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The Abbreviated Dictionary of Oy

The Abbreviated Dictionary of Oy

Only two letters, but countless usages.


Three bubbes are sitting on a park bench.
The first one lets out a heartfelt, "Oy!"
The second sighing, says, "Oy vey!"
A few minutes later, the third brushes away a tear and moans, "Oy vey iz mir!" to which the first bubbe replies: "I thought we agreed we weren't going to talk about the children!"

In this joke, older than Moses, we also have the reason why Yiddish stands alone – every expression a magnificent, linguistic cholent among canned beans. Deceptively simply, yet deliciously rich, one word can fill a thesaurus the way one dish can feed the entire mishpacha.

Of all of Yiddish’s words, perhaps none is as useful, as ambitious, as busy as “Oy.”

Of all its words, perhaps none is as useful, as ambitious, as busy as “Oy.” Never out of place, suited to almost every occasion, these two tiny letters comprise an emotional encyclopedia. Bigger than "too bad," “aw shucks,” or even “Sacrebleu!” it comes from the kishkes of Jewish trials – from anguish to zeal.

Either of German (Ach weh) or Biblical origin, it was first noted as an English interjection in the 1890s. In fact, it’s so useful, non-Jews have “adopted” it. Soto expand your ability to express ... the inexpressible, I give you:


Anguish: “Two years you’ve been seeing him. Oy, enough already!”

Boredom: “Pssst, Harvey, they’re taking out another video. Oyyyy. If this is more about their vacation in Venice, I’m throwing myself in a canal!”

Confused: “Did I take a right by the statue or a left by the Starbucks? Oy.”

Dismay: “I’ve got to go bathing suit shopping. Oy! Not loving it.”

Empathy: “Thirty-six hours of labor? Oy, tell me! I went through 41!"

Fear: “You want to learn to drive?! Oy! There are lunatics on the road just waiting to kill you!”

Glad: “Your daughter decided to give up the idea of being a juggler? Oy, it’s about time.”

Horror: “You saw a serial killer who looked exactly like your neighbor’s babysitter’s hairdresser’s on America’s Most Wanted? Oyyyy!!!

Irony: “Is this the Santa’s hotline? Oy, do you have the wrong number!”

Joy: “Would you believe I got the very last chocolate bobka in the bakery! Oy, I’m thrilled!”

Kindly: “Oy mamala ... come to bubbe for a big hug – and also a sour ball.”

Lamentation: “Oy, darling, we sobbed our hearts out when he left you at the altar.”

Mortification: “Oy, how was a person to know she’s zaftig – and not in her ninth month?”

Nervous: “It’s my granddaughter’s first dance recital! An Anna Pavlova she isn’t. Oy, I hope she doesn’t fall off the stage.”

Outrage: “Oy! What a shyster! May his eyeballs drop from his head!”

Pain: “Oy, a herd of antelopes are charging in my head!”

Queasy: “After her brisket ... oy, I’ll be up all night!”

Regret: “Oy. Daddy and I think maybe we’ve been too hard on you. A Junior College is nice, too.”

Shock: “You found a what in her bedroom!? Oy!!

Tense: “You’re taking your SATs tomorrow – and you don’t remember if the word “Nadir” is up or down?! Oyyy.”

Uneasy: “Oy ... see those boys. Quick! In the car. They’re wearing red – a gang color.”

Vanity: “In my day I was some beauty! The young men lined up to date me. Oyyy…you should’ve seen.”

Wonder: “Wait. A TiVo knows to record my show even when they replace it with college football?! Oy, now this I can’t believe!”

Zeal: “You two decided to get married in the Rabbi’s study this Sunday night?! For you, darling, I’ll call 50 family and friends and e-mail the out-of-towners. Hmmm. I’ll make 10 briskets, 10 turkeys, and order six sides from the Kosher Konnection plus dessert and the wedding cake. A band we can get from cousin David who once did an opening act for Gene Simmons ... then ... A problem? OY, I’m so excited I could plotz!?”

December 12, 2009

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Visitor Comments: 9

(9) Sarita, October 7, 2013 12:42 PM

No language like Yiddish!

So specific...

(8) Beryl, December 22, 2009 6:22 PM

Oy! What a Tribute

Personally, I love your articles on language, religion, and history with a humor twist. I enjoyed this so much, then found other articles by this author in your archives. I was in Yiddishkeit heaven! Great work! Beryl Freimor, a perennial student of Yiddishkeit

(7) Lois Jaffe, December 19, 2009 8:52 PM


And all this time I though "OY" was simple! We really liked this witty article that made us think about the deeper meanings and uses of "oy" and Yiddish words in general we hear every day, and we all take for granted. Good job! Lo

(6) Ruchel Leah, December 18, 2009 4:27 PM

Priceless Info-forwarding to my friends!

Thanks for teaching me aboug my favorite phrase. only thing better is,"oy,oy,oy!"

(5) VIVIAN FLEITMAN, December 16, 2009 7:59 PM



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