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Other People's Prayers

Other People's Prayers

Respect is a two-way street.


In 1263, the great Spanish scholar Rabbi Moses ben Nahman, better known as Nahmanides, was summoned to Barcelona by King James I of Aragon to engage in a rather stressful form of interfaith dialogue with representatives of the Dominican and Franciscan religious orders.

Their debate is known to history as the Disputation of Barcelona. The purpose of those who initiated the event (principally, an apostate Jew) was to compel the conversion of Spanish Jewry to Christianity. Guaranteed freedom of speech, Nahmanides, the sole Jewish representative in the proceedings, gave as good as he got in a free-wheeling medieval rhetorical brawl, in which both sides made it clear how little they thought of their opponents' faith.

Though given a reward by the king for his performance, Nahmanides was eventually forced to flee the country because of the church's anger. In particular, Pope Clement IV sought to punish the rabbi for his courageous defense of Judaism.

Catholic Revival

Flash forward 745 years, and some the lessons of the Disputation still stand. Public arguments about matters of faith can be a dangerous game whose outcome often serves the purposes of those who wish to spread intolerance rather than knowledge.

Though the context of the present day couldn't be any more different than the circumstances of 1263 Barcelona, many Jews appear to be thinking about interfaith relations with this piece of sad history still in mind.

The latest irritant in Catholic-Jewish relations is the result of the church's revival of an Easter Week devotion in which believers asked to pray for the conversion of the Jews

As part of an effort to break down divisions within Catholicism that had grown up around the abandonment of the Latin Mass, last year Pope Benedict XVI allowed the saying of the Tridentine rite. The prayer, which was dropped by the Second Vatican Council in the 1960s, spoke of Jewish "blindness" and asked the Almighty to "remove the veil from their hearts."

Shocked by this reversion to language that was part of a long history of the teaching of contempt for Judaism, Jewish leaders asked the Vatican to reconsider the move. Last week, the Vatican responded by issuing a new version of the prayer which eliminated the lines about blindness" and the "veil" over Jewish hearts, but did not omit the call for conversion.

The Jewish reaction to this move was anguished. The Anti-Defamation League wrote a letter to the pope asking that he further amend the prayer. The Conservative, Reform and Reconstructionist movements are all expected to add their pleas soon.

In response, Cardinal Walter Kasper seemed to express bewilderment at the sensitivity of the Jews. He told the Italian newspaper Corriere della Sera, "I don't understand why Jews cannot accept that we can make use of our freedom to formulate our papers." His point was that the prayer "reflects the faith of the church, and furthermore Jews have prayers in their liturgical texts that we Catholics don't like ... one must respect differences."

Problems arise not from believing these different things, but how we act on those differences.

While the cardinal's statement illustrates the slippery slope down which this sort of dispute can soon lead to hurt feelings on all sides, he is, of course, right. Catholics are free to believe whatever they want about the universal truth of the doctrines of their faith. The same right must also apply to everyone else when it comes to their opinions about their own religions and everyone else's. Problems arise not from believing these different things, but how we act on those differences.

On that score, it is important for Jews to understand that the Catholic Church has, in recent generations, moved light years away from the spirit of the Disputation of Barcelona. Under the inspired leadership of Pope John XXIII and later Pope John Paul II, the Vatican discarded the teaching of contempt for Judaism, and introduced new curricula in their schools and churches based on respect for Judaism and recognition of past persecutions.

As for proselytizing, unlike many Protestant denominations, the church has dropped campaigns to specifically target Jews for conversion.

Yet Jewish groups still fear that if the Vatican, in seeking to mollify its own liturgical conservative wing, moves away from the spirit of Vatican II, it will mean that Catholics no longer embrace John Paul II's beliefs that taught Catholics to think of Jews as their theological older brothers whose legitimacy should not be questioned.

That fear is genuine and it is based, in no small part, on the legacy of church-based missionizing that was rooted in compulsion and oppression of Jews.

But as Cardinal Kasper told Vatican Radio in another interview, the revised prayer "does not mean we are embarking on a mission" to convert Jews. Rather, they are just expressing their faith.

Jews and Catholics may have many things in common, but they do not accept the fundamentals of each other's religions. No less than in 1263, Christians believe theirs is the true path to salvation. Jews still disagree. In societies where religion rules all, such as most of the Islamic world, such theological differences are just as much a matter of life and death as they were in Barcelona during the Disputation.

Agreeing to Disagree

But in free societies such as our own, we can merely say, "vive la difference" and leave it at that, knowing none of us will be the worse for wear as a result of our contrasting views about the nature of eternity or divinity.

Genuine interfaith dialogue is not rooted in agreement, but rather, on agreement to disagree. The trick is to do so in a civil manner, and to avoid public attacks on each others faiths that can only lead to discord and prejudice.

Our challenge comes from forces within Islam whose goal is to dismantle the edifice of tolerance that Jews and Christians have worked so hard to create.

Church never chooses to deviate from the path of John Paul II, it is not for Jews to tell Catholics what to say in their prayers, any more than it is legitimate for them to go back to trying to censor the Jewish liturgy as they once did. Respect is a two-way street.

Rather than seek to turn Benedict's revival of the Tridentine mass into a major issue, what we need to to do is to stop worrying about Catholic prayers, and instead continue the work of bringing the two faiths closer together in defense of Western freedoms.

This is a moment in history when the greatest challenge to religious freedom is not coming from the traditional sources of reaction within Christianity, such as those that sought to punish Nahmanides for defending Judaism at Barcelona. Instead, our challenge comes from forces within Islam that have already sought to censor the beliefs of Pope Benedict for defending the West. Their goal is to dismantle the entire edifice of tolerance that Jews and Christians have worked so hard to create.

Given that reality, this is not the time to pick fights over other people's prayers.

February 16, 2008

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(20) KATHLEEN Dahnke Nottestad, March 18, 2016 2:23 AM

Strive to make life better move forward TOGETHER!

Western Freedom has top billing THUS, for mankind to embrace
A common ground - which is the belief in one God and trying to love one's neighbors as God has asked ALL his children to do. It sounds to me easy but there are those that seem literally Hell bent on doing what ever they can to embattled others in pettiness. So for mankind to choose to God's proven way of living our lives out underneath the heavens He created in a Wonderous World it seems incredible that going to ones core beliefs of these religions which to me is GOD IS LOVE!!! So let's
Entwine our core and go forward as God would want to make our world a haven for one and all. We should be working together to insure no child goes to bed hungry - all these fancy building that require unbelievable sums of money how can one see this more important than ensuring the basics required to survive the main step in Maslow's Hierarchy Theory - 1st their NEEDS to be a roof over our head and food on ones table how long have we exsisted and these basic needs for some have NOT been acquired. AMERICA is the Richest nation and still children are sleeping in cars having gone to bed HUNGRY! WHY? We should be uniting for the good of all mankind - together we can move forward are core being no matter which religion must seek
to better life for all. It seems petty to fuss over things that each person in a free democracy can choose for oneself - one day if we doN'T have the common sense to unite and go forward for the good of ALL there are those working over time to see that more and more will be living on the roadsides and going to bed hungry. Why because - enlighten me WHY?!! We know God loves ALL of us - so if not for ourselves for him - unite and stand arm in arm make our world a place where Maslow's Hierarchy to reach self actualization is truly a possibility for those seeking it. The first level is basic and no individual should NOT want for roof over one's head and food on one's table. TOGETHER!!

(19) Gary Katz, February 25, 2008 1:49 PM

Understandable reaction

Maybe it is a bit whiny of us to object to this Catholic prayer, but we Jews should be allowed a bit of prickliness at prayers that imply coercive conversion, given our history.

(18) David R. Pressler, February 25, 2008 10:45 AM

Agree !!!

Excellent article. Should be promulgated in more Jewish and Christian circles for all to see.
Mazal tov for your courage to say it like it is and SHOULD BE in American and Israeli(!) society.

(17) Lynn R, February 22, 2008 11:53 AM

Bravo Dr. Zidonov

Quite precisely stated. It is nice to finally read someone has clearly stated the true meaning of "tolerance." We have so twisted the word to accept any and everything and losing our own "self" respect, instead of respecting other's. There is nothing we can do to change other's belief outrightly, the only thing we can do is express why we believe what we believe, provide our evidence, which is Torah, the written word as we can only live by the guidelines HaShem has given. Not by what man says, but by what we know to be true in G*d's Word.

(16) Shawn B. Zell, February 20, 2008 8:45 PM

Yasher koach

I wrote an article expressing similar sentiments which was published in the Texas Jewish Post

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