Heroes of Israel: Sherri & Seth Mandell
Bringing light from the darkest cave.
Published:
August 16, 2008
Directed by Shoot East
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(252) Chana, June 11, 2009 3:23 PM
If only the rest of the world could see this
(251) Anna, June 7, 2009 4:12 PM
Sherri & Seth Mandell
(250) Yakov, May 6, 2009 3:54 AM
I agree with You nr(248) Yosef
(249) Anonymous, April 29, 2009 12:57 PM
Why Israel survives with a smile
JUst listen to these uplifting stories and what these tragedies have done to the people. We only read of the hate and rationale of those that insist that Israel doesn't have sadness and the Jews never suffer at the hands of others. G-d bless those that learned to make LEMONADE out of lemons and help others in possitive ways.
(248) Yosef, April 28, 2009 8:08 PM
How can we donate to this camp?
(247) Ester, April 28, 2009 2:38 PM
Sherri and Seth Mandell
(246) Joyce Matkowsky, April 28, 2009 11:52 AM
(245) Wendy, April 28, 2009 2:21 AM
beautiful, inspiration for all Om Yisrael
(244) Arlene Swartzman, April 28, 2009 1:03 AM
Bless you, your good work, and the memory of your son, Koby
(243) Aliza, April 26, 2009 3:13 PM
(242) aluma amuyal, March 25, 2009 3:16 PM
Iready your book and couldn't stop crying
(241) Paul Curtis, March 23, 2009 1:12 PM
sympathy
(240) Bob Kaplan, January 30, 2009 2:24 PM
My thoughts are with you
I also lost my son in America on a rafting trip. My wife & i set up a scholarship fund to assist kids in travelling to Israel. My daughter Jennifer set up a non profit organization called Friendsway.Org to assist families and especially 5 to 18 year olders in dealing with their grief. Good luck in your program to help others.
(239) Ruth, January 30, 2009 8:03 AM
My heart was touched with your grief,as was the heart of Almighty G-D .LOVE IN His NAME.Ruth
(238) Val, January 28, 2009 9:41 PM
Thank you for sharing.
(237) gayle meyers, January 28, 2009 5:23 AM
i honour you so deeply wth your blessed vision
(236) Michael Krauss, January 26, 2009 2:11 PM
May GOD bless you. You, your son an his friend diserve a place in heaven. One day, not so far, our Mashiach will come and bring peace to human being, like you. One day, GOD will take away all tears you have had, and probably still have. Untill than we won´t have many extraordinary people like you. Again, GOD bless you.
(235) Yehudit, January 26, 2009 12:30 PM
Defining Kiddush Hashem
Koby's tragic passing was in Kiddush Hashem, and so is the way you have chosen to continue to elevate his soul and others. By choosing the path of joy over despair, you bring the light of truth and emuna into this world, and with it abundant blessings for the entire Jewish People. Thank you both for being true heroes of Israel.
(234) Mazal, January 14, 2009 8:52 PM
Thank you
(233) Avi, January 13, 2009 2:55 PM
Thank you. May Hashem give you nechama.
There is a lot to learn from you, in terms of yirat shamayim, in terms of emunah, in terms of bravery and love. May Hashem give you the strength to contine your great work, and may He give us all a great bracha that this type of work should no longer be needed. May you find a measure of nechama in your bringing of such bracha into the World, and may the holy neshamot of Koby and his friend Yosef continue to soar to higher and higher levels. Hashem Yevarech et amo baShalom.
(232) Myra, January 10, 2009 9:20 AM
Beautiful
(230) Moshe, December 20, 2008 2:59 AM
Like the Phoenix that rose from the ashes
(229) nitza, December 9, 2008 2:31 PM
terrible tragedy
(228) Anonymous, December 8, 2008 1:30 PM
(227) MIKI SEGALL, November 25, 2008 2:45 AM
pity there are so few of thse wonderful people
(226) Elisa, November 23, 2008 7:17 AM
You are incredible people, as parents I have no idea how you have managed to overcome such tragedy. To be able to transform this horror into an amazing act of chesed shows the true nature and spirit of the jewish people. May you be comforted by Hashem in your pain and grief, and may we all merit shalom soon. You are an inspiration to me and my family. Thank you
(225) Anonymous, November 22, 2008 9:52 PM
you are the heroes
(224) Anonymous, November 21, 2008 11:45 AM
I am sorry
I think I remember this lady was at a meeting in J-salem with Peres and Palestinian leaders and some American TV show several years ago. I remember her asking both sides why did this happen when will this stop. I remember getting VERY angry at BOTH sides for the answers they gave. Both sides basically justified themselves. the I-side said that is why we attack and we build walls and we put them in jails. The P-side said well we have kids being killed too, so live with it, now you know what it looks like. I had wished one side (preferably the P-side MY Side) had said something to the effect, "Madam, that was a horrible and terrible thing that happened to your child and to your family and to us all. There is NO excuse, No reason, No justification, No explanation for it. Let us work together to make sure it will not happen again. Please forgive us this terrible act. Let us just say that we have looked into our souls and have seen hell." But no one said anything like that! No one seems to have done anything like that! May I say what my country men should have said so long ago.
(223) BAT SHEVA, November 21, 2008 11:29 AM
KOL HAKAVUD
(221) Abe, November 21, 2008 10:29 AM
Sherri and Seth , Chiken Lady, Shlomo and Rabbi Lau
(220) Anonymous, November 20, 2008 4:17 PM
Sherri and Seth Mandell
(219) Israel "Izzy", November 20, 2008 12:15 PM
Truly Eternal Essence...the Blessing of Jewry
Blessings, Shalom & Strength to you and your families Mr. & Mrs. Mandell. Your response, your resilience, your transparency and most of all your faith in HaShem as well as His grace in & through you amidst this great loss yet again exemplifies the essence of heaven imbedded in JEW-EL-RY!! You are an amazing couple. Vinaka Vakalevu (Fijian: Thank You VERY Much) for your witness. G-d Bless & restore to you the "years that the cankerworm has stolen...!" AMEN! AMEN!
(218) Lindy, November 20, 2008 11:04 AM
Thank you!
(217) Miriam ferber, November 19, 2008 12:02 PM
(216) eleanor pul, November 13, 2008 3:32 PM
mr and mrs mandell my heart goes out to you and your family. from the first time i heard about what had happened to your wonderful son and his friend i have never been the same the cruelty of some people is unbelieveable why did they have to kill thoses two innocent children may hashem bless you and keep you and the rest of israel safe and my the enemies of israel be destroyed
(214) Anonymous, November 7, 2008 11:27 AM
G-d Bless you!!
There really are no words to what happened other than may Hashem bring Moshiach soon so this happens no more!! You two are truly an example of an incredible pillar of strength and love!! Turning your tragedy around to bring so much joy and comfort to so many others is such a gift!! Your son would be so proud of you!! We hope the parents of the other boy are comforted as well!!
(213) Kiki, November 4, 2008 11:10 AM
Thank you for all of the smiles!
Dear Sherri & Seth, I am originally from Israel and now live in America, however all of my family lives in Israel and I pray for them and all of us on a daily basis. As a mother of a 13 year old daughter (Briana) I can not even begin to understand the complexity of what you have been through losing your angel, Koby especially at such a tender young age. I lost my father to murder when I was just 17, and it took me a very long time to forgive and smile again. I want you to know that what you are giving these children will last a life time and maybe, just maybe they won't be so bitter because you taught them how to smile again. So, thank you for all the smiles that you give and get. I wish you all much continued success and love. May all of your dreams come true. Yours truly, Kiki
(212) David, November 1, 2008 9:00 AM
Sherri and Seth: if Koby was alive, he'd be proud of you
(211) Ed Brutman, October 30, 2008 12:14 PM
You are doing a wonderful service for all Jews and Non-Jews around the world
(210) Chaya D, October 29, 2008 9:57 PM
I am just a 16 year old living securely in America and your story hit me hard. I am amazed on how you are able to take the intensity and channel it for good. It shows how any emotion and any situation can be utilized for the good. I want to thank you for having the impact that you had on me and when anything good comes out of your speech, which I'm sure will happen, you get the credit and you will be rewarded greatly for it. My deepest sympathies and admiration.
(209) Tiby Eilen, October 28, 2008 8:14 AM
Your beautiful response emanates from your Jewish goodness.
(208) Scott D. Elam, October 27, 2008 10:51 PM
Shalom Seth and Sherri...I know your pain.
On September 1, 2000 my son Michael Clyde Elam was murdered. He was 24 years old and had 3 sons of his own at the time. Jacob, the youngest was just 2 weeks old. Jeremiah and Nathaniel were 4 and 3 years old.
Other than the strengh God gives me to live with the pain you both described so well, the most inspirational thing I have experienced was the testimony in this film.
Yashar Koach for the work you are doing for those Mothers and their familes. Toda raba for your uplifting spirits.
(207) lachrisha smith, October 27, 2008 2:28 PM
thank you both
(206) miriam, October 25, 2008 6:58 PM
(205) eli, October 23, 2008 4:57 AM
(204) tzivia, October 16, 2008 8:24 PM
everything is for the good
(203) Shoshana, October 12, 2008 10:05 AM
Inner strngth
(202) Lee, October 10, 2008 3:48 PM
(201) Sherry, October 10, 2008 11:47 AM
What an awesome thing you are doing.
(200) HISDELIGHT, October 10, 2008 9:57 AM
What a wonderful thing you do out of your own loss
(199) Esther Rochelle, September 29, 2008 10:44 AM
Moved To Tears!
(198) Guila Illouz, September 25, 2008 7:22 PM
inspring couple
It takes a great person to be able to turn something so horrible and sad to something happy and positive.
May Hashem bless this amazing couple with all the blessings in the world and may He helps them succeed with all of their projects that they have created since Koby and Yosef''s passing....
Shana tova!
(197) joel, September 23, 2008 9:01 PM
(196) Anonymous, September 20, 2008 10:46 PM
Inspiring!
(195) Seth Mandell, September 18, 2008 5:26 AM
Memorial to the other boy, Yosef
(194) Anonymous, September 15, 2008 10:22 AM
(193) Anonymous, September 15, 2008 4:08 AM
MAY YOUR FAMILY BE BLESSED
(192) STEVE, September 11, 2008 11:28 AM
LOVE IS ALWAYS GREATER
These, OUR people represent our story throughout historical ages. Real good, real kindness and deep understanding became traditions which have always carried us through, no matter how difficult the test. THESE people have themselves received GOD's blessing, they in their turn share that blessing as lesson for us all.... As the son and grandson of Holocost SURVIVORS, I've experienced great loss, great pain and yes great suffering. All of this, including these bitter-sweet stories have made me who I am today.. NOW, today we are faced with fanatic extremists who threaten the gains made over many years. Fanatic radical Muslims and so called christians are falling backward. Their very religions obey the cry of FALSE PROPHETS...HOW long oh lord our GOD? How long this time until the love of GOD, the love of human-(kind) is restored? People like Doctor Chicken Lady and the Mandell's demonstrate our race, the one race which our creator recognizes, the HUMAN RACE at it's penultimate best...May the cup of love overflow to those in Palenstine-may they know great shame followed by the pain of great wisdom and understanding that we all stand united before our maker...
(191) WESLEY DODT, September 11, 2008 1:56 AM
HEROES
(190) Robert L Barnett, September 10, 2008 9:01 AM
I too lost a son, but by an accident.
(189) Anonymous, September 9, 2008 11:12 PM
mandell
(188) Miriam Tyberg, September 9, 2008 7:13 PM
Touched deep within the soul
The Chicken Lady and the Mandell's stories show the spirit of the Jew. Tortured physically and emotionally, we rise above. We connect and bring light, love and hope to unfathomable events. These heroes are people I will remember when I feel challenged. They are bigger than life. Beneath the ordinary surface lies a depth, and a goodness that is hard to describe.
(187) BERNARD, September 9, 2008 10:31 AM
SHERRI -SETH MANDELL
(186) KayAnn Engleman, September 9, 2008 7:36 AM
Who am I
(185) Lisa klein, September 9, 2008 5:14 AM
Moved To Tears
(184) Rosemary, September 9, 2008 2:49 AM
Inspiring
(183) Daniel Jacob Rosen, September 9, 2008 2:41 AM
The greatest family Nightmare into mass Mitzvot
(182) helena schipper, September 8, 2008 4:48 PM
tears come out with these stories
(181) Steve & Claudine, September 8, 2008 4:04 PM
Goodness to G-dliness
(180) Anonymous, September 8, 2008 3:16 PM
(179) leah, September 8, 2008 2:12 PM
The power of one
(178) Paula Fleming, September 8, 2008 12:47 PM
Inspiration to find a way to replace evil with good
(177) Leah, September 8, 2008 11:16 AM
Evil transmuted to goodness - with G-d's help.
(176) RENE, September 4, 2008 11:41 AM
this act of giving back , shows what true judaism is all about and show to the world what torah is all about !
it is these kinds of actions that , that result from a life of torah, and show to the world the contrast between the indoctrination of palestinian children by their parents to grow up to become murderers of innocents,and that of devoted jewish parents who turned their grief not into hate but,rose above hate to turn the sorrow of their loss into a mitzvah of helping others ! may they go from strength to strength.
(175) Ronit Hakakian, September 3, 2008 7:36 PM
AMAZING!!!
(174) Subhana, September 3, 2008 6:42 PM
(173) Michelle Abukasis, September 3, 2008 2:29 AM
True Beauty
After seeing what they do for other children and mothers affected by the cumbersome pain of loosing their child or siblings. Thanks for showing me and others despite the ugliness of tragedy you can bring joy, hope, and love back into their eyes and ours. Even though I live in Alaska I would love to help whenever I am in Israel.
(171) Rhonda Stock, September 2, 2008 11:22 AM
You two did the most amazing, positive, and caring thing I can imagine, it must have taken all the energy you had left to do this. Hatzlacha!
(170) Sara Mandell, August 31, 2008 10:38 AM
You Turned Your Grief to Comforting Others
(169) monique mendelovici, August 30, 2008 8:43 PM
deeply moved
Deeply moved by what you are doing.it is really wonderful to have all these people coming together and being able to talk about the most terrible pain: the loss of a child,the more when they are murdered.Family and friends don't want to hurt the parents and don't talk anymore about the lost child.Most of us parents want to talk about them for the rest of their lives,every memory makes the child come back for a second...I remember when Kobi and his friend died ..
(168) Shimon Pepper, August 29, 2008 4:56 PM
Hashem Yerachem
(167) steve peshkin, August 29, 2008 12:20 PM
It's a Mitzvah
I think what Sherri and Seth are doing took a tremendous amount of courage and is filling a void that existed. I was in Isreal as a Sar-El during the first Gulf war. On many occasions I was able to see the emptiness in the eyes of the survivors. Helping them to learn how to grieve is most important.
(166) rose keller, August 28, 2008 7:48 AM
I feel compelled to help in some small,meaningful way
(165) Tere, August 27, 2008 7:23 PM
(164) diane estrada, August 26, 2008 9:58 PM
(163) awraham harel, August 26, 2008 9:26 PM
very necessary to show - thank you
(162) Sherri and Seth Mandell, August 26, 2008 2:48 PM
Thanks for your comments
We want to thank you for all your comments. We are both deeply touched by the support and emotional connection you all expressed. For those who asked how to contact us or contribute to The Koby Mandell Foundation, we can be contacted at info@kobymandell.org or through our website at www.kobymandell.org Sherri and Seth Mandell P.S. Sherri's book, "The Blessing of a Broken Heart" is availble through Amazon.
(161) Frank, August 26, 2008 2:28 PM
Inspirational
(160) Celia, August 26, 2008 4:47 AM
(159) Seezi Sewagaba, August 26, 2008 2:48 AM
(156) Joe Schwartz, August 25, 2008 12:42 PM
Who is like your people
Kobi was not only murdered. He was brutally mutilated, using sharp stones blow by blow.
And the Mandells? Instead of rage and hate, they pour their hearts into an ongoing activity of love. Look at the difference between peoples O G-d! You have chosen us because we are indeed a treasure among the nations. Who is like your nation Israel a unique nation in the world.
(154) hilda sandak-lewin, August 25, 2008 3:20 AM
You are good, beautiful people.
(152) Paul, August 25, 2008 12:50 AM
suggest hero
(151) Rose Proctor, August 24, 2008 8:01 PM
my HEART'S desire is to visit Israel & that may never be. Thank you for 'bringing' Israel to me. I love you, Israel!
(149) Estrella Entebi, August 24, 2008 1:06 PM
(148) Zecharia Dor-Shav, August 24, 2008 12:54 PM
mission impossible - but done
(147) Raphael Wilson, August 24, 2008 5:59 AM
How Hashem blesses us, the Jewish people
As Jewish people and Israelis in particular, we are so blessed by Hashem to be able to turn such a senseless tragedy into something so positive and meaningful. Our history repeats this over and over. Sherri and Seth Mandel, my heart goes out to you. I have untold admiration for you to turn this personal tragedy into something that touches and improves the lives of so many of our people, and will continue to do so into the future. May Hashem continue to bless you, and give you strength. Can the murders and their people point to anything such as this story, which helps to make the world a better place?
(145) Rev.Charles F.Vance, August 23, 2008 10:20 PM
"My heart is broken"
(144) ARTHUR PEARL, August 23, 2008 5:38 PM
giving at its most magnificent aspect.
(143) Grethe Anita Oremo/Norway, August 23, 2008 3:28 PM
You are precious!
(140) mark, August 22, 2008 10:45 PM
War and Violence will never solve problems
When will all the nations of the world learn to solve their disputes by peaceful means, rather than by War or Violence? That was the question of my generation in the 60's..did Martin Luther King Jr. give his life for nothing? I recommend that people of all faiths go and visit the King Museum in Atlanta Georgia and learn about the hatred that the African American Community in our South and many other regions of the USA endured in the 20th century. Jews enthusiatically participated in their struggle for equality because of the inhuman and horrible suffering caused by the perpetrators of the Holocaust, blindes by their religious bigotry, hatred and intolerenceof other fellow human beings.
(138) Herb Walter, August 22, 2008 4:27 PM
Inspiring
(137) Suzanne Goldman, August 22, 2008 4:26 PM
A Wonderful Film
(136) David Cohen-Crumpton, August 22, 2008 3:49 PM
I am so deeply touched......
(133) chris, August 22, 2008 5:26 AM
thank you
(132) Monika Kaufmann, August 22, 2008 2:38 AM
Two wonderful persons
(130) rivka, August 22, 2008 12:12 AM
divine purpose and the silver lining
Thank you so much i am so deeply touched many times we as people have horrible things happen to us and we have a continual pitty party that sometimes lasts for years, and it is truely touching to see how through the loss of those two young men (of blessed memories)are healing others lives that have been affected by this senseless hate. I still can not say that I understand every thing that has happend or will in this world, but one thing i do know is that G-D is in control and i can see much much good as a result. May H-shem bless your camp and give you plenty of wisdom and finances.
(129) daniel, August 22, 2008 12:05 AM
thank you for strength
what you are doing is something more than wonderfull. to help people in need when it must feel someone has turned thier back to you is verry difficult. I am only 21 years old and I play football in college and I dont get a chance to really see how bad things can become. I have not been through such trageties fortunately, but this video put a tear in my eye and I thank you for what you are doing.
(128) Anonymous, August 21, 2008 10:27 PM
Tremendous Kiddush Hashem
Watching this brings me back to the recognition of what our purpose is in this world - we are not in control of it and we must use our KOCHOS, our strengths that Hashem has gifted to us to elevate this world which is so full of evil and physicality. We should all take this to heart and make the world - ourselves - better, especially before Rosh Hashana, so we can finally bring Moshiach!
(127) Anonymous, August 21, 2008 9:28 PM
To be where no storms come
When my wife and I buried our first daughter in a far away city from where we live now, it seemed unbelievable and surreal, at the time, that events such as those were actually taking place. We couldn't believe what was happening to us and what had happened to her. A baby on her first day in this world, gone in an instant. For no reason, no explanation, just sorrow. So we sat, mostly alone, with our empty cradle. We didn't know many other Jews. My best friend came to my door and tried to get in, but I couldn't open it because we couldn't be seen, we couldn't be approached, we didn't want to share our grief with anyone. Finally he said to me with tears in his eyes, "Don't be bitter." So, my friends, I've tried not to be. And I've sometimes thought how much worse it would be for parents of older children, if those children were also lost - regardless of circumstance. The promise, the wisdom, the dreams, all of it lost. What can come of events like these? Only G-d knows, I suppose. So, Seth and Sherri, for you to create this wonderful camp for children is truly a blessing from G-d. And just as I pray that my daughter is now in a place where no storms come, I sincerely hope that your son has also come to that place where the hand of G-d keeps our children safe forever.
(126) Anonymous, August 21, 2008 8:49 PM
(125) Esther, August 21, 2008 8:29 PM
BEAUTIFUL
(124) Butch, August 21, 2008 8:16 PM
Very sad but wonderful...
(123) sandra Cowan, August 21, 2008 8:05 PM
Bless you both
Truly inspirational I am humbled by your attitude to such a tragic situation. My son is a British soldier in the IDF and I am contantly aware of the fragility of life. You perpetuate your son,s life by this wonderful work. May hashem bless you and all of those in fear of terror and grant Israel peace.
(122) Judy, August 21, 2008 7:05 PM
Need address to send donation
Losing a child to cancer has changed my life. I know that my bringing smiles to the faces of children through my music is a way of keeping her alive. She would not want it any other way...I do it for the children, for me and my wonderful daughter. I would like to make a donation to this camp. I applaud your strength and determination to bring happiness to others who have lost a loved one senselessly.
(121) Anonymous, August 21, 2008 6:18 PM
Thank you for bringing light
(120) Anonymous, August 21, 2008 4:54 PM
I can empathize with your grief and recovery.
(119) jahleel soriano, August 21, 2008 3:09 PM
(118) Anonymous, August 21, 2008 3:07 PM
Giving Back
(117) Miriam, August 21, 2008 1:59 PM
Hashem is with us
The profound words of Mrs. Mandell reflect her soul being able to experience personal tragedy without losing closeness with Hashem: "I felt there had to be a G-d who had a much greater understanding than I could ever have because I felt so limited." Instead of rejecting Hashem and her newly adopted country, the land of Israel, she and her husband chose life over death as Hashem has commanded of us.
(116) Anonymous, August 21, 2008 12:57 PM
Amazing and Uplifting
(115) Naomi Kubitsky, August 21, 2008 12:00 PM
(114) tova wald, August 21, 2008 11:07 AM
An outpouring of emotion
This terrible tragedy is the ultimate test ss the parents of Kobi Mandel brutally murdered. It's a test of faith, to endure yet to overcome and achieve. Above all our souls are bound together. They communicate and give strength that is indestructable. When things look hopeless and we break down, our souls and those in the other life combine to preserve us.
(113) Simon, August 21, 2008 10:42 AM
If everybody did something good in return for evil.
I do believe that certain things happen for a reason, the bible says that everything works for good to those who trust in Ha Shem including the community around us. Bad triggering a burst of good to many. The devil would not go for too long faced with a weapon of good in return, regardless of the opponent evil in return. I wish to be part of such a world there is satisfaction. Such would help us preach to the Nations that …The name of the LORD is a strong tower. Proverbs 18:10. Eventually good will beget more good though at the beginning it is hard to bear.
(112) Shmuel Klein, August 21, 2008 10:41 AM
Continued Strength
May Ha-Shem give you continued koach to acept his decree. I don't know how you can have the strength and courage to go back to the cave and speak so openly about your tragedy. Heroes of Israel is an understatement. May you have only simcha in your lives in the future and continue giving chizuk to others who are suffering. Mi K'Amcha Yisroel!
(111) L Gordesky, August 21, 2008 8:19 AM
(110) Laurie Schwartz, August 21, 2008 3:02 AM
Harvesting the Gifts of the Sacred Wound
Thank you for sharing this story. I also have had deep grief since my childhood watching my mother being taken away with a psychosis. I know the power of healing and reconciliation that comes when I am able to share with others who were faced with the "horror" of chronic mental illnes in a loved one (family member) and the ongoing adaptation to the loneliness and stigma that came with facing mental illness in the 1960's and afterwards. I am happy to learn about the gift of sharing grief in a community. thank you. My legacy is to serve family members who are faced with the ongoing pain of mental illness and drug addicted relatives. Laurie Schwartz New york Center for Trauma Resolution and Somatic Psychotherapy. 1 Lincoln Plaza New York, N.Y. 10023 212-496-1727
(109) Anonymous, August 21, 2008 1:00 AM
Very impressive
(108) Marsha Williams, August 21, 2008 12:39 AM
Wonderful
(107) Yiska, August 20, 2008 11:13 PM
many jews who have lost their faith in all-loving G-d, have done so as a result of tragedy- *or* the ability to make sense (*or* good) out of such a horror. the beauty that is seen made by Sherri and Seth, out of their personal horror, is an amazing example of the grace of Adonai, and the strength given to those whom seek His face in every circumstance. it is encouraging. it is true good and bright light taking victory over evil.
(106) Rosen, August 20, 2008 11:13 PM
revenge vs. tikkun olam
While revenge is tempting and substantially easier, it takes more effort and decency to give tikkun olam. Sadly, Palestinian-Arabs don't seem to give as much tikkun olam, or possibly none at all since they are taught at an early age that anyone who isn't adherant to Islam is their enemy. Almost all Jews and Israelis understand that it is not a matter of people being with us or with the anti-Semites, but what it means to support the Israelis and the Jewish people. The "with us or against us" mentality has resulted in a lot of the world's polorization. Thus, treat others the way you would want to be treated - don't treat them necessarily the way they may treat you. After all, it does feel really good to do the right thing in giving tikkun olam, as well as receiving it among the good others have done for you.
(105) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 8:57 PM
Its nice to know that children who have experienced such a tragic loss and pain are able to go to a place that helps the healing process along. This very much needed healing process for those young and still very impressionable children is essential for any possibility of them having a normal future. You are saving lives. Please reply with your address so that I may send support for the camp. G-d bless you.
(104) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 8:51 PM
it touched every mother's heart.....
(103) Lorie, August 20, 2008 8:36 PM
Transforming power of suffering
(102) ellie weingardt, August 20, 2008 8:33 PM
You are both so brave and wonderful...
(101) Shirley Valley, August 20, 2008 8:27 PM
Yes they are hero's
(100) Helene Dollinger, August 20, 2008 7:53 PM
Memorial to a fallen child
(99) rob or OSA, August 20, 2008 7:25 PM
So deeply inspiring!
(98) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 7:07 PM
Will tell Tzedakah Committee
(97) Donna, August 20, 2008 7:02 PM
Sherri & Seth Mandell
(96) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 6:55 PM
evey positive response to tragedy helps the healing process.
(95) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 5:59 PM
(94) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 5:20 PM
the courage of Sherri and Seth Mandell
(93) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 4:05 PM
(92) Abigail, August 20, 2008 4:05 PM
God's Greatest Gift is Love
(91) Marion M Miceli, August 20, 2008 3:48 PM
When will they care
When will the USA stop the Hypocrisy behind the slaughter of Israelis at the hand of the Philistiens and the rest of the world.About me, My mother came to America from Israel in 1938. My father came in 1919 from Sicily. The USA should feel ashamed for not taking the Jews that Hitler wanted to give them.It would not have cost the USA a cent, Hitler would have paid it all. FDR said I do not want them here, do not send them, I will turn them around. I wore the uniform for this country, and spilled my blood for it. I can no longer stand for what this country is doing to Israel, Israel has given far too much land for so called peace. I would anything for Israel to help it. Yes I have been there. One day I will live there, but before I leave this place I wish I could do something for her. An Israeli Patriot Marion.M Miceli
(90) FEIGE ITE, August 20, 2008 3:46 PM
hOW COURAGEOUS AND BEAUTIFUL.
(89) Elisabeth Boushira, August 20, 2008 3:02 PM
Your courrage is grand!
(88) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 2:17 PM
Turning Tradgady into Encouragement
(87) Esther Rodriguez-Abreu, August 20, 2008 2:06 PM
Kiddush HaShem
B"H Out of so much darkness, so much light. The Mandells glow with the Mitzvah of helping others in memory of their beloved child. Out of the most horrific destruction, the murder of one's child, comes forth the love for other people's children, both young and old, as in helping the Moms. The Mandells are a light unto the nations, a walking testimony of sanctifying His world with acts of compassion. Because of their merit, may Israel know no more pain. AMEN.
(86) Sion, August 20, 2008 1:48 PM
Heroes, but not just of Israel
(85) Bill - Elkhart, IN, August 20, 2008 1:45 PM
(83) Giora Lachmann, August 20, 2008 1:35 PM
Will this prevent terrorism?!
(82) Benhoor Hanas, August 20, 2008 12:57 PM
Light to the Nation
(81) Karen Sherman, August 20, 2008 12:26 PM
Incredible film about healthy grieving and loss
(79) Marty Rich, August 20, 2008 11:01 AM
The other side of the Coin
What remarkable people the Mandells are. To turn their grief into something something of immense value. But to avoid this horror from ever continuing, we must bring Palestinian children into the camp as well to promote harmony and understanding. We must find a way to prevent these young Palestinan children from following in the paths of their elders.The next generation is worth saving
(78) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 10:54 AM
breathtaking
(77) Howie, August 20, 2008 10:48 AM
Such events should never happen ...
(76) Naomi Bohbot, August 20, 2008 10:44 AM
The Mandells have taken the tragic murder of their son and have elevated it to the highest level of hesed,
I am so sincerely sorry for the pain you have suffered by the murder of your son at the hands of hateful and lowly terrorists. The programs you have created to address the plight of families of terror victims, that bring joy and and show compassion, aaaaaaare an expression of the highest level of hesed. sincerely yours I am.
(75) Ed Greenspan, August 20, 2008 10:32 AM
Zachor (Remember)
(74) betty Swirsky, August 20, 2008 10:12 AM
Such a touching an amazing story.
I just want to tell you how amazing and incredible acts of selfishness by taking all the anger, sadness and sorrow and turning it into love, help and joy for so many children and women that suffered so much after the terrorists killed their loved ones. Our hearts goes to you and everyone that has suffered such incredible loss.
(73) Chuck Connolly, August 20, 2008 10:08 AM
The force for good can over power the force of evil.
(72) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 10:04 AM
(71) Honey Vine, August 20, 2008 9:56 AM
Keep up your good work.
(70) Laure, August 20, 2008 9:50 AM
(69) edgar, August 20, 2008 9:43 AM
strengh and fierceness: Remarkable
(68) Michael, August 20, 2008 9:28 AM
LOVE OVER HATE
(67) Robert C. - Nashville, August 20, 2008 9:21 AM
Beautiful People
(66) Ma. del Consuelo R. de Sabre, August 20, 2008 9:18 AM
We need heroes like these in Mexico.
(65) Carolyn, August 20, 2008 9:16 AM
20th year of my daughter's passing
(64) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 9:04 AM
terrific
(63) Roza, August 20, 2008 9:00 AM
Very Loving reflection
I cannot express how this loss feels for you, but having lost a nephew, the emptiness I felt at the beginning, and all the other emotions my brother and his family felt, can only be replaced with understanding and love. Even though his was suicide, his pain is also felt. Thank you both and God bless you
(62) Steven Street, August 20, 2008 8:51 AM
(61) Rivkah, August 20, 2008 8:46 AM
Sherri and Seth Mandell
(60) Henry Wiltschek, August 20, 2008 8:29 AM
Good can triumph over evil, although it is hard to see sometimes.
(59) sharon crane, August 20, 2008 8:23 AM
BLESSINGS
(58) koren, August 20, 2008 8:21 AM
ME AZ YATSA MATOK
(57) S.S.Daniel, August 20, 2008 8:10 AM
(56) chayasura Zas, August 20, 2008 8:06 AM
(55) Anonymous, August 20, 2008 7:38 AM
let us just care for each other
nothing can be said or done to get life back to normal when you lose a loved one to death,so let us just care for each other when we alive when we have the chance,i do blame the terrorists from both sides,so let us not forget that the arabs or anyone else have the right to live in peace and love,with no discrimination or whatsever,we should not pint our fingers and blame the others for our won mistakes,when we reach that honourable level of life then and just then we sure can live side by side in peace and harmony.
(54) Mark Greenspan, August 20, 2008 7:30 AM
Deeply Touched by Mandells
(53) Paulette, August 20, 2008 7:24 AM
I Am Grateful
I am grateful to read about such love. I believe you are touching the world with the love of God. Your willingness to receive such love, and to give it is a powerful example to all of us, no matter who we are or what has happened in our lives. You have blessed all of us. You are mercybearers. God bless you and keep you.
(52) evie, August 20, 2008 7:21 AM
thank you for listening to the Lord
(51) ari clark, August 20, 2008 6:35 AM
sherri and seth Mandell
(50) Tomas & Elaine Lochem, August 20, 2008 6:03 AM
(49) barbara d, August 20, 2008 5:57 AM
well done video emotional and thought provoking
i lost my sonin 2004 from complications following a successful bone marrow transplant we have tried to do a number of things in his memory including helping to feed the homeless by continuing his project of making and donating sandwiches to a local shelter this helps us to be productive as well as helping others we can't bring them back, but we can continue their efforts
(48) Moshe, August 20, 2008 5:55 AM
God see and bless
(47) Shoshana Zakon, August 20, 2008 5:26 AM
Very inspiring
(46) Alaine Apap Bologna, August 20, 2008 5:25 AM
A lesson on life
(45) Arden, August 20, 2008 3:35 AM
HaShem
(44) joeph Perez, August 20, 2008 3:15 AM
only God can understand
I will never never understand nor have any compassion for those killers or never forgive them....NEVER!! and I cannot understand people that are preaching forgiveness and willing to compromise with those terrorists!! I see only 1 answer : each time the terrorists kill a jewish Israel should send to Gaza or to what ever 1000 muslims living in Israel and of course it should be retroactive....NEVER FORGIVE..NEVER...NEVER SHOW COMPASSION ITS INTERPRETED AS A WICKNESS!!!
(43) Johan Greeff, August 20, 2008 3:04 AM
Love and Restoration by Ruach HaKodesh.
(42) Simone Van Goethem, August 20, 2008 2:42 AM
these people are an example to the world
(40) Sheila, August 20, 2008 2:07 AM
Israel honours life not death
(39) sheri, August 20, 2008 1:56 AM
a prayer
(38) joyce, August 20, 2008 1:37 AM
positive living
it is easy to live in negative atmosphere blaming Hashem for your sorrow but rising above the sorrow and living a positive life doing mitzvos and loving your fellow jew is what Hashem would have us all do after a proper amount of time has passed. It is very hard work but necessary for one's soul to be at peace with one's community and oneself....
(37) Dr. Harry Merl, August 20, 2008 1:29 AM
My aching heart
(36) Eben, August 20, 2008 1:27 AM
It's sheer inspiration
(35) Maureen - New Zealand, August 20, 2008 12:56 AM
Positive love out of negative hate.
This is such a positive and loving testimony. I have just come from taking part in a Restorative Justice prison programme where two of the women had lost their children to drunk driver accidents and a murder. This is an idea I am going to pass onto them as something positive they can do to help their own healing and that of other parents like them. Thank you!! May God bless you both, and the people who put this on the net. God bless you all richly!
(34) Chaya Fradle Karen Bell, August 20, 2008 12:44 AM
G-d bless you for Tikkun Olam.
(33) Bonnie, August 20, 2008 12:28 AM
a powerful reminder
(32) Kashrut, August 19, 2008 11:32 PM
Good prevails over evil
Once again good prevails over evil. Once again the indomitable Jewish spirit rises above the indifference and crassness of the world, the babarity and hate of the terrorists by replacing hate with love, revenge with hope, pessimism and negativity with goals of a brighter and better future. Sherri and Seth are definitely heroes, yet we each have the power buried within us. We just need to draw upon it.
(31) Avigail, August 19, 2008 10:25 PM
good triumphs over evil
(30) yitzchak milakewood, August 19, 2008 8:32 PM
(29) edithatal, August 19, 2008 5:23 PM
in so much grief and yet they have bitachon
(28) jacob lazarowitz, August 19, 2008 3:48 PM
it is a shame that there are more evil people today then great persons like you.may you never know from tzures.only blesings
(27) Anonymous, August 19, 2008 2:33 PM
a great family- a great charity
there is a reason why the charity Seth and Sherri started is at the top of my list. if you just listened to them on this video from Aish, you now know why. From the depths of despair they have made something positive and wonderful for victims of terror. G-d bless them, their family, and the work that so many do on behalf of their organization.
(26) Eric Voogd, August 19, 2008 7:37 AM
May Hashem be with you as do this incredible work
What is so horrific and such a crushing blow in the painful loss of a beloved son, the two of serve as an example of Hashem guiding you in the midst of tragedy and bringing healing to the lives of others. I had tears in my eyes watching the two of you speak, I am most thankful that you had the courage to move forward and make a significant impact in the lives of others while addressing your own heartache. For that, may Hashem richly bless you for all that you are doing with those who have walked in your shoes, Sherri and Seth. Your work is most exemplary...you are to be commended for turning a tragic loss into an example of reaching out to others and bring something positive to most cruel world in which we live.
(25) Michael Ben Yosef Tuffley, August 19, 2008 2:57 AM
(24) Anonymous, August 18, 2008 10:01 PM
he parents deserve credit of way they are handling this tragedy
(23) Rolf, August 18, 2008 3:37 PM
be blessed
(22) Carol Segal, August 18, 2008 3:30 PM
Admiration
(21) Sarah, August 18, 2008 2:25 PM
(20) Ellen, August 18, 2008 10:30 AM
(19) Beverly Kurtin, August 18, 2008 10:15 AM
And the world wonders...
Israel is building a wall to prevent murderers from entering her land and to attempt to prevent future murders like this. Yet the United States is building a wall just to keep out economic refugees. The world condemns Israel and says is shouldn't exist, what about the plaque on the Statue of Liberty? Shouldn't it be taken down and melted into a sign that says, "KEEP OUT"? I don't know how the Mandells can do what they have done all I can do is say amen to them being heroes.
(18) Orrin Kom, August 18, 2008 10:11 AM
Finding HaShem
(17) Larry Snider, August 18, 2008 9:51 AM
A Transcendent Gift
(16) Moshe Moskovits, August 18, 2008 12:28 AM
They comforted me again
(14) Moshe L., August 18, 2008 12:05 AM
(13) Anonymous, August 17, 2008 7:52 PM
Inspiring
(12) Ezra Magid, August 17, 2008 4:03 PM
"from the ashes"
(11) Edwin Rodriguez, August 17, 2008 3:20 PM
(10) Judy Freier, August 17, 2008 2:11 PM
From Grief to Goodness
My heart goes out to the family on their tragic loss but congratulate them on finding a way to help others in their son's memory. The Mandells are true heroes in a country of heroes. May G-d bless them with nachas from their family and their good deeds and good health and happiness.....Judy from L.A.
(9) Galia Berry, August 17, 2008 12:32 PM
To LIfe
This is one reason why the Jewish people will ultimately triumph over the Arabs, despite the odds. Because we are a people who cherishes life, the Arabs revere death. Surely the world at large would prefer to live in a world of love, goodness and life, rather hatred, evil and death. It is our responsibility to live up to the standards HaShem has created for us, so that we may be a light unto the other nations and peoples of the world, that we may all choose life in a meaningful way and honor HaShem and the world he has created for us.
(8) Anonymous, August 17, 2008 11:42 AM
People who inspire
I taught Koby when he was living in the US and knew the Mandell family from Maryland. They were great people then -looking to help and inspire others in many different ways. I am not shocked to see them create such goodnes out of such tragedy. It is an inspiration to us 'regular' people. May Hashem continue to give them strength, to show others the goodness one can achieve and pass along. J. Lieber
(7) Hilda, August 17, 2008 10:55 AM
such kindness is unimaginable
(6) Sheila Halet, August 17, 2008 10:03 AM
YOU ARE TRULY WONDERFUL!!!
(5) Judy, August 17, 2008 9:07 AM
I wish I was more like you.
Everything that happens to us in this world, even when it is so unbearable, is for our growth and Hashem wants us to be able to get up and continue to be happy even if at times it may seem impossible. But for someone like yourselves to not only try to be happy after such a challenge, but to bring such ongoing happinesses to so many people who maybe would not be able to get their on their own. What a gift what a special place you are in. And I could just imagine the place where your sons neshama is in with all these merits being added to his soul. May Hashem continue to give you the strength to continue in this mission.
(4) Sophia, August 17, 2008 8:59 AM
You are Heroes
(3) Jonathan Isdale, August 17, 2008 7:24 AM
Heartfelt
(2) ruth housman, August 17, 2008 6:12 AM
bringing in the light
Thank you for this most beautiful video about how the phoenix does rise from the ashes of a terrible, unspeakable tragedy. I wrote the following poem the other night and I truly do believe this. If it gives solace, or means anything to anyone that is of beauty and hope, I am glad. I was once in a cave said to be the darkest cave in the world and I was so afraid. When the light in the cave were shut off we were all of us thrown into the deepest black. I held hands with my husband and the person on my left. In that most inky blackness suddenly I began to perceive shadows and there was light. I have never forgotten the lesson. this is my poem: sometimes it seems that forever is a real country I will stand in the marsh with the herons on trembling legs observing every sunset I will sleep with rain and sun tumbling through my ears will feel the rush of violet sweeping through the meadow will gather toward me every dawn every twilight nothing I have loved will ever die I am so afraid I will not have arms enough nor strength enough nor song enough to thank you ruth housman, august 12/ 2008
(1) Herman Taube, August 17, 2008 6:01 AM
My heart goes out for you. Hamakom Yerachem!
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(257) Ruth, April 15, 2013 6:38 PM
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(256) Anonymous, April 14, 2013 5:57 PM
Are Arab/Israeli Children included to participate at this camp?
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(255) bar code, October 27, 2011 8:52 AM
Awesome crystal clear Faith
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(254) Rachel, March 17, 2010 2:58 PM
May The God of Israel Bless you, and the memory of your son, and the works of your hands.
(253) Ayelet, August 10, 2009 8:05 AM
I have had the incredible opportunity to attend one of the camp getaways as a madricha, and what the Mandels have done is truly incredible. The have truly taken their own personal pain and looked outward to see how they can help others. What they have given to all of the children who attend the camps is truly unbelievable.