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How important is it to keep your Jewish name?
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(171) Mort aurence, January 11, 2013 4:58 AM
Perfect combination: humor and pathos
(170) dave bier, January 7, 2013 2:29 PM
Jewish names
(169) Morris Kaplan, January 7, 2013 5:35 AM
A good line was taken out of this clip
I saw this when it originally aired, and one line in Archie's eulogy, not included in this clip, went something like this, "I couldn't tell he was Jewish by looking at his face, and I didn't see anything else." Then there's a closeup of Edith, and after a few seconds a look on her face as though realizing what he accidentally implied.
(168) stew feigel, January 5, 2013 12:37 AM
(167) Dr. Ronald Shultz, January 4, 2013 12:04 AM
Never Hide or Surrender!
(165) Jane jacobson, January 1, 2013 5:11 AM
Great remarks
(164) cathy, December 31, 2012 5:04 PM
thinking from the past
(163) Lonna Kahn, December 29, 2012 5:33 PM
It's important to keep your Jewish name.
(162) sultana, December 28, 2012 10:20 AM
proud to be jewish. We havv paid enough to be able to say this!
(161) Israel Dorinbaum, December 27, 2012 5:03 PM
(160) greene, December 27, 2012 3:20 PM
(159) Anonymous, December 27, 2012 5:32 AM
(158) Don Rubin, December 26, 2012 10:48 PM
terrific
(157) Thelma, December 26, 2012 7:43 PM
(156) Pasadena Bob, December 26, 2012 5:32 PM
Only a consummate actor could
(155) Marjorie Rosenthal, December 26, 2012 5:06 PM
A name is only a name. It's what's in your heart that counts.
I never liked my last name and neither did my husband. There was no religious reason as we were both raised in a Jewish home and being Jewish was just a fact of life. However, being called Mrs. Rosenberg all the time was getting on my nerves. My husband always wanted to change our last name, but for one reason or the other, we never got around to it . At my age now, I couldn't care less. As a matter of fact, my grandson is to become a father in April and the doctor told the happy couple that it was a boy. I asked Matthew if he wanted to change his last name and he asked me why he would do that. He is a Rosenthal and his son will be a Rosenthal. So the name will live on. Sometimes. the older generation can learn a lot from their children and grandchildren.
(154) Marvin Meisler, December 26, 2012 10:02 AM
Poignant
(150) Yochannah, December 24, 2012 8:36 PM
The Twists and Turns of Life
(149) Abbey, December 24, 2012 7:58 PM
tearjerking
(148) Bill Kay, December 24, 2012 3:59 AM
(147) Michael P, December 22, 2012 11:20 PM
Happy that Archie said, "Shalom". A friend will always be a friend.
Archie Bunker belongs to the "Ages". He was the epitome of bigotry but the writers never made you hate him. An episode like this one made me happy and sad at the same time. He wasn't a total bigot. Just an uneducated man who worked hard at keeping his family together and appreciated for being "Archie". He was the antithesis of the character portrayed by Robert Young in Father Knows Best. Glad he found out that "Stretch" was Jewish and that he ended the show by saying Shalom.. Goodbye Jerome..
(144) Anonymous, December 21, 2012 5:51 PM
(143) Paul Mathless, December 21, 2012 5:27 PM
Archie and the JDL
This fine clip reminds me of an episode in which Archie somehow gets caught up in the goings-on of the Jewish Defense League. At the end, he finds a swastika painted on his front door, which he covers up with a cloth. Pondering over the incident, Edith says, "I wonder why they call it a swastika?" Arche opens the front door, lifts up the cloth, and says, with perfect Archie logic, "Look at it. What else would you call it?"
(142) Jai, December 21, 2012 1:29 PM
Archie Bunker was a spokesman for the conscience of America at a time when bigotry was still a part of that nation's "acceptable" culture. Language and identity through names are an important part of keeping culture alive ... and Archie makes the point in no uncertain way that it would have made no difference if he had known stretch was Jewish.
(141) Laura Berkowitz, December 19, 2012 3:08 PM
Excellent video. Always watched Archie Bunker
(140) Barney freedman, December 18, 2012 8:03 PM
A mensch indeed.
(139) Seymour Levy, December 18, 2012 5:00 PM
An honest "slice of life"
(138) Anonymous, December 18, 2012 7:52 AM
(137) Rcoops, December 18, 2012 6:20 AM
Funny with serious overtone
(136) Frank, December 17, 2012 4:22 PM
keeping your identity
Growing up in No Miami Beach, my father had a jewelry store in a retired Jewish and Italian neighborhood. While we were Cubans, we always passed as "Jew-bans" because we had a special connection with this nation. My father celebrated the Jewish Holidays and we always paid our respects at Jewish funerals. One of my most prized books was "Josephus, the Jewish Wars" given to me by Adam Chait. In short, my respect for the Jewish nation runs deep, as they have held onto their identity, through countless years of persecution and isolation. I can only help my nation, Cubans forced to leave the communist island, can maintain that same sense of identity and that they can one day, return to their homeland. May the good Lord continue to guide the Jewish nation!
Matt Greenberg, December 18, 2012 6:05 PM
Reply to Frank
Anonymous, December 26, 2012 3:01 AM
Thank you Frank
What a very beautiful response to this video clip of Archie Bunker. You are a very good person. I too hope that one day soon the people of Cuba can live life freely. Before Castro, Jewish and many American's in general, loved going to Cuba for vacation. They loved the weather, the food, and the people. One day soon I hope it will be like that again. I would love to see Cuba.
(134) Anonymous, December 17, 2012 9:44 AM
Archie Bunker was a great comedian
I;m Jewish and this episode was meant to be funny. Anyone who get's offended, as some of these posted comments, state that I just read,all I have to say is where's your sense of humor. When this show began in the early 70s,they never showed this kind of stuff on TV. After 40 plus years, come on -- give me a break.
(133) GillesBbrissette, December 17, 2012 9:21 AM
(132) judy eichner, December 17, 2012 5:34 AM
Heart rending and excellent
(131) GERI STERN, December 16, 2012 7:05 PM
THE SUM OF ALL THE PARTS NOT ONLY THE NAME
(130) Ellen, December 16, 2012 6:37 PM
Proud of my Jewish name
(129) Metropolitan Ephraem, December 16, 2012 6:09 PM
Abi gezunt
(128) Mike, December 15, 2012 6:46 PM
Great Show
(127) jerry cooperman, December 15, 2012 1:04 PM
wonderful funny and touching all in the jewish family
(126) Kay, December 15, 2012 7:55 AM
What's the answer?
The question posed was: How important is it to keep your Jewish name? But the responses focused safely on a critique of All in the Family. The message from Archie was clearly that keeping the heritage of a name is important, no mather the ethnicity. If names have been modified by predecessors, what about changing it back to recapture the history and heritage. Above all, let friends know you are Jewish and share your values and rich history with them.
(125) Morris Mark, December 15, 2012 4:04 AM
Judaism is belief in god with recognition of the history of all those who share that common belief and heritage.
(124) Anonymous, December 14, 2012 9:31 PM
Anonymous, December 16, 2012 1:31 PM
Not a Chanukiah
What was burning was not a Chanukah but a menorah - the symbol of the Jewish people. When you think about it it was most appropriate for it to be there for the episode. It can symbolize the tree of life. Archie, Stretch, all of us as people are part of the tree; we just may come from different branches. And, btw, Archie is a product of the twenties/thirties and not the fifties.
slurpy, December 16, 2012 4:34 PM
Hannukah at a funeral
(123) Karen, December 14, 2012 9:01 PM
more to people
(122) Jerry Selby, December 14, 2012 5:22 PM
Shalom and God bless
(121) Judi Pittel j, December 14, 2012 5:17 PM
made me cry
(120) Brad Ashton, December 14, 2012 3:47 PM
The Archie Bunker series set out to highlight the evils of bigotry, but it wound up with the reverse effect. That's because Archie's arguments against minority groups were sometimes written to be so convincing that some viewers thought he was putting forward valid points. In the end the producers tried to combat this by having a sequal series called Archie Bunker's Place. which was a restaurant he ran with a Jewish partner, actor Martin Balson. It was too late and the series didn't run because the audience wouldn't accept the dramatic change in Archie's character. As a point of interest, in the British TV series on which All In The Family was based, Alf Garnett the bigot was played by actor Warren Mitchell who is Jewish.
(119) Lou Cohen, December 14, 2012 2:29 PM
Great Story
(118) Anonymous, December 14, 2012 1:34 PM
I too never saw this episode
(117) Ray Arcella, December 14, 2012 1:07 PM
funny and also sad
(116) Fran, December 14, 2012 4:19 AM
This was a touching moment in the clip
(114) moethgrass, December 13, 2012 7:38 PM
Archie
(112) Anonymous, December 13, 2012 5:05 PM
Without a doubt...one of the best shows ever on TV.
Barry M. Schwartz, December 14, 2012 4:46 PM
(111) Anonymous, December 13, 2012 3:24 PM
(109) PAT, December 13, 2012 2:11 AM
VERY MOVING REMINDS ME OF MY DEAR DEPARTED BROTHER
(108) Noah, December 12, 2012 11:00 PM
Another bit of good television not around anymore
I remember this show's importance in history, but I am too young to have watched it when it was on during its original run. I love M*A*S*H episodes and a number mention Jewish themes and even rituals (a soldier attempting to make Matzoh on a rock during Passover, a Korean boy with a Jewish soldier for a father needing a Bris (and thus a Rabbi), and some others too. They don't make television like this anymore in most cases.
(107) Anonymous, December 12, 2012 9:50 PM
Delightful
(105) art glass, December 12, 2012 6:20 PM
(104) E. Weber, December 12, 2012 6:17 PM
Tears of laughter....Tears of sadnes....
(103) Skip Litz, December 12, 2012 5:29 PM
Still enjoy Archie Bunker series
(102) Anonymous, December 12, 2012 7:06 AM
(101) Anonymous, December 12, 2012 6:30 AM
Ron, December 12, 2012 2:07 PM
It was both.
Batya, December 12, 2012 6:40 PM
You had to see it in context of the times.
Surely the laughter was appropriate. All in the Family was a ground-breaking show, breaking all the stereotypes, an presenting what was sensitive material in a way never seen before. This episode was from January 1977. "A Jewish name ain't supposed to have no 'ham' in it," Archie says. Throughout the series, his friend, "Stretch" Cunningham, bore the brunt of many of Archie's jokes, including anti-Semitic ones. The laughter was because we were uncomfortable at being presented with these realities. Archie said if he had known that Stretch were Jewish, it wouldn't have made a difference. The uncomfortable humor was that it WOULD have made a difference. "I wouldn't have believed that Stretch was a Jew. [Afterall] he wasn't a doctor or a lawyer, in the dress business, nothing like that.... He was just like myself...," Archie eulogizes. Fact is, there was much overt anti-Semitism accepted in public. We forget from the comfort of 2012, 35 years having passed, how raw and startling this presentation was. Yes, the writing IS funny and DESERVES laughter. We can see this clearly now. At the time however, it was "pushing the envelope," a description that had been reserved for the Air Force flyers who broke the sound barrier.
Ruth Nodiff, December 13, 2012 2:25 AM
(100) Robert Axt, December 12, 2012 4:59 AM
(99) Leah Weiss, December 12, 2012 4:16 AM
(98) judith, December 12, 2012 3:16 AM
It is important to be who you were born to be
(97) OldSchoolBus, December 11, 2012 11:32 PM
Producers, Directors & Writers
You have to remember the time these shows were written in. I haven't looked this up but I'm sure it was taped in the early '70s. Back then those laughs you here were done with signs flashing in the studio asking to laugh or clap and since all the live TV shows let the audience in for free as they still do today people felt obligated to do what the sign said. As far as the Jewish thing goes, allot of the writers directors & producers were Jewish along with Costar Rob Reiner who was also a writer for the show.
(96) Dr. Philip J. Shapiro, December 11, 2012 7:18 PM
Excellent presentation of acting skills
(94) margaret rossomano, December 11, 2012 5:19 PM
your name is who you are. be proud to be!
(93) H Walsky, December 11, 2012 3:39 PM
(92) Christi Tatum, December 11, 2012 2:17 PM
(91) Beverly, December 11, 2012 5:45 AM
Fabulous!
(90) Manny, December 11, 2012 1:37 AM
Humor at Jewish funeral
I am not sure that the audience giggles and laughter was appropriate given the Jewish funeral. The writers pulling for laughs by having Edith call the Kipah a "beanie" was so unnecessary. Having Archie being unsure of which end of the coffin was the "head-end" was another laugh moment that was in poor taste. I felt that way when viewing that segment during the original series.
Anonymous, December 11, 2012 4:00 PM
Laugh at life
(88) Phil Levine, December 11, 2012 12:20 AM
Name change at Ellis Island
Irene, December 12, 2012 1:43 PM
All Ellis Island name changes voluntary
U.S. immigration officials admitted immigrants using passenger lists provided by ship lines. The lists were compiled at port of embarkation. No names were changed at Ellis Island. Our ancestors made conscious decisions to change their names for any number of personal reasons and at varying intervals after arrival. Many name changes were never recorded, so ask your oldest relatives if they know about your family names. See Jewish.Gen.org for more info about name changes and tracing your family's history.
stewart feigel, January 5, 2013 12:54 AM
All Ellis Island name changes voluntary(not)
i have been to Ellis island many times. they tell you that the names of many were changed. it was not done maliciously but for many reasons. by the way legal name changes going back to the early part of the century can be found in the civil court of NY in each county court house. anyone can look at the records
(87) Dave Solomon, December 11, 2012 12:09 AM
Szielunczyk to Solomon
Very thoughtful and touching performance by a great actor. My parents came to the U.S. on the last boat out of Poland in August 1939. When they were clearing immigration in NY, the folks there told them there were too many consonants and not enough vowels in their last name and Americans would have a very hard time spelling or pronouncing it. They suggested Solon or Solomon and they chose the latter. I was very proud to grow up with it as a last name and have always joked that we're distantly related to the king....which I guess is actually true. Zai gezunt!
(86) laura, December 10, 2012 10:42 PM
thank you
(85) Bob Dugas, December 10, 2012 10:35 PM
Abe Lincoln, Jewish??
(84) Bryna Warren, December 10, 2012 10:24 PM
Excellent. How I miss Archie, Edith, Meathead,& Gloria
(83) Ellie Presner, December 10, 2012 9:13 PM
Very moving
(82) Margi, December 10, 2012 8:07 PM
Touching
(80) Philip Tropea, December 10, 2012 5:59 PM
During the Nazi terror, many Jews changed their names, eg those living in Italy would change their name to Roma, Messina, or Fiorenza, etc names of cities, and I understand and sympathize with that at the time. But the fascists figured that out and arrested all with similar names to cities. It was a pox on humanity. I wouldn't anglicize or change my name today because it would be disrespectful to my heritage and my family.
(79) richard terry, December 10, 2012 4:22 PM
My real name is very Jewish.
(78) Larry Richman, December 10, 2012 2:15 PM
Archie Bunker's genius was always to reveal some deep truth with a laugh....
(77) Dennis Roberts, December 9, 2012 10:16 PM
Don't blame me
My father came to London first after leaving Germany in the Twenties and fearing anti-eemitism, a not unrealistic fear, changed Rosenthal to Roberts. I only wish I had changed it back before I became established professionally. Not a lot of Jews named Dennis either. That one I can blame on my mother who thought some Irish singer named Deenis Day was the greatest. Oh well, in my next life . . .
(76) sondra kolker, December 9, 2012 8:45 PM
I will look for more of these...
(75) Bo Salsberg, December 9, 2012 7:37 PM
Each of us was named for a reason. Important to maintain a sense of indviduality
(74) Anonymous, December 9, 2012 5:52 PM
I laughed and then I cried.
(73) Mardee Goldberg, December 9, 2012 2:52 AM
Very important...it is part of our Jewish Heritage...to be very proud of....
Stan Marks, December 10, 2012 5:02 PM
(72) Anonymous, December 8, 2012 11:05 PM
My husband shotened his name when he graduated highschool becaue he felt it was too long and cumbersome and he also shortened his first name for the same reason.
When he volunteered in World War II,after all papers were signed the new inductees, with hands raised ready to be sweared in, were asked, "Is this the name on your birth certificate?" One hand went down to the great annoyance of those in charge. When he was in combat, in Germany, he was summoned from his foxhole to receive important papers. Turned out his father had changed his son's name legally in case he got captured by German soldiers and they discovered he was Jewish. .
Rhonda bishop, December 18, 2012 4:27 PM
Father Changed Sons name for safeties sake.
(71) Alyse, December 8, 2012 11:02 PM
Touching
(70) cHUCK wINTNER, December 8, 2012 10:46 AM
Great cut. Still relevant.
Maybe you should request the show's owners to run the Archie Bunker segment in theaters every Chanukah season, followed by in-theater community discussions on "Who is today's American Jew?" adding?"...and how much does Israel matter to him...or her." Possibly sponsored by Jewish organizations. Great focal point.
(69) Clel, December 8, 2012 5:26 AM
Archie, the contrarian
Carroll O'Conner was the one of the most tolerant persons in show business. That is why he could play the bigot and racist and always shown to be wrong. If they would only have the same type programs now, instead of the "political correct" junk. We loved Archie & All in the Family for that reason. Too bad Obama didn't watch that show!
(68) Anonymous, December 8, 2012 3:14 AM
goes to show you
(67) Angela M Abraham, December 8, 2012 1:38 AM
I am happy to have a Jewish name, and proud to be Jewish!
(66) Anonymous, December 7, 2012 10:46 PM
A beautiful name
I'm a gentile woman, born in 1944. When I was young I lived next door to a very old lady, a Christian peasant who had married a Jewish tailor and immigrated with him from Poland to the USA, where they had a tailor shop in the Lower East Side. When I knew her she had been a widow for a long time. She was important to me, and appeared in two deeply significant dreams. When she died her daughter (an old woman herself) came, and for the first time I heard her daughter's name: Judenfreund. This touched me so deeply that tears came to my eyes. It was clear that this made the woman uncomfortable, so I didn't ask any questions about the name. I have always tried to be a good Judenfreund myself.
(65) bill gunnarson, December 7, 2012 9:09 PM
I loved it
(64) stanley Felsen, December 7, 2012 6:31 PM
Elective
(63) Ms Jo L Ray, December 7, 2012 6:12 PM
Absouletly wonderful!
(62) Richard Bennett, December 7, 2012 5:42 PM
It doesn't matter.
Friendship should know no race or religion. Archie was a bigot and if he had known Stretch was Jewish, he might have missed the friendship they had. Learning his friend was Jewish, I believe he realized that his life was richer for the friendship they had and with the final word, Shalom, he acknowledged his own shortcomings and gave his friend what was probably the best farewell he was capable of giving. And he knew as he left that his life was richer for that friendship and would be a little lonlier without it. Thanks to my good friend, Herb, for forwarding this to me. He keeps me grounded in what is truly important.....family, faith, and friends. Thanks again, Herb. Always, The Goy
(61) Al Aguinaga, December 7, 2012 5:36 PM
Mexican Jew and honor in a name!
(60) cc, December 7, 2012 10:10 AM
name changing
(59) Jerry Baruch, December 7, 2012 4:34 AM
The show was very touching and great
(58) Anonymous, December 7, 2012 2:38 AM
That series was always a classic!
(57) Anonymous, December 7, 2012 12:48 AM
Well done. Jews change their names for all kinds of reasons. I kept my non-Jewish married name after my divorce. It was shorter than my maiden-Jewish name. I have to admit I have found having a Gentile name advantageous because I have a chance to present myself as a person first before I'm a minority. I've never denied or hidden my religion, and no one has ever "slipped" and said something about Jews (at least not in my hearing). If someone said something about Jews, I'd inform them that I'm Jewish even though Reed is my last name.
hoibret, December 7, 2012 7:10 PM
Interesting comment about Jewish names
Sharon, December 12, 2012 5:03 PM
why?!
Why be so judgmental and so hurtful?! I, too have a last name from my marriage that became my professional name. So, I'm stuck with it! But, living in Israel for most of my life, it has never been a problem. Interestingly, my son changed his name to a very Jewish one. You sound a bit Archie Bunkerish, sir!
(55) Anonymous, December 6, 2012 10:18 PM
Very funny and makes you think.
(54) stewart perry, December 6, 2012 9:06 PM
Very very touching. It brought damp eyes.
Interesting. My name is Perry. I am a Jew. My father was brought to America from Lithuania by an uncle. Dad's name was Yakov Peretzman. He was 16, went to school for a year to learn English and when he was 17 went out to Wyoming and became a cowboy on the Wyoming Hereford Ranch. THE COWBOYS RENAMED HIM JACK PERRY. Hence my name: Stewart Perry. I was raised Jewish by my Russian Grandmother. And am very grateful to my "Bobo."
(53) Pat Knight, December 6, 2012 4:29 PM
Changing names was done in the 1930,s and 40,s because of antisemitism in our Country.
I married a man whose name whose father's birth name was Cohen. The father left the family and the boys decided to change their name to Knight because of the Antisemitism in the US. I had an uncle who denied he was Jewish because they would not give a Car Dealership to a Jew during the 1940's. I did not grow up with this hanging over my head. We were always proud to be Jewish. My family came from Baghdad, Iraq and by the 1950's All Jews who hadn't left were hung in the square.
Shlomo, December 12, 2012 2:00 AM
non-jewish name
(52) Anonymous, December 6, 2012 3:10 PM
Very touching,but also hilarious!
(51) Anonymous, December 6, 2012 2:14 PM
They don't produce shows like this anymore. Wonderful
(49) Anonymous, December 6, 2012 3:58 AM
(48) Diane schoolsky, December 6, 2012 3:39 AM
Be proud to be Jewish. We have a lot to be proud of
(47) Helene Plotkin, December 6, 2012 2:33 AM
Very touching segment
(46) Anonymous, December 6, 2012 2:08 AM
(45) Brian Oelberg, December 6, 2012 1:57 AM
Sometimes it doesn't matter
My Mom's boss at Yeshiva University (in New York) used to tell the tale of how when his Grandparents came to the New World, his grandfather wanted nothing more than to fit in. They'd come from persecution and did not want to be assumed Jewish. So grandfather went through the phone book to find a "good AMERICAN name" and found page after page of one in particular, and so said "That's it!" And thus, became the Goldstiens. Now having told that tale, I have to say that my name, Oelberg, is not Jewish, though it's often assumed that it is, and it could be. My point is that all the Goldstiens out there already changed their names at some point in the past. But, (and this is the big one) as population grows, and as we as a world become more accepting of "funny names" and we crave identity rather than granpa Goldstien's anonymity I see the trend of people re-claiming their ancient family names taking over.
(44) Anonymous, December 5, 2012 8:54 PM
ARCHIE WHO???
(43) Anonymous, December 5, 2012 8:36 PM
Jewish stereotypes are clearly not true
(42) Howard Bleicher, December 5, 2012 8:36 PM
(41) Betty Conway, December 5, 2012 7:57 PM
(39) Deb, December 5, 2012 3:49 PM
How far have we come?
Interestingly, All in the Family would never have been produced today because of its "politically incorrect" content. I think this is a convincing example of how in the last 40 years, our society has managed to go backward instead of forward. I find it very sad that the vast majority of the current TV programs are geared toward an audience of folks having a brain no larger than a pea.
William, December 6, 2012 6:51 AM
You misunderstood
It was thanks to the frank but necessarily satiric treatment of uncomfortable issues that All in the Family contributed to the education of the public. A result is the very "political correctness" which is so hated by conservatives but which finally taught some of the most backward that it is no longer socially acceptable to use certain words in public. An obvious example is that despite the clear racism behind more than a little of the ciriticism of our president even the dullards and bigots no longer openly use racist language.
Dvirah, December 11, 2012 1:11 PM
From One Extreme to the Other
Both Deb and William make good points. The problem seems to be that even "good" trends continue until they go too far and become the opposite of what they should be. Thus "political correctness" from increased sensitivity to others has become a fear of expressing any honest opinion which goes against the "socially acceptable" one. Note that the "social acceptable" opinion need not be favorable or even just (cf. Israel in the media).
(38) Judith, December 5, 2012 7:20 AM
a classic
This episode was a classic--funny but heartwarming as well. Carroll O'Connor is so believable as Archie Bunker that it's easy to forget he was cast (waaay) against type. Many controversial issues were addressed during the run of this show and yet the writers always managed to inject some humor without being crass or offensive. Boy, how times have changed. They don't write shows like this anymore; the 60's & 70's were great years for television. If these kinds of shows were on the air today, I would actually miss not having a TV.
(37) John-Paradox Lake, December 5, 2012 12:52 AM
What NO Jews In Ireland ?
(36) carlos, December 4, 2012 8:52 AM
Archie Bunker
(35) Keren Carmel, December 4, 2012 2:23 AM
Brought tears to my eyes
(34) JOE HALFON, December 4, 2012 12:01 AM
(33) Dick H, December 3, 2012 10:07 PM
Truth to power...Thank you Archie!
(31) Shmookie of Encino, December 3, 2012 8:12 PM
And, Shalom to Archie also.......Who next, will bring back a TV series that portrays messages (agreed or not agreed) of the great American 'Freedoms' we are so blessed to express in this country? "All in the Family" was a brilliant series; Depicting the 'good and bad' of human frailties...but, most of all, never 'provoked' the call for 'suicide missions' nor 'rage and revenge'! Wil the future of America hold to its past great culture and achievements? Only, time will tell!
(30) Michael H. Manning, December 3, 2012 8:10 PM
(28) Miller, December 3, 2012 3:42 PM
So many Archie Bunkers, and so few Ediths
(26) Barry J White, December 2, 2012 10:13 PM
As usual, Edith gets it right
Edith said, "What's in a name.". The Hebrew name given after 30 days is the only one that really counts; the family name is just a matter of convenience. Judaism looks to what one does, not to thoughts or consequences and Archie did try to focus on something his friend did, possible add days to his life through laughter and good will and good cheer, worthy behavior.
(25) Anonymous, December 2, 2012 7:45 PM
There is much truth in the wisdom of jewish humor.
(24) Eva Yelloz, December 2, 2012 7:06 PM
Archie's goodbye to his "Jewish" friend Stretch
This episode spoke volumes - although Archie loved his workmate Stretch during his lifetime, looking back, he realized that all those stereotypical feelings he had about Jews suddenly disappeared and he truly cared for the man, regardless of his religion. Archie learned from his shortcomings - that's what was beautiful about his character.
(22) leon fajnsod, December 2, 2012 1:13 PM
(21) MURRAY MALISE, December 1, 2012 10:59 PM
THIS IS A CLASSIC
(20) rabbi ray, December 1, 2012 5:44 PM
You live on by your deeds while alive.
(19) Anonymous, December 1, 2012 5:30 PM
(18) Anonymous, November 30, 2012 11:39 PM
Archie turns tender at his friends funeral. I really appreciated that.
(17) Anonymous, November 30, 2012 10:50 PM
The best of Archie Bunker
(16) Bob Mandel, November 30, 2012 10:09 PM
Funny but great messages.
(15) Jay Mandelker, November 30, 2012 3:20 PM
I always loved 'All in the Family'
There was never an episode which didn't make us laugh out loud, except the few, which taught us the seriousness of 'tzedaka', of getting along with one another and the idiocy of bigotry. Thank you Norman Lear (another one of us) for enlightening and educating the North American public so well for so long.
(14) R O C K Y, November 29, 2012 8:55 PM
Yish ga doll va yish ka dashh shamay rabor
(13) Anonymous, November 29, 2012 2:17 PM
WONDERFUL ARCHIE BUNKER VIDEO
(12) Mali Vishnevsky, November 29, 2012 2:06 PM
Identity and pride for future generations
It's so important to keep one's Jewish name in order to instill pride and a sense of identity both for one's children and for future generations. There are so many Jews today who would prefer to keep their true identity in the background of their lives but this just causes more confusion in their children.
(10) Anonymous, November 29, 2012 3:11 AM
What we should be remembered for
(9) Dave, November 28, 2012 9:58 AM
is #5 a politically correct liberal?
Anonymous, December 1, 2012 1:54 PM
Answer to a bigot
Steve Shoenbrun, December 10, 2012 8:30 AM
False dichotomy
(8) Anonymous, November 28, 2012 9:50 AM
to David
I think you're wrong. archie's character was an attempt at an honest portrayal of a poorly educated blue collar american in his day. Although he was filled with stereotypes and didn't hesitate to express them - something that today would be "politically incorrect" , what made him "lovable" was that he would allow himself to be enlightened to the truth (at least until the next episode). And that was one of the the great aspects of the show.
(7) Varda Eisikovich, November 28, 2012 4:48 AM
What's in a name?
(6) anita kleinert, November 28, 2012 1:55 AM
shalom
(5) David S. Levine, November 28, 2012 12:34 AM
My Favorite Episode
This, along with the Sammy Davis Jr episode was my favorite episode of the "All in the Family" program. the only problem I might have with it (as well as the show in general) is that underneath it all it showed Archie as a "lovable" bigot. But G-d, how I laughed all through the 25 minutes the episode was on. What a great actor Carol O'Connor was that he could capture the "outer borough" character so well and make that show the one many discussed for the next few days after it was on television. Thanks to Aish.com for this clip!
(4) Pearl Sloane, November 28, 2012 12:09 AM
Thare are many ways of expressing love!
(3) Ra'anan, November 27, 2012 10:20 PM
including
Archie's life was about moving from excluding "the others" to ultimately including them. No doubt that he would not have included his close friend who he'd thought was a Irish Catholic if he'd initially known he was Jewish. Archie's final "shalom" was a step in the direction of inclusion. How many Jews are afraid to use their Jewish names for fear of exclusion? Jewish names according to our tradition are really our life missions encoded & therefore certainly worthy of not only constant use, but of study. How many opportunities are lost because we've not taken the time to investigate much as Archie realized that he'd hurt his close friend w/degrading anti-Semitic jokes because he'd not investigated to find his good friend was a Jew & therefore shown him sensitivity. We have to show OURSELVES sensitivity & be at least as good as Archie, if not more.
(2) Carolyn R, November 27, 2012 6:16 PM
Very touching episode!
Sad but true, but with an encouraging ending. Since finding I have Jewish DNA, I see things differently. Most don't realize the pain of rejection that many go through and people have told me how they have hidden their true heritage for fear of persecution. I was never anti-Semitic before but just unaware.
(1) Melissa, November 26, 2012 2:15 PM
Time and circumstance
Thank you aish for choosing to run this video - a very moving acct. of a real life issue that affects everyone. People of all faiths die with secrets. Perhaps if some of the people in your professional life 'do not know your jewish name' this is not as relevant to a legacy lived in which you are remembered (hopefully) for the JOY you brought into the world. I'm going to take this example to heart with the challenges in my life. Thank you, again.







(177) abba niv, April 29, 2013 8:29 AM
my Family name was Knox as the immigrant official in Galveston couldn't find another name beginning with Kn. I changed it to a Hebrew name in Israel. I was in California on a drainage/irrigation study in 1960 and spoke quite often to local farmers about my experiences in the Jordan Valley. Many of the people who asked questions didn't know I grew up in St. Paul and said, "You Israelis are not like our Jews here." My standard answer was, "I don't feel any difference."
(176) Irv Dain, February 16, 2013 2:42 AM
Being proud
Be proud of your Jewish identity and Jewish name
(175) Phillip Barton (Segall), January 28, 2013 9:21 AM
Why I use(d) my middle name as my last name.
When I began my career in radio 65 years ago in the Sourthern "Bible Belt," I'd have never made it with my Jewish name. Even so, some anti-Semites guessed I was a Jew -- though I didn't "look" it -- and didn't want me in their house. By the time I got to the West Coast where Jews were "accepted," my middle name was hung on me, including in both my military and police employments. Now, because of Medicare, my wife and children use the family name even as I still use my middle name; it would simply be an explanatory mishmash should I change at this late date!
(174) Anonymous, January 28, 2013 4:08 AM
redemption from Egypt
It is said that one of the reasons that the Israelites merited redemption from the slavery in Egypt was that they retained their Jewish names while in slavery.
(173) Jerry strug, January 12, 2013 2:48 AM
I was an engineer with a non Jewish sounding name. I always let it be know I was Jewish. the inevitable reaponse was " You are different" from the Other Jews. I was nmot different.