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What's an appropriate age for people to get married?

Published: February 7, 2010

What's an appropriate age for people to get married?

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Visitor Comments: 18

(18) Anonymous, October 9, 2013 12:58 PM

I think 18 is to young but from 20 up is fine.

(17) Raymond Bastarache, May 2, 2012 11:54 AM

Appropriate age to get married

Out of the frying pan into the fire. For a man 25 and the woman 23 is plenty young. He that believeth shall not make haste...Isaiah 28:16 .this couple are not yet mature enough to make it on their own... all signs leads to having to be supported by their parents in the very beginning of their union together.. but some parents like like this... so what can you do?? I say it will probably end in the courts...beauty is only skin deep...lust will not last...and if G-od is not in the picture failure is eminent. Nevertheless, I wish them all the luck they are going to need it. Shalom.

(16) feige, March 2, 2010 11:04 AM

Marriage is about becoming ONE!!

Marriagable age varies for everyone but if one is mature enough to see the beauty in married life, to live and grow TOGETHER with a life time partner than what can be nicer than starting that connection as earlier as one finds? If u see marriage as a burden and heavy load, [though no one denies that challanges come along], but we need to be smart enough to understand that we were originally One and seperated by birth but when we join as a commitment it's about getting our second half back. what can be better than that? its not about me or you but rathet US together, and then it can be a great union. Worth as early as that's acknowledged and understood. Good luck to you all and the main is to appreciate however G-D sets it up for you as best and be happy with what you have.

(15) Anonymous, February 22, 2010 1:11 AM

Both Parents are Right

In my opinion both parents are right. Tom's parents say that 18 is to young.But Jessie's parents are saying that 18 is legally an adult-wich is true. But in a way thay are both right. 18 is the legal age to be an adult but its to young to get married.And really neither set of parents should have a say in wether they get married or don't.They are adults

(14) Rosen, February 21, 2010 3:43 PM

minimum age to have a meaningful, health marriage

I think that the minimum age for couples to marry is 30. At that point in people's live they are at the "age of strength", therefore they'll be at least 3 decades wiser in loving smart and really knowing how to settle in with the one he/she wants to spend the rest of their lives with.

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