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January 31, 2013 8:47 AM
Thank you for replaying one of the most memorable lines in Latin and understood by most in the English translation.
January 31, 2013 2:36 AM
So far, no success
My son is a mature 15 yrs. old. He is blessed - he has a good head. He is however chronically lazy, hates school and often walks around aimlessly - has no interest in exploring ways to becoming productive and all together to strive to be a more interesting person. This morning, I said to him 'you are 15 and before you realize, in a snap you'll be 20. I don't see any indication from you of plans for the future.' He thinks life is just one big party. I am also distraught because I don't see any curiosity on his part: a desire to learn about other cultures; history; different ideologies and philosophies - anyhting which will contribute toward a well rounded character and serve him well inthe future. Any suggestions?
January 31, 2013 10:48 PM
Do not be distraught. but have only positive thoughts.
February 1, 2013 2:01 AM
Life is cruel to slackers.
I had a similar experience with my now 16 year old. At the end of 9th grade he had earned 2 Ds in the English studies program(math and science) . For various reasons I told him he could not return to the same High school, where he was very popular and somewhat happy. 3 High schools refused to even interview him, partly because of his grades and because I came to my decision during the last week of the school year. After an agonizing 2 weeks of trying to contact all of his references, one school finallly accepted him. I believe he was awakened by this begging experience that he put us through, and decided to get better grades. This year so far we are seeing excellent grades, he is writing for the school newspaper and occasionally reading from the torah at a teen minyian.
March 16, 2013 12:48 PM
I'm curious, Anonymous. Are cultures, history, ideologies, philosophies necessarily the only factors that would contribute to character? Speaking from personal experience, the lack of obvious curiosity on the part of your child may not be all there is. Growing up, the more curious, mature, outwardly more sparkly, intelligent child was my elder sister. As it turned out later in life, the one that appears to, for the moment, stand out from the crowd in some way is me. I don't know if you have other children. But maybe a more positive approach other than to tell him you see him as going nowhere, would be more effective in achieving your goals. Changing your own perspective might be a good way to start. Are you aware of how many lives out there who had the same advantages as your son who mess up WAY worse than he has so far, if at all. Way I see it, since at times there may seem to be no solid reasons for the things life can throw at a person, the least we can do is to adjust ourselves, look at the positives as well as the negatives, pray for open eyes to catch the gems God may have been throwing our way all along which we fail to see, adjust our own views to better reach out to others and not let good opportunities pass us by, be that teachable, reachable child to God before you require it of your own etc. And above all, someone'd taught that God only has children, no grandchildren. Wouldn't the One who fashioned us in that "reverential" way ( Psalm 139 ) know best the deposits He'd already placed within each of His creation? You could be in for a surprise if you only know how to look.
January 30, 2013 7:31 PM
Wisdom often times comes from those who have gone before us
Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,
January 30, 2013 11:45 AM
Where was my Captain when I was in school?
All ages need to hear more of this encouragement !!
January 31, 2013 10:35 PM
You Are the Captain!
"In the core of your soul reclines the commanding Master. He does but sleep; wake Him." James Allen
January 29, 2013 6:39 PM
Pursue your Passion
we need a reason to wake up early and stay up late
only then will a man make the effort to create
a life worth living
January 29, 2013 6:26 PM
Good for Graduation,,,
WE all need to hear this message, whether it be at a funeral,graduation or even on a daily basis. We think we are invincible , but we need to expand our small thinking / world and SEIZE THE DAY!
January 28, 2013 3:29 PM
good argument for secular education
poetry is actually an amazing teacher. as my english teachers used to say, that any good poet/playwright knew his bible. there is a deeply christian flavor to this segment, though the truths run deep - where have all the flowers gone?
the fact is there is no apple that falls too far from the tree as not to be found; all can be directed back to its godly source - thank you aish. for even in the midst of this winter today a few tears fell in my garden of Life.
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