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The True Face of Israeli Youth

The True Face of Israeli Youth

A new poll reveals surprises that undermine the stereotype.


The Western media relishes depictions of young Israeli soldiers as callous, mean, and macho. A new study of Israeli eleventh and twelfth graders -- those who are about to become the next batch of soldiers-reveals a very different profile.

A poll conducted in early April, 2002, by Dr. Mina Tzemach, Israel's pre-eminent pollster, was published in the Hebrew weekly Jerusalem. It paints a portrait of teenagers whose primary value is family, who are afraid to venture out of their houses to have a good time, who are pessimistic that terror attacks will soon end or that the State of Israel will still exist by the time they reach middle age, yet who overwhelmingly want to remain in Israel.

Here is a sampling of the results:

Question: What is the most important thing for you to do in life?

To raise a family33%
To find love24%
To help others21%
To serve the country16%
To make money5%

Question: Given the security situation, have you changed or not changed your recreational habits recently?

Yes, I go out of the house less66%
Yes, I go out of the house more1%
No, I haven't changed my recreational habits33%

In your opinion, will the terror attacks in Israel continue for weeks, months, or years?

Several weeks10%
Several months to one year41%
At least two years24%
At least ten years18%

Question: Ultimately, do you believe that there will be peace with the Palestinians?

Yes, but it will take many years45%
Yes, soon4%

Question: In your opinion, will the State of Israel exist in another 50 years?

Definitely yes54%
I think so32%
I think not6%
Definitely not2%

Question: In return for real peace with the Palestinians, do you support or oppose the division of Jerusalem?


As a result of the security situation, have you changed your political stand?

No, I haven't changed58%
Yes, I've moved to the right31%
Yes, I've moved to the left9%

Question: Among the following people, who, in your opinion is most fitting to lead the State of Israel as of today?

Benyamin Netanyahu29%
Ariel Sharon24%
Shimon Peres10%
Ehud Barak8%
Yossi Sarid [far left]6%
Effie Eitam [religious right]4%
Benyamin Ben Eliezer [Labor party head]3%
Avigdor Lieberman [far right]2%
None of them13%

Question: In the framework of military service, which kind of unit would you like to serve in?

Combat unit55%
Administrative unit15%
Professional unit29%

Question: In the framework of military service, do you prefer to serve in a unit close to home or far from home?

Close to home72%
Far from home21%
Doesn't matter6%

The pollsters' comment in comparing the above two results was: "Even though most Israeli high school students are prepared to serve in a combat unit, even so they don't want to be far from their mothers."

Question: What profession do you want to practice in the future?

Security services6%
Actor, singer, or D.J.5%
Technician or electrician2%

Question: In your opinion, should marijuana be legalized?


Question: Have you ever had sexual relations?

Didn't answer5%

Question: If you had the choice, would you prefer to continue to live in Israel, or would you prefer to move to a different country?

Continue to live in Israel84%
Move to a different country16%


Reading this poll, I was struck by the contrast with my own youth in suburban New Jersey. As high school students, our biggest worry was getting admitted to a top college. These Israeli teenagers worry that if they go out for a pizza, they could lose their hands -- or their lives.

During my youth in America, gun control was a burning issue. Pro-gun control activists argued that the more guns are readily available, the more violent crimes are committed. In Israel, some two-thirds of the 18-to-21-year-olds walk around armed with an automatic rifle. (Army regulations require soldiers to carry their weapons at all times, including when they are off duty and when they go to sleep.) Yet the number of armed robberies and other crimes committed with these guns is minuscule. According to Police spokesperson Susie Ben Baruch, last year there were only two cases of armed robbery using army-issued guns (which were brandished to scare but not actually fired) and no cases of off-duty soldiers using their guns against another person (domestic quarrels, girlfriends, personal fights, etc.).

While my generation -- the sixties generation -- was known for its non-materialism, times have changed. The present mall generation sprouts more business majors than social workers. Yet only 5% of Israeli kids consider making money a life priority. Even the 10% who aspire to become doctors must be seen in context; the standard joke in Israel is that plumbers earn more than doctors.

In Israel, the specter of mortality confronts every eighteen-year-old.

As for mortality, my friends and I never gave it a thought. Death pertained to my parents' generation, as irrelevant to us as gray hair and paying taxes. As a teenager, I did not know a single young person who died of any cause. Here in Israel, however, the specter of mortality confronts every eighteen-year-old. Rare is the teenager who has not lost a friend, neighbor, or relative while serving in the army. In a military helicopter collision a few years ago, which killed 73 soldiers, five of the victims came from a single high school. Television footage of seniors in that high school a few days later showed young visages looking directly into the face of death.

The America of my youth was racked by periodic race riots, the seismic rumblings of the Civil Rights Movement, and, later, the upheavals of the War in Vietnam. But these societal convulsions affected me only as much as I allowed. I attended demonstrations on weekends -- except, of course, during exam periods. The great tragedies of my college years -- the assassinations of Robert Kennedy and Martin Luther King -- drove me and my friends to spend long, somber hours discussing world issues over expresso at the Brandeis coffee house.

While I spent my youth in a land prone to occasional societal earthquakes, young Israelis perceive themselves as building their lives on quicksand. They are embarking on a future which, simply put, may not be there when they arrive. Forty-six percent are not sure their country will even exist fifty years down the road. And 95% expect to remain in a state of war with the Arabs for most of their adult lives. Over 40% expect the terror attacks -- which make every outing to a movie or mall into a foray with fate -- to last for years. These days many Israeli 19-year-olds attend more funerals than parties.

Facing this grim scenario, one might expect most young Israelis to opt out, to want to seek a safer, more "normal" life in Los Angeles or Houston. Yet 84% of those polled choose to stay in Israel -- at whatever cost. Why?

Although the poll included no religious nor philosophical queries, perhaps the answer lies in a result which reveals more unanimity than any of the political questions: 77% of Israeli teens oppose the division of Jerusalem -- even for "true peace" with the Arabs.

Jerusalem, Zion, the resting place of the Divine Presence, has for 3,000 years represented the core of Jewish identity, the place in this physical world which transcends the physical world, the site of our national rendezvous with God. Abdicating Jerusalem, especially the Temple Mount, means abdicating the essence of what it means to be a Jew. On some gut level, Israel's predominantly secular teenagers are not willing to sacrifice their identity as Jews, even for the sake of security, peace, and life itself.

This article is dedicated to my uncle Lloyd E. Rigler, on the occasion of his 87th birthday. He was recently awarded the "Humanitarian Award for the Arts" by the organization Free Arts for Abused Children. May God continue to bless him with life and good health in the merit of the many people he helps.

Sara Yoheved Rigler’s all-encompassing online marriage program, “Choose Connection: How to Revive and Rejuvenate Your Marriage” is available to readers at a special price. Click here for more info:

April 27, 2002

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Visitor Comments: 17

(17) Anonymous, March 22, 2013 3:27 AM

great article in every way

I'm glad to see that some of the young folks are turning Right.

The other arabs do not want the Palestinians to win. It's all a sham.

(16) Mike Cassell, June 4, 2003 12:00 AM

The Israelis are the good guys

This poll that was taken clearly shows that the Israelis are the ones with the good intentions. If the polls were taken with Arab youth in an Arab country (like Iraq) I'm sure they would have come out much differently. The only thing that really surprised me was that the poll claims that 84% of Israelis don't support marijuana legalization.

Israel is the only country in the middle east thats treats all of her citizens like first class citizens. In all other Arab countries it is a harsh reality that only Muslim Men get treated like real citizens. In Israel however, everyone has equal opportunity whether you are Jewish, Muslim, Christian, Man, or Woman.

(15) Anonymous, May 12, 2002 12:00 AM

The Clear Eyes of the Young

How very encouraging to see that the youth of Israel have eyes and hearts of clear understanding. So many of us adults are still seeking the answers to the basic questions of our priorities in life when these young ones can see it so very clearly. They see so many loved ones and friends senselessly and brutally killed daily and one can only imagine how hopeless everything seems to them. But it is so inspiring to see them rise above these and that they know what is more important and dear in life.
I can see them rising up as fearless defenders of Israel and the G-d Of Israel shall be with them because they will not break His law by dividing up His land to pacify the terrorists. They can see through all the political lies and their hearts are crying out for truth. May the G-d of Israel reveal His truth to every youth.

(14) p leor, May 9, 2002 12:00 AM

eye opening

thanks Ms Rigler, for another educating article. It is good for the rest of the world to know about the mentality and priorities of Israeli kids. There isn't a better place on earth for Jewish children and other Jews than Eretz Israel.... Baruch Hashem

(13) Anonymous, May 1, 2002 12:00 AM

Overview of Israel's Young People

Wonderful article and encouraging in many ways. However, I did not see anything about where these young people are in their religeous or spiritual lives. Do they study or believe in the Torah (if they have time)? And, are their basic beliefs dependent upon the teachings of the Torah? Or, are their beliefs based on political or patriotic ideas?

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