109 - The Missing Spark

Dating Advice #109 - The Missing Spark

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Hollywood tells us that a relationship needs romance, fireworks and sizzle. But is that reality?

Dating Advice #108 - Leaving the Nest

Dating Advice #108 - Leaving the Nest

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Some bad energy at her parents' house has him worried. Is this what their future marriage will look like?

Dating Advice #107 - Fertility Fears

Dating Advice #107 - Fertility Fears

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With the clock ticking, she wants to become a mother before finding a husband/father.

Dating Maze #105 - Repairing the Broken Heart

Dating Maze #105 - Repairing the Broken Heart

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Her confidence in men is destroyed. Is she doomed to a life of loneliness?

Dating Advice #104 - Dealing with the Ex-husband

Dating Advice #104 - Dealing with the Ex-husband

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They're both divorced with children, and living in distant cities. Can this work?

Dating Maze #106 - Blind Wedding

Dating Maze #106 - Blind Wedding

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She's never met her fiance, and he refused to say hello to her parents on the telephone. Anyone detect a problem?!

Dating Advice #103 - Getting a Late Start

Dating Advice #103 - Getting a Late Start

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Already well into her 30s, she's now looking for her first serious courtship. And she's terrified.

Dating Advice #102 - Too Many Choices

Dating Advice #102 - Too Many Choices

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When it rains, it pours. He's got 3 women lined up ready to get married. Which one should he choose?

Dating Advice #101 - Break-up Lessons

Dating Advice #101 - Break-up Lessons

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The crash-and-burn of his first long-term courtship is full of important lessons for the future.

Dating Advice #100 - Single Mom

Dating Advice #100 - Single Mom

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She's trying to put the confusion of divorce behind her, manage the kids, and start dating again. Will it work?

Dating Advice #99 -

Dating Advice #99 - "The Ticking Clock"

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At age 31, she wants to finish her education before getting married. Is that a mistake?

Dating Advice 98 - The Tall Handsome Doctor

Dating Advice 98 - The Tall Handsome Doctor

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He's got a promising medical career, but is lost in the dating maze.

Dating Advice 97 - Shaving Off 10 Years

Dating Advice 97 - Shaving Off 10 Years

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He lied about his age in the dating profile, and has yet to fess up. Should she call him on it?

Dating Advice #95 - Sharing the Load

Dating Advice #95 - Sharing the Load

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Is it better to keep score, or just to give freely with no expectation of return?

Dating Advice #94 - Smoldering Ex-Flame

Dating Advice #94 - Smoldering Ex-Flame

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He's still friends with a woman he used to date, and it's making his new date batty.

Dating Advice #92 - Unrequited Love

Dating Advice #92 - Unrequited Love

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He's infatuated with a woman at work. She'd rather ignore him. Now what?

Dating Advice #91 - The Sneakers and Bag-Lunch Date

Dating Advice #91 - The Sneakers and Bag-Lunch Date

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He's terminally cheap. Could that have anything to do with his lack of success in dating?

Dating Advice # 89 -

Dating Advice # 89 - "Jilted!"

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She traveled 7 hours for a date, and he didn't show up. Or maybe he did...

Dating Advice #88 - Does Love Conquer All?

Dating Advice #88 - Does Love Conquer All?

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Her date has a lot of problems, but she is determined to make this work, no matter whatever it takes.