Dating Advice #101 - Break-up Lessons

The crash-and-burn of his first long-term courtship is full of important lessons for the future.

Dating Advice #100 - Single Mom

She's trying to put the confusion of divorce behind her, manage the kids, and start dating again. Will it work?

Dating Advice #99 - "The Ticking Clock"

At age 31, she wants to finish her education before getting married. Is that a mistake?

Dating Advice 98 - The Tall Handsome Doctor

He's got a promising medical career, but is lost in the dating maze.

Dating Advice 97 - Shaving Off 10 Years

He lied about his age in the dating profile, and has yet to fess up. Should she call him on it?

Dating Advice #95 - Sharing the Load

Is it better to keep score, or just to give freely with no expectation of return?

Dating Advice #94 - Smoldering Ex-Flame

He's still friends with a woman he used to date, and it's making his new date batty.

Dating Advice #92 - Unrequited Love

He's infatuated with a woman at work. She'd rather ignore him. Now what?

Dating Advice #91 - The Sneakers and Bag-Lunch Date

He's terminally cheap. Could that have anything to do with his lack of success in dating?

Dating Advice # 89 - "Jilted!"

She traveled 7 hours for a date, and he didn't show up. Or maybe he did...

Dating Advice #88 - Does Love Conquer All?

Her date has a lot of problems, but she is determined to make this work, no matter whatever it takes.

Dating Advice #86 - Parents at War

His parents are convinced the wedding should be cancelled, and they're going to war to prove it.

Dating Advice #85 - Lack of Communication

Her boyfriend doesn't listen carefully enough, and she loses her cool. How can she keep control while getting her needs met?

Dating Advice #83 - Too Good To Be True

Projecting an image that is too cool and successful, may send your dates running away.

Dating Advice #82 - Glaring Red Flags

He may be a narcissist, or a control freak. In the meantime, he treats her like a queen and she doesn't want it to end. What's the long-term prognosis?

Dating Advice #81 - Pre-Occupation Hazards

When someone is pre-occupied with an outside relationship, is there room for dating to fit in?

Dating Advice #80 - Transpo Etiquette

The guy acted like a boor and now she wants to know: Is he a diamond in the rough, or just too selfish to care.

Dating Advice #79 - Parents at Home

She's lonely, but can't imagine getting married since it will mean leaving her parents alone. How can she deal with this guilt-trip?

Dating Advice #78 - The Perfect Fit

She is the Super-Woman, but can't find the Super-Man. The clock is ticking and she's getting impatient...

Dating Advice #77 - Excess 'Ex' Baggage

He says he loves her, but he still seems emotionally tied to his ex-wife. Is it worth sticking around?

Dating Advice #76 - Why Doesn't He Call?

After one date, the guys never call back. Is it her weight -- or some deeper message she's putting out?

Dating Advice #75 - International Hook-up

It's the old problem of knowing when to take the leap. But with a new twist -- he's on the other side of the globe.

Dating Advice 74 - No Second Date!

After one date, he's had enough. But what's the best way to let her know that?

Dating Advice #73 - Compromising Values

She wants a Jewish family, but she's fallen for a non-Jewish guy. Now it's time to make the big decision.

Dating Advice #72 - Breaking the Barrier

Singles in their 40s have a unique set of dating challenges. Sometimes the answer is found by looking in the mirror.

Dating Advice #71 -- Emotional Connectivity

These newlyweds never laid the foundations for emotional intimacy and sharing deep thoughts. Now how do they start the process?

Dating Advice #70 - Off-Line Maneuvers

Online, the light is green. But making the transition to the real world has been a dismal failure.

Dating Advice #68 - "El Cheapo?"

She's looking for generosity, but he's not financially forthcoming. How does she deal with these dynamics?

Dating Advice #67 - Newlywed Blues

Now that she's married, she's thinking back how life was better as a single. Is there a way out of these doldrums?

Dating Advice #66 - When Will I See You Again?

Two readers, same problem: They can't get someone to commit to the next date!

Dating Advice #64 - Spiritual Chasm

She's leaning toward traditional Jewish practice. He's an atheist. Is there hope for them together?

Dating Advice #63 - Fear of Abandonment

He's afraid that she'll stop dating him. What's the psychology behind this fear -- and how can he fix it?

Dating Advice #61 - Missing the 'Goodbye' Word

She has two guys on her mind. One of them never calls. Should she take that as a hint?

Dating Advice #60 - Struck Out Again!

He pushed hard for a breakthrough, but she backed off. The pattern repeats. Now he's burned out.

Dating Advice #59 - Revealing the Painful Past

There's a lot lurking beneath the surface. The big question is: When do I let it all out?

Dating Advice #57 - Troubling Behavior

Anger, flirting, irresponsibility. The warning signs are fast and furious. But she still wants to hang in there.

Dating Advice #56 - Divorce Details

When dating a divorcee, how and when do you get details on the failed prior marriage?

Dating Advice #55 - Double Dating

Juggling multiple dating partners is tricky business. But is it ethical?

Dating Advice #54 - Over-40 Blues

She wants to marry a Jewish guy, but at this stage of frustration has turned to the Christian dating scene. Is something wrong here?

Dating Advice #53 - Unraveling the Past

The pattern is not a good one. It stretches back to childhood. How does she climb out of this hole?

Dating Advice #52 - Flip-Flopped Dating Life

When she pursues, they run away. And when she's not interested, they fawn. Has someone got this backwards?

Dating Advice #51 - Building the Emotional Investment Portfolio

These newlyweds are trying to build emotional intensity. Do they have the same needs? How is it done?

Dating Advice #50 - High School Hangover

The pickin's are slim enough as it is. And now that someone's finally interesting, her friend is giving her a guilt trip.

Dating Advice #49 - What's Wrong, Doc?

His poor track record leaves him wondering: Is there something fundamentally wrong? Therapy seems to be the answer.

Dating Advice #48 - Blind Date Etiquette

He's tired of expensive dinners that lead nowhere. For the first date, isn't there a better way?

Dating Advice #47 - Five Year Span

Things are going great, but there's a 5-year age difference. So what's the big deal?

Dating Advice #46 - First Date Jitters

On paper, he's a great guy. But he can't seem to break into the world of dating. What's the problem?

Dating Advice #45 - Too Much Tension

He's working 80 hours a week, and it shows on his face. No wonder he's having trouble meeting the right woman.

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