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Israel Is Us

Israel Is Us

Italian journalist and global terrorism expert Fiamma Nirenstein wants Europe to view Israel as a model for emulation.

by Ruthie Blum

Fiamma Nirenstein rushes into her kitchen to brew some Italian coffee before we sit down to discuss her latest best-seller, Israele Siamo Noi [Israel Is Us; Rizzoli Publishers, not yet been translated into English], which sold out in its first week and is already on its second printing. On the table, amid a mound of newspapers, is a laptop with at least three documents on which she is working simultaneously: one, an article she needs to finish by evening to meet her deadline for the Milan-based daily, Il Giornale; another, a lecture she is preparing for her upcoming trip to Rome; yet another an entry for her popular blog, www.fiammanirenstein.com.

The music of the bubbling espresso pot is accompanied by the repeated Outlook Express jingle signaling she has new mail and the ring of her home and mobile phones.

"Pronto," she answers each, practically simultaneously, talking to one caller in Italian and the other in Hebrew. This she does while ushering me into the salon and gesturing that I take a seat on the couch. The spacious, sunny living-and-dining room may as well be a multilingual Mideast studies library, for all the books on the subject lining the walls, and the dozens more piled high on other surfaces -- a number of which she herself has either authored, co-authored or contributed to.

Given the room's decor, it may as well be located in Florence, where Nirenstein was born and raised; in Rome, where she lives and works (and visits her 25-year-old son, Binyamin) half of every month; or in Tuscany, where she spends her summers. The panoramic view of the Holy City from the floor-to-ceiling windows is the only give-away to the location of Nirenstein's home in Jerusalem -- which she shares with her Israeli husband, Ofer Eshed, a TV news cameraman.

Nirenstein dissects what she calls the "sick words" that have infiltrated the language and consciousness of an increasingly anti-Semitic Europe.

"Israel is a country of heroes," Nirenstein says in Italian-accented English. "My book tries to destroy the vile myths perpetrated about its being 'colonialist' or an 'apartheid state' on the one hand, and about terrorists 'being militiamen fighting for freedom' on the other."

Nirenstein does this, she explains, by dissecting what she calls the "sick words" that have infiltrated the language and consciousness of an increasingly anti-Semitic Europe -- terms she and a group of Italian academics plan on collecting for a glossary, "because such word abuse prevents even the possibility of understanding what Israel is all about."

She comes by her passion for Israel -- and familiarity with the conceptual distortions characteristic of "autocratic ideologies" -- honestly. The daughter of Holocaust historian and long-time Al Hamishmar correspondent Aharon "Nir" Nirenstein (who came to Palestine in 1936 from Poland, and went to Italy in 1945 with the Jewish Brigade) and Corriere della Sera journalist Wanda Lattes, Nirenstein was an ardent communist in her youth. And, just as Zionism was part and parcel of her upbringing, so too, she says, was she caught up in the "mental corruption" that caused her generation to look to the likes of Che Guevara for inspiration, while attributing the world's ills to "capitalist imperialism."

Nirenstein, who has been reporting from Israel for the Italian print and broadcast media for nearly two decades, after years of being an international columnist, is a European version of a neocon. Her journey across the political spectrum -- like that of her American counterparts -- began as a response to the radical climate of the 1960s in her own country. Unlike theirs, however, Nirenstein's was paved with an added complication: To side with anything resembling the right wing in post-World War II Italy meant aligning with the fascists.

Still, Nirenstein asserts, "You cannot run away from reality indefinitely. Ultimately, you have to know what's right in terms of values, and be courageous about standing up for them."

For her, this endeavor has taken the form of examining, reporting on and writing extensively about terrorism -- and defending Israel in the face of it. "This costs something, of course," she says, alluding to the bodyguards who pick her up from the airport every time she lands in Italy, and shuttle her from place to place throughout her stay there.

During her most recent stint to promote her book -- an appeal to Europeans to emulate Israeli democracy -- Nirenstein says she was pleased about the positive reception it received, but stops short of being optimistic. Shrugging and smiling wryly, she sighs: "I'm afraid Europe will only wake up if terrible things happen that none of us would wish on ourselves or on anybody else."

Ruthie Blum (RB): Why is it significant that your book has received so much attention in the mainstream Italian press?

Fiamma Nirenstein (FN): My previous eight books have also been given extensive coverage, but what's significant in this case are the headlines. "Israel: A model for all of us," and "Israel: A model for democracy." I got the sense that this book released a cork in European public opinion. Many people have approached me and whispered in my ear, "I am with you."

RB: Does this mean that the general attitude in Europe is changing?

FN: The attitude in Europe is terrible. It is a public who admires [EU Secretary-General Javier] Solana for telling the Americans that we must be ready to make an agreement with Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad. Americans and Israelis may know that the world is unsympathetic to them. But they don't understand how deep the lack of European understanding of terrorism goes, nor how deep the rejection of the word "war."

War to Europeans, regardless of the context, is anathema and has been since World War II. For Europeans, whoever wages a war is a criminal. Even those with a more sophisticated point of view always start from this point. You see, Israel is the country in the world most covered by the press, yet about which the least is known. This is why I wrote the book. In it, I try to describe what Israel is; what its war is all about; how it is possible to be at war and a democracy at the same time; and most importantly, how Israel is the avant-garde of the Western countries. These are crucial points to convey to Europeans, for whom democracy and war simply do not go together.

RB: Even though World War II saved European democracy?

FN: There is a lot of revisionism going on now in Europe about the American intervention in WWII -- even as far as to view it as imperialistic. Europeans consider democracy to be their invention, but history has demonstrated how they betray her all the time. Let's face it: Europe is the cradle of all the autocratic ideologies of our time -- fascism, communism. There is a real fascination in Europe with assertive autocracies and ideologies.

"I see the dangerous seeds of a culture of violence in Europe being inspired by the Islamic model."

I see the dangerous seeds of a culture of violence in Europe being inspired by the Islamic model -- exactly the way that my generation was inspired by [Marxist guerrilla leader] Che Guevara.

RB: Are you saying, then, that Nazism was a natural or logical product of Europe?

FN: What I'm saying is that there is an illness in Europe that's always been there -- one whose main symptom is anti-Semitism.

RB: Has the post-WWII taboo against expressing it expired?

FN: Well, anti-Semitism in Europe today is very high, and has taken an even sharper rise since the Second War in Lebanon. According to statistics, anti-Semitic incidents all over Europe have multiplied.

RB: Not only those perpetrated by Muslims?

FN: Not only by Muslims. There are neo-Nazi, neo-Fascist and also leftist global movements that are very anti- Semitic -- though they would never acknowledge it. They call it anti-imperialism, and say it's simply criticism of the State of Israel. But if you look at the double standards with regard to civil rights, you know they are being false. We come from a culture of civil rights, which became totally distorted by the communists, who took all of the civil rights for themselves and denied them to others. During the Cold War, civil rights became the medal you received for being on your way to communism. That was the way the communists saw the Third World and Arab countries. So terrorist, autocratic, fascist governments, like the Arab ones, became recipients of civil rights, though they were not upholding them at all.

RB: You were also a feminist. [When you witnessed the reconstruction of Europe after World War II] did you not see forms of freedom for women being allowed to blossom?

Yes, but it's more complicated than that. I remember an incredible confusion that created the impossibility of living a happy couple life, and much divorce. We thought that love and passion were exactly the same thing. So, when passion became pale, we simply got divorced. We had children here and there from different marriages. We created situations that were very hard to manage. We made our lives very difficult. And what emerged from all that was a terrible selfishness. Couples in Europe now, particularly in Italy, rarely have more than one child. Meanwhile, the immigrants are having many.

RB: Which brings us to the issue of demography -- the buzz-word in Israel that has been framing the debate since 1967. What about the demographics in Europe?

FN: I read that Austria -- one of the most conservative countries in terms of public life and behavior -- in a few years will have a white Christian minority. Incredible.

RB: You say that people whisper in your ear about being on your side. The book must have touched a nerve.

FN: The Italians are much milder than other Europeans in the way they express their views. This is something that makes the discussion at least possible. On the other hand, don't forget that a third of European Jewry was deported during the war, and Italy was no exception. It had racial laws exactly like those of Germany. Furthermore, today Italy has a large, opportunistic, politically correct petit bourgeoisie.

Hegemony is something that still almost completely reigns. In Italy, as in the rest of Europe, what dominates is a politically correct media. So maybe the Italians are not aggressive in an argument; maybe they are polite and civilized. But when you sit at a dinner party with them, their basic assumption is that Israel is wrong and the Palestinians are right. And that terrorism is a minor phenomenon which pales in comparison to the domination of capitalism.

RB: In spite of their witnessing the carnage produced by radical Islamic violence? And in spite of their seeing certain behavior on the part of immigrants to their countries? Has this not created a racist backlash on the part of many Europeans?

FN: Of course, there is a quiet tendency to what I call "democratic racism." In fact, I wrote a book with this title when this dangerous phenomenon started. And it is dangerous because the intellectual elite have not been elaborating the issue properly, since political correctness forbids them from doing so. So, what they say is, "These immigrants are welcome here. We need to have a multicultural society. Terrorism and the madrassas that educate to it are a minor phenomenon. Islam is one of the three monotheistic religions."

On the other hand, there is mumbling on the part of ordinary people to the effect that, "We can't stand them any more. Our streets aren't safe. They steal our money. They take our jobs." Which is unjust, of course. And which is why the absence of an intellectual bridge between these two positions is dangerous. It's about time that we created one, because if we don't, the mumbling will become a violent mob shout.

RB: How can this intellectual void be filled?

FN: For example, by telling immigrants, "If you come to our country, you won't marry four women; you will marry only one."

I mean, you know, Italy is a country in which women have been fighting for centuries for freedom -- and now you have women living in homes with other wives, and subject to honor killings and female circumcisions. Which is all due to this ill idea of multiculturalism.

RB: The aim of your book is to tell anybody who believes in liberal values that Israel is a model to identify with and emulate?

FN: Yes. And to stop paying so much heed to all the corruption allegations and other assaults against Israel. Democracy involves the circulation of information that exposes everybody. In Israel, as everywhere else, human nature is what it is. When I'm asked which errors I admit to Israel's having committed, I say that Israel has made many mistakes, but for the most part, they are political ones. One can argue about whether it was right or wrong to withdraw from Gaza. My own opinion on that has changed, by the way, because originally I thought it was a good idea, but now that I have seen the results, I say, "Mea culpa, mea culpa." I think I'm not alone in that.

RB: Isn't the response to your book an indication that Europeans are beginning to grasp what you're talking about?

"I'm afraid they'll only wake up if terrible things happen."

FN: No. I'm afraid they'll only wake up if terrible things happen that none of us would wish on ourselves or on anybody else. Having said that, there is some level of awareness that the Islamist jihadists hate not only Israel, but also the rest of the Western world. Ahmadinejad has his Shihab-3 missiles pointed at European capitals -- which they realize to some extent. But still, things are not really getting better.

What has dominated European life is laziness on the one hand, and loneliness on the other. There isn't the kind of solidarity that exists in Israel -- where everybody has something to say to everybody else -- even if it's done in a hutzpadik manner. In Israel, there is a sense of communication -- and of being in the same boat. This is something not found anywhere else. It is a country full of solidarity.

On the one hand it's true that people are starting to sense that radical Islam is against democracy. On the other, it's not clear whether this feeling will develop any further. You see, there is a complete disconnect going on. Using my students as an example: They say, "It's true that we are a superior culture because of civil rights and women's rights and freedom and democracy. But, precisely because we are superior, it is we who have to find a way to an agreement."

When you tell them, "But they don't want an agreement. They are a revolution. Think about Ahmadinejad. He doesn't want an agreement. He's a revolutionary. It's his revolution," they say, "This is impossible!"

But it's not only Europe that doesn't understand this. I fear that Israel doesn't understand this about itself the way it should. Israel is at the heart of the greatest adventure not only of this century, but of this millennium.

Reprinted with permission from the Jerusalem Post.

Published: August 11, 2007


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Visitor Comments: 9

(9) Larry Kocen, September 1, 2007 5:06 AM

Support for Israel

I responded to an article/letters in Herald Tribune, Sarasota Florida in support of Israel. I was wondering if I was all wet in my statement below in regards to some of the crap that people believe or think they know about the jews. I over the years have been touched by people of the Jewish faith and it made me a better person, I believe. I was short in my response to the many letters of this article.
The topic was "Is Israel a liability to our country and it had 60 hits.

If I AM CORRECT THE JEWS WERE LED OUT OF EGYPT AND WANDERED THE DESERT FOR 40 YEARS AND FINALLY LED TO THE LAND OF MILK AND HONEY. AS TIME PASSED THEY WERE DESTROYED AND PUSHED OUT OF THE LAND AND SPRED OUT OVER THE WORLD. THEY HAVE ENDURED A LOT OF PAIN AND SUFFERING OVER THE YEARS THAT WE AS CHRISTIANS CANNOT EMAGINE. I DO NOT KNOW IF I COULD BE SO STRONG IN MY BELIEFS AND TAKE THE PRESSURE THAT THEY DO. MAYBE THAT IS WHY THEY HAVE TO BE UNITED IN SOME WAY TO REMAIN STRONG AND MOST PEOPLE ARE JEALOUS OF THE ACCOMPLISHMENTS. THE NAZIS REGEIM PICKED THEM OUT BECAUSE THEY WERE THE PEOPLE OF MEANS AND GOOD BUSINESS PEOPLE. THEY DID GO TO ISRAEL AFTER BEING PERSECUTED OVER THE YEARS, WWII AND EVEN THE USA DID NOT COME TO THEIR AID EARLY IN THE YEARS PRIOR TO THE WAR. THEY TOOK CRAP LAND, DESERT AND MADE IT WHOLE AND PROSPERED. IF SOMEONE STARTED KILLING YOUR PEOPLE AND/OR WERE CONSTANTLY AFTER YOU, WOULD YOU NOT DEFEND YOURSELF?
I DO NOT KNOW EVERYTHING BUT THEY HAVE BACKED OUT OF THE OCCUPIED LAND SO THE PALISTIANS COULD LIVE IN PEACE AND AS BEFORE THE TERRORISTS CONTINUE TO START TROUBLE. THERE ARE THOSE PEOPLE WHO WILL KILL FOR THE SAKE OF KILLING AND USE THEIR RELIGION AS AN EXCUSE. IF THEY ARE NOT KILLING JEWS FOR THE LOVE OF THEIR RELIGIONS THEN WAIT, THEY WILL BE HERE GIVE US THEIR BLESSING AS IN 911.

I DO NOT KNOW IF I MAKE SENSE BUT IT IS HERE FOR EVERYONE TO ATTACK IT OR SUPPORT IT.

I AM A CATHOLIC

(8) Anny Matar, August 24, 2007 5:46 AM

I'M AFRAID IT'S USELESS TO TRY AND CONVINCE EUROPE

WE, HERE IN ISRAEL, HAVE CREATED OUR OWN FIFTH COLUMN, OUR OWN ENEMIES
WITHIN, BY LETTING THE "DO GOODERS"
BE THE VOICE LOUDEST HEARD AND EVERYONE ACCUSING THEM OF THE WRONG THE'RE DOING AND THAT THEY'RE UNDERMINING AND MESSING UP THEIR OWN NEST,THEIR COUNTRY (THE GERMAN'S CALL IT "NEST BESCHMUTZUNG") THEY WILL REACT BY TELLING YOU "YOU'RE A RIGHT WING REACTIONARY AND THAT ALL YOU'D LIKE TO SEE IS THAT THEY BE SHUT UP#SHUT OUT#NOT HEARD#HUMAN RIGHTS#THE RIGHT FOR ALL TO KNOW# ALL THESE THINGS WHICH ARE HARMFUL TO MY COUNTRY I WOULD LIKE NOT TO BE PROPAGATED. AS ALWAYS, THE JEWS ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT B BEING POPULAR WITH JEWISH ENEMIES WILL MAKE THEM BE "LOVED"

(7) Janet, August 23, 2007 5:08 AM

we have to fight this new antisemitism

(6) geraldine sassler, August 19, 2007 9:47 AM

My oldest son lives in Israel with his wife and eleven children, two of whom are married.

We went to Israel in February to attend our granddaughter's wedding and are very interested in knowing as much as we can about the country. (We have been there numerus times but there is always something new to learn.

(5) Sharon, August 17, 2007 9:48 AM

Sick Words glossary

I would like to read this new book when it is translated into English, and I would love to see a book on the corruption of words and their meaning when it is written. Thank you for this article. You are trying with elegance and intelligence to explain "why Israel" to the rest of us and that is wonderful.

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