Torah reading: Behar
10 Iyar 5768 / 15 May 2008
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by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's waiting for the strong emotional connection to develop.
Dating Maze #255 -Ruddlerless
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's under pressure to get married, but this guy lacks confidence and direction.

Dating Maze #254 -Too Picky?
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Still not married?! What is she waiting for?

Dating Maze #253 -The Fifties Dilemma
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
All the guys are passing her by for women 20 years younger. Is there a solution?

Dating Maze #252 -Length of Courtship
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
The pressure to become engaged can cause an unhappy marriage, or an unnecessary break-up.

Dating Maze #251 -Pre-Marital Counseling
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
They've been arguing the past six years, and now their wedding is coming up. Help!

Dating Maze #250 - Something Is Off
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
He's tied up with graduate school and her emotional needs aren't being met. Conflict!

Dating Advice #249 - Interrupted Courtship
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Geographic restrictions have meant the fire has not caught on. A cause for concern?

Dating Advice #248 - Happily Single
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
All her friends are getting married, but she likes her life just the way it is.

Dating Advice #247 - Magnetic Force
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's so crazy about him -- but unsure whether it's genuine or just infatuation.

Dating Advice #246 - Perfect on Paper
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Her family thinks she's crazy for not grabbing this guy.

Dating Maze #245 - Dead Engine
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
He doesn't call, and doesn't care. Is the courtship over?

Dating Maze #244 - Turbulent Childhood
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Does having dysfunctional parents mean he'll become that type of adult?

Dating Maze #243 - E-Friend Fiasco
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
When her marriage went dry, she went looking online. And then the trouble really started.

Dating Maze #242 - Unproductive Patterns
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Whenever a relationship should be turning serious, she hits a brick wall.

Dating Maze #241 - Intellectual Inequality
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Can she build a life with a man who is not providing intellectual stimulation?

Dating Maze #240 - Career Mother
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Will an advanced career impact her dreams of motherhood?

Dating Maze #239 - Too Big a Gap?
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Mom is worried about being the same age as her future son-in-law!

Dating Maze #238 - Stuck on Him
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Months after break-up, this guy is still at the forefront of her emotional thoughts.

Dating Maze #237 - Younger Sibling First?
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
How to handle when a younger sibling precedes you in marriage.

Dating Maze #236 - Pre-Wedding Jitters
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
With two weeks to go, she's still wondering, "Is this the one?"

Dating Maze #235 - Unrequited Love
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
How to end things with a guy who seems overly-attached.

Dating Maze #234 - Marriage Avoidance Syndrome
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's not willing to join her many friends that are getting hitched. What to do?

Dating Maze #233 - Six Dating Snags
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Can't get past the second date? Here's why.

Dating Maze #232 - Cross-Cultural Dating
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
He's Sefardi. She's Ashkenazi. Is there a problem?

Dating Maze #231 - Dating a Divorced Dad
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's locked in a power struggle with a 7-year-old.

Dating Maze #230 - 8 Rules for the Next Date
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Whether you want to have another date with her, or not, here's how to do it.

Dating Maze #229 - Looking for Gorgeous
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's a wonderful young woman, but doesn't 'fit his image.'

Dating Maze #228 - Work it Out Later?
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
They can't reach a basic lifestyle agreement. Will love solve everything?

Dating Maze #227 - Loving Insults
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
He says she's beautiful and smart, but also fat and ugly.

Dating Maze #226 - Getting Over the Past
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's adjusted her moral compass, but history is haunting her.

Dating Maze #225 - What's Wrong?
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's plagued by a nagging feeling that "something is off."

Dating Maze #224 - Mom's Ultimatum
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
It's time for her to grow up and find herself.

Dating Maze #223 - Emotional Shut-Down
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Things are getting serious. So where's the strong electric vibe?

Dating Maze #222 - Getting on with Life
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's stuck on a man who's headed for a dead end. Should she join him down that road?

Dating Maze #221 - Help! Part Two
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Here we go again: He patiently goes through the courtship process, and then things get stuck.

Dating Maze #220 - Long Distance Break-Up
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
After a few months of distance dating, she's hesitant to end things on the phone.

Dating Maze #219 - What's the Prognosis
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
After being diagnosed with MS, she may lose the man of her dreams.

Dating Maze #218 - Second Wife Scenario
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She guided him through mourning over his first wife. Can she now switch to a romantic role?

Dating Maze #217 - Bickering In-Laws
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
His family is argumentative, arrogant and controlling. Should she be worried?

Dating Advice #216 - Adjustment Period
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
With some new changes in lifestyle, she needs to take a break to re-orient her philosophy of dating.

Dating Advice #215 - The Pre-Nuptial Pact
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Should a second marriage contain financial clauses?

Dating Advice #214 - Ultimatum!
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
After three years of waiting for him to propose, her patience has run out.

Dating Advice #213 - Abroad and Alone
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Her marriage is a total disaster. Can it be salvaged?

Dating Advice #212 - The Negative Parents
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
What to do when Mom and Dad reject your choice of who to marry.

Dating Advice #211 - Wanted: Man with Roots
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She is becoming more observant, and wants a guy who will lead the way.

Dating Advice #210 - Relax and Enjoy
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
A formula for getting past the burning issue of chemistry.

Dating Advice #209 - Time Out
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
They seem headed for marriage, but what they need now is a 6-month break.

Dating Advice #208 - The Irreconcilable Difference
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Everything looks like a match -- except for their view of materialism.

Dating Advice #207 - Double Betrayal
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
With friends dating behind her back, she's lost some ability to trust.

Dating Advice #206 - Married Students
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Will the emotional and financial demands of marriage preclude completing her education?

Dating Advice #205 - Monster Fights
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's wondering if married life will be marred by her recurrent emotional explosions.

Dating Advice #204 - Orientation Shift
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Recent dating experience has matured him. But has it made him ready for marriage?

Dating Advice #203 - Starting Over
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
After a few years of downward spiral, can things be resurrected?

Dating Advice #202 - The Exclusive Step
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
What's the best way to find out if things are headed toward marriage, and not a dead end?

Dating Advice #201 - The Religious-Secular Gap
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Can a secular Jew and a religious Jew find lifetime bliss together?

Dating Advice #200 - Spinning Wheels
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
He claims not to feel "oohs and ahhs that rock the soul." Should she keep pushing?

Dating Advice #199 - No Surprises!
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
When spouse-hunting, how to ensure that what you see is what you get.

Dating Advice #198 - Commitment Phobia?
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Two near-misses are pointing to a problem. What's at the root?

Dating Advice #197 - The Working Wife?
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
In her family, the man was always the bread-winner. Should she insist on the same?

Dating Advice #196 - Of Fireworks and Butterflies
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
How can she know if he's the right one?

Dating Advice #195 - Disappearance in Cyberspace
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
A tale of dot-come dating gone awry.

Dating Advice #194 - Over My Dead Body!
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She thinks she's found the one, but Mom is out to stop it.

Dating Advice #193 - Round and Round
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
After seven years of constant break-ups, she's wondering whether to give it another chance.

Dating Advice #192 - Six Strikes
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She suspects he may not be faithful. Are six previous marriages any clue?

Dating Advice #191 - The Negative Mantra
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She lived through her parents' bitter divorce. Now she's wondering if any man can be trusted.

Dating Advice #190 - Eternal Limbo?
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Everything was going great, until it came time for him to pop the question.

Dating Advice #189 - Chilling Out
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She wants to cool it. Should he wait for her, or just let go?

Dating Advice #188 - Military Marriage?
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
She's Air Force, he's Army. Can they find a common ground?

Dating Advice #187 - Soul Mate Split
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
After years of happy marriage, he announces: "You're not my soul mate."

Dating Advice #186 - Thrice Burned
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
On the brink of engagement, she bolts.

Dating Advice #185 - Senior Search
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Can an octogenarian find her soul mate?

Dating Advice #184 - Platonic Dead-End
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
He says she's the greatest woman in the world -- but he ain't getting' married!

Dating Advice #183 - Checkin' Him Out
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
A process of pre-screening your dates can save you lots of time, effort and heart-ache.

Dating Advice #182 - Dating Overdose
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
Her emotions are on short circuit. Can anything save this couple's future?

Dating Advice #181 - Growing Up
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
How to jump-start the engines -- when you want to get married but don't feel emotionally ready.

Dating Advice #180 - Arctic Turn-Off
by Rosie Einhorn, L.C.S.W. and Sherry Zimmerman, J.D., M.Sc.
He can't understand why a woman wouldn't give up everything familiar to live in the deep cold.

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