Published:
May 12, 2012
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Visitor Comments: 138
(112) Yehoshua Shiloni, June 21, 2012 8:20 PM
Sorry guys....this WAS the final episode.
(111) Shoshi, June 18, 2012 6:08 AM
I will miss it
(110) Rick, May 24, 2012 2:45 AM
Halachah of dreams binding
(109) bonnie, May 21, 2012 6:28 PM
noooooooooo........
two things...first, the very first thing that i had to do when "the final episode" was over, was to go downstairs and get a pickle. second, i am really, really, really hoping that this is not, in fact, the final episode. i have always adored gould, and it is nice being "introduced" to lang.....he's adorable.
(106) Chanina Ankary, May 20, 2012 3:35 AM
Why the rush?
Very interesting saga. I would also love to see continuing episodes, but am disturbed by the message. The job was given to Andy in good faith. Andy was trained to fill the position and then became an asset to the store. Barring dire circumstances, Andy would be wrong to just quit his job the next day. First of all, he would have to give notice, and possibly train someone else to fill his position, if he became important to the "welfare" of the store. Leaving after being trained would also be like stealing, if he gained knowledge that was expected to be used to benefit the store. Leaving a job without having somewhere else to go would be irresponsible. You don't leave one job without having another lined up, if possible. Lastly, you should never burn your bridges. You should leave on good terms, without hard feelings. Andy might have to go back to the pickle store owner for a reference, or even a job again at some point in the future. He might also one day be ready to have a relationship with the owner's daughter, leaving on bad terms could hurt the sidduch. The most important thing though, is that you should never pass up an opportunity to keep the peace. We learn this from several of the Gedolim, and especially from Aharon Hakohen. If you don't run after peace, peace will run away from you. Be very careful about burning bridges.
nir, May 20, 2012 1:39 PM
listen to grandpa
Chanina, May 20, 2012 9:07 PM
Got the message, but the ending was vague
Nir, with all due respect, not once did I write that Andy shouldn't listen to Grandpa. Grandpa seems very wise and only has Andy's best interests at heart. I got the point. The point I was trying to make was, that it's not okay to just walk into your boss one day and say "I got everything I could out of you, so bye". In order for Andy to grow as much as possible from the situation, he should understand all of the ramifications and consequences of his actions. Just acting like a robot isn't what got him the job in the first place, thinking did. Grandpa's guidance is invaluable, but Andy has to grow up, too, but not at someone else's expense. That's part of the brilliance of the telling the truth scene. If you try to do what's right, you have a better chance of getting the right things out of life. Where the last scene ended left the viewer with the impression that Grandpa was just concerned with Andy moving up the ladder, be it financial or spiritual. A true Torah scholar would also have told him to be careful to leave the people he worked with, with a good impression, if possible.
(105) Ruth Hirt, May 19, 2012 10:30 PM
The Moral for Andy Ling & Us
(103) Frank P. Carpi, May 19, 2012 2:31 AM
Inconclusive
(101) Anonymous, May 18, 2012 10:11 AM
Please make more episodes
(100) Arlene, May 17, 2012 8:21 PM
is that all there is???
(99) Rose Toubes, May 17, 2012 4:53 AM
Keep the Story Going . . .Or Maybe It's Fine Just As It Is
(98) Len Friedman, May 17, 2012 3:37 AM
Andy Ling
shrl, May 17, 2012 2:31 PM
Elliota Gould is terrific and so is Andy Ling
(94) Chris, May 16, 2012 6:46 PM
FANTASTIC! PLZ MORE LTGAL!
(93) Annie, May 16, 2012 6:45 PM
that's it!? that's all?!!!
(92) Anonymous, May 16, 2012 4:33 PM
Don't get it!!
(91) Simi, May 16, 2012 3:40 PM
Ending is great!!
At first I was disappointed by the ending. That disappointment lasted only a moment. Then, as I thought about it, I became exhilarated. A portion of what I took away: Grandpa's advice to go work at a pickle store was quite a curveball. After some resistance, Andy Ling trusted Grandpa and gave his all at the pickle store, and it was good. So what about the next curveball (when Grandpa said to quit)? Andy, are you going to trust him again that it will be good? Or are you going to dismiss the wisdom that got you the "miracles" in the first place? Trust, and it will be good, even though we don't understand where the path is taking us. One more thing: Elliott Gould rocks!!! Thank you, Mr. Gould, for sharing your tremendous gift with us!
(89) Anonymous, May 16, 2012 3:00 PM
The end was disappointingly cruel!
(88) Yochi Eisner, May 16, 2012 5:30 AM
I agree - we must get more Andy Ling and his Zaide
(87) Anonymous, May 16, 2012 5:06 AM
Andy ling
Anonymous, May 16, 2012 5:37 PM
(86) Rivka, May 16, 2012 3:01 AM
My vote for more episodes
(85) Genny Spivakovsky, May 15, 2012 11:06 PM
Hate the ending
I thought all 3 shows were useful in teaching about Judaism-BUT the ending didn't make sense!. Unless because it's in Jewlarious it's meant to be a comedy & as often in comedy there is CRUELTY -which then reflects badly on teaching Jewish values. Seems to me to say -now you feel OK I'll make you squirm again. IF there was another reason I think Grandpa should have spelt it out & not left the impression he too was just a joke. I think it makes a frum Jew look bad. A pity as otherwise lots of good messages. End ruined it!!!!
(84) Paula, May 15, 2012 9:05 PM
This is too well written (and acted) to stop!
(83) Anonymous, May 15, 2012 8:38 PM
continue Andy Ling
(82) M Richard Leopold, May 15, 2012 7:18 PM
Thank You. This 3 part video was fantastic.
(81) Russ, May 15, 2012 6:31 PM
Cliff-hanger
(80) Helene, May 15, 2012 6:29 PM
How can you possible end here????
(79) Inbar, May 15, 2012 4:49 PM
very interesting ending
The end was quite surprising, but after thinking it over I can accept it now. It seems logical, even inevitable. Andy is enslaving himself to his grandfather's will, and a Jew is supposed to be only Hashem's servant. Especially since Andy claimed he wanted to be so strong, and wise, he should have the vow nullified. Strong in Jewish terms means being master of yourself, and no wise man can just 'let someone else decide everything for me all my life because the result was pleasant once.' Advise, yes, decide, no.
Anonymous, May 15, 2012 7:32 PM
You've got it backwards!
The ending comes to teach us that true success comes from nullifying our egos completely! Grandpa represents the Tzadik (righteous sage) of the generation. Similar to Moses in his generation. The way to true liberation and strength is to listen to the sage NO MATTER WHAT. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT SEEMS COUNTER INTUITIVE to do so! It's a tough pill for us to swallow in today's generation of I am my own boss and I can do whatever I want and you cant tell me what to do! But when we look at our societies' utter failures (divorce, homosexuality, drug use, depression, etc...) it becomes abundantly clear that we can no longer listen to our own "inner voice" because it has led us hopelessly astray! It's time to listen to Grandpa no matter what!!!
(78) Anonymous, May 15, 2012 4:48 PM
too simple
(75) cf, May 15, 2012 4:07 PM
Ouch
Inbar, May 16, 2012 4:59 AM
From your 'mouth' to Gods ears!
(74) Freda, May 15, 2012 3:51 PM
Something to think about
I agree with Todd (comment #68). This ending definitely gave everyone "something to think about". Maybe Rabbi Yaakov Salomon can do a video blog on it. Aish should really continue the series and bring people back to the website every week. Learning to listen to a higher authority is one of many lessons that Andy (and the audience) can learn from Grandpa.
(73) Menachem Kovacs, May 15, 2012 3:48 PM
Andy Ling
(72) David Reich, May 15, 2012 2:12 PM
Not the end!
(70) Hinda, May 15, 2012 1:51 PM
Want MORE!!!!
(69) Richard, May 15, 2012 9:35 AM
"Andy Ling" is us and "Grandpa" is OUR teacher.
(68) todd, May 15, 2012 9:21 AM
Dear Guy Disappointed Andy Has Been Told To Quit the Pickle Store
Perhaps those behind this video had the following in mind: Andy, like many of us, has had entrenched ideas about how life is supposed to go. Following those ideas rigidly, he failed over and over again. Finally, desperate, he "mvatels" (which is to say, humbles) himself, willing to listen to someone else's opinion, and that someone happens to be his grandfather, a religious man. Though he does it kicking and screaming, he listens to his grandfather, and achieves what he understands is "success", in the form of having a job and meeting a girl. But to leave it there would be to buy into the false premise Andy, and so many of us, have bought into. That we control our lives, and we know what's good and what's bad. that our perception of the way things should be is indeed what should be. By telling Andy he has to quit, Grandpa is saying the reason to listen to a higher power is not to manipulate an outcome that you know is best. There are many twists and turns in life. The same G-d who brought you to this moment of success and fulfillment may have something else entirely in mind for you. Your true happiness, fulfillment and power will come from being able to hear what G-d says to do, and do it, however inconvenient it seems in the moment. Leave your entrenched ideas! Success, if you can believe it, may be more than working in a pickle store.
(67) Pinchas, May 15, 2012 2:52 AM
Part 4
Anonymous, May 15, 2012 1:56 PM
then you got it!!!
In the same way we expected to see cute, Ok conclusions, and they all lived happily ever after, there is an element of "we just don'tknow" andy entered his first orbit and successfully realized that his past training was not sufficient for the next orbit, which certainly could be more to the series. but in the meantime, he just grew up one notch on the maturity ladder and just entered Judaism 101.
(65) Carlos, May 15, 2012 1:15 AM
And?
(64) Anonymous, May 15, 2012 1:12 AM
Nuttier than a fruit cake but much more fun.
(61) Maria, May 14, 2012 9:08 PM
What?!
A Jew doesn't quit on her (his) dream! Once she (he) has found the right path, there is no going back. That's how I see it today. If only I had found I was a Jew earlier... You guys who know who you really are from the beginning are SO lucky! You who have always had parents, and grandpas, and a whole Jewish support system to pass on to you the amazing wisdom, the beautiful traditions, the sense of belonging, the commitment to greatness and to tikun olam... You are SO, SO ,SO LUCKY! Any way, we expect to hear more from Andy Ling. In many ways he is so much like most of us who are looking for our way through trial and error...
(60) Anonymous, May 14, 2012 8:13 PM
I agree with the rest of the comments!
(58) Roberta, May 14, 2012 7:53 PM
A promising start
(57) Anonymous, May 14, 2012 7:36 PM
(56) Suzanne, May 14, 2012 6:26 PM
There is no point to the ending
(55) richard marcus, May 14, 2012 6:10 PM
Where's Part 4?!?!
(54) Anonymous, May 14, 2012 6:09 PM
good message, lousy ending
(53) Sue, May 14, 2012 6:02 PM
WHAT???
(52) milch, May 14, 2012 5:07 PM
great video
(51) Richard, May 14, 2012 4:47 PM
Oh come on! Where is part 4 ???
(50) Teresa C., May 14, 2012 4:39 PM
Oh - OK
(49) Miriam, May 14, 2012 4:36 PM
To all the commentors who want to sue Aish for not continuing this film...
(47) Anonymous, May 14, 2012 3:57 PM
Interesting
(46) Anonymous, May 14, 2012 3:25 PM
happy ending
(45) yehudit, May 14, 2012 3:04 PM
Encore, Encore!
(42) Ephraim Shalom, May 14, 2012 2:12 PM
Thank You for "Listen to Grandpa, Andy Ling"!
(41) Anonymous, May 14, 2012 2:04 PM
What!!!!
Alan, May 14, 2012 7:08 PM
(40) Doug, May 14, 2012 1:35 PM
What's The Point?
(39) Anonymous, May 14, 2012 1:33 PM
(38) Paul Lasovich, May 14, 2012 12:17 PM
(36) miriam nockenofsky, May 14, 2012 12:34 AM
wow!!!
(35) Malka, May 13, 2012 11:32 PM
What???????
(34) Anonymous, May 13, 2012 11:27 PM
Nooooo!!
(33) Anonymous, May 13, 2012 11:10 PM
It's a metaphor PLUS
I am not anonymous from comment (10), but I agree completely with that and add the following; It's also a metaphor that what is best for us is not always what we think it is. Also, it is a metaphor that the more we realise that the situations that come up in front of us are only there to test us and, through the taking of the test, build us, the more we have to attack the test with as much positivity and willpower as we can. Also, it is a metaphor that despite all the failures that we can go through in life, terrible ones, heartbreaking ones, lost love, broken business, (feeling of) complete failure, it is not actually so, and realising that the challenges that come our way can build us, develop us and cause us to grow is key to being successful and building ourselves up. And one challenge may be completely the opposite of what we think it should be - e.g. Andy thinks he should never go to the store, and yet it works out well. His next challenge is exactly the opposite - leave the store which worked out so well. Not everything makes sense to us now, nor will it. But, however confounding it may seem, it is there, specially catered, for us. Pass the test.
(31) Frances, May 13, 2012 9:39 PM
oh gutting
(30) Bebe, May 13, 2012 9:02 PM
(29) Karen Baker, May 13, 2012 9:01 PM
(28) Nancy, May 13, 2012 8:43 PM
and............
(27) Steffiep, May 13, 2012 7:44 PM
I blame the writer!
(26) ross, May 13, 2012 7:09 PM
Ultimatum?
OK, here's the deal. If you don't finish the story, then I'll finish it. I'll write the script...I have an idea of what's going to happen...and I'll submit it--jokes, Sven from NJ, and all. I'll submit the script by Friday, then we'll ask Eliezer Gould to do us a favor. Maybe I'll even make a flashback scene to when he was younger. I'll take footage from Ted and Bob and Alice and whatever he played...nice if I would have actually seen the film. Or wasn't he in MASH? A little before my time, all this. OK, part 4 in six and a half minutes coming soon to a kiruv web site near you.
(25) Dahlia, May 13, 2012 7:04 PM
I don't get it
(24) Miriam, May 13, 2012 6:43 PM
I don't get it
(23) David, May 13, 2012 6:42 PM
Andy Ling becomes his Grandpa's grandson
(22) Ruth, May 13, 2012 6:13 PM
Am at lost.
(20) Corinne, May 13, 2012 5:10 PM
what an anti climax!!
(18) RMG, May 13, 2012 4:50 PM
Why stop now?
Dear producers, This entertaining video is just beginning to make sense. Why is it only in 3 parts? I enjoyed the actiing by everyone, the young man who played Andy Ling, and all the supporting actors. I especially enjoyed Elliot Gould's performance. He's better than ever -- especially in this role. Thanks and keep it going! A fan of Aish.com
(17) debbie, May 13, 2012 4:01 PM
(15) Kristina, May 13, 2012 3:08 PM
QUIT? What a sorry ending...
(14) Diane Tishkoff, May 13, 2012 2:54 PM
More, more, more -- let's all beg Jason for more!
(13) Toby Klein Greenwald, May 13, 2012 2:40 PM
Hey, we want more!
augusto chiri, May 14, 2012 4:52 AM
enjoy life.
(12) Anonymous, May 13, 2012 2:23 PM
so enjoyable, haven't seen Elliot Gould in years
(11) cf, May 13, 2012 2:05 PM
Silky, don't worry
(10) Anonymous, May 13, 2012 1:58 PM
It's a metaphor
Same "Anonymous" as comment (5), back again. I know, I know. I'd also love this to be a miniseries with a happy ending, a wedding, the whole schmeer, but this is not a miniseries, it's a metaphor. Again, at least that's my take. Life is a cliffhanger. OUR LIVES are cliffhangers! We're not supposed to know the ending, or even what's in store for tomorrow. Grandpa is our elder, our mentor, our teacher, our rabbi, someone with our best interests at heart, someone who knows more than we do and knows us better than we know ourselves. A metaphor, a this-worldly stand-in, perhaps, for our (grand)Father in Heaven. Not even close to the real thing, but nevertheless helping us to know He's there by offering us a glimmer of goodness and wisdom, and a ray of warmth. Does this not make sense?
marty, May 14, 2012 6:09 AM
yes it makes total sense
(9) Melissa, May 13, 2012 1:34 PM
only thing constant in life is change.
i agree, epilogue is necessary here or some sort of follow up editorial from a rabbi. if grandpa is serious about andy quitting, is he going to help with part-time torah study? (finances, etc.); its a little soon, but to 'run ahead' of his meeting a nice girl does perhaps mean a change of job in the future. Actually, the grandpa may look like he's off, but jobs come & go and if the lesson is learned, then? when you are younger these sorts of jobs: camp counsellor' or 'learning leadership' jobs. looking inside others' is not so easy - to see beyond all their self-fabricated notions of who they think they are. Many people have a 'teacher' hidden in there somewhere. Now that ling has proven to himself he can manage others, might he prosper in managing himself in torah study? he either takes time to learn now, before the 'big job', family responsibilities set in or their will be little time for his education at all.
Richard, May 13, 2012 9:20 PM
(8) Yaakov, May 13, 2012 1:18 PM
I don't get it
(7) scott, May 13, 2012 12:58 PM
No, really, there's more
Rather abrupt ending, don't you agree? Mr. (Rabbi?) Venokur, an expert episode writer, wouldn't end without some closure. There's gotta be more. Maybe he's just finishing it. (And keep some more funny lines coming.) If you want a movie about someone who hit bottom didn't have a grandpa (or anyone else for that matter) to help, I can write that script. (But who will play me?)
(6) Silky, May 13, 2012 12:49 PM
This is not an ending
This isn't an ending. It's a cliff hanger. I'm still waiting to hear Grandpa say that since Andy's mother is Jewish, so is he. I'm also wondering how Schmaltzy's daughter is starting up with a guy she thinks isn't Jewish. I'd like to see Andy succeed in something. Don't leave everyone this way. Please.
Dvirah, May 13, 2012 4:36 PM
Clarification
Mr. Schmaltzy told his daughter that Andy is Harry Stifitz's grandson so she probably assumes he is Jewish. Also, just trying out her Chinese doesn't necessarily constitute "starting up." Re the quitting, my guess is that Harry wants Andy to study a bit, now that he's proved compentent at selling pickles. What if he enrolled at NYU...?
(5) Anonymous, May 13, 2012 12:47 PM
"What's next, Grandpa?"
"Tomorrow, you have to quit." Why? Because we don't always know what's best for us. Because maybe G-d has something even better in store for us. Or maybe not, but it's not for us to know or fully understand. And if you're meant to get the girl, you'll get her regardless, pickle store employee or not. Because . . . . . . The point is, Listen to Grandpa, Andy Ling! At least, that's my take on the ending, though it did stun me for a minute or two.
(4) Rachel, May 13, 2012 12:39 PM
Really?
(3) SS, May 13, 2012 11:26 AM
Epilogue please!
(2) marty, May 13, 2012 10:29 AM
why only THREE???!!!!???
(1) Anonymous, May 13, 2012 9:47 AM
this cannot be final episode




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(118) salvador, March 17, 2013 9:57 AM
great.!!!next week episode 4????.
(117) Yehoshua L, December 3, 2012 7:55 PM
There must be more...
This must become a weekly half hour (with commercials) show or I'll commit..... .....something!
(116) Alan, August 14, 2012 6:27 PM
Bravo!!
More! More! Encore! We must why....(not giving it away)
(115) Rosi, July 30, 2012 6:12 PM
Are there more episodes?
OK, now that I'm hooked, when is the next episode? There are more coming, right ...?
(114) Shmuel G, June 25, 2012 1:44 AM
Gotta See More!!!!
Really great. Can't wait to see episode 4.