A Candle for My Father
by Judy GruenThoughts on lighting the 20th yartzeit candle.
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I idolized my dad and resented him. As I’ve untangled our relationship, I adopted his passion: Talmud study.
My father’s unconditional love gave me the feeling that no matter what, everything will be okay.
The shocking discovery of half of my family tree, nearly a century later.
I loved Passover. It was the swishing of brooms in surround sound that confounded me.
When a mother succumbs to cancer in old age and a father faces his own mortality, a son experiences the blessings of a good shiva.
The legacy of Chana Berkovits, Rabbi Yitzchak Berkovits’ mother.
The grandchild of Holocaust survivors looks forward… and back.
When my kids planted etrog trees, we didn’t know we’d discover the miracle – and precariousness – of life.
As Father's Day approaches, I am haunted by one most vivid and moving scene from my childhood.
Born with terminal kidney disfunction, each moment with him was precious.
Once I began to truly appreciate the blessings in my life, I received another – a baby girl.
Although my father has died, he remains an active, guiding influence in my life.
Sometimes I wonder if my non-observant mother is more religious than me.
My father let go of his pain, his grief, his questions and was able to do what he loved best: to give.
My mother’s motto is: the way to keep your heart in shape is to love more.
Chanukah reminds us that we are not the same as everyone else.
The challenge of observing the anniversary of the death of someone never born.
Spanning three generations, I want to give you some very special gifts that are close to my heart.
The last few months of my pregnancy, I spent more time agonizing about the bris than about labor itself.
Our most significant achievements are formed somewhere deeply hidden.
How to make the most of the 2011 heat wave without moving from your computer or air conditioner.
We were on opposite poles: her life was drawing to a close and mine was about to begin.
Sharing my pain and fear was easy. Becoming a mother left me speechless.
As a child I longed for the majestic. Watching the royal wedding, I realized I found it.
In a world of Facebook and Twitter, is anyone special? Preparing for Passover I discovered an answer.
Teaching a child to understand God’s grand eternal plan.
The diagnosis was devastating, but we needed to stop mourning our daughter who was still alive and begin living with SMA.
This year, finally, my family will join the ranks of those paragons of virtue, those models of creative efficiency: The Ones with the Themes.
Since the divorce, my ex-husband won't have anything to do with our sons. Is it wrong to hope for a miracle?