Personal Growth
Every Last Crumb
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These real people exemplify five Jewish responses to dealing with adversity.
On January 8, 2011, a week into her third term, Gabrielle Giffords was critically injured by a gunshot wound to the head in Tucson, Arizona. 13 people were injured and six others were killed in the shooting. She was forced to leave a career that she loved, spending the last three years in extensive physical therapy. Giffords still has difficulty speaking and walking, and her right arm is mostly paralyzed.
Giffords marked the 3 year-anniversary of the shooting by going skydiving. Giffords said on an interview with The Today Show, explaining her jump, “I’m alive!” Giffords may not be Jewish, but her attitude exemplifies to Torah’s mandate to “Choose life” (Deut. 30:19).
Bart Stern, a Holocaust survivor, told of the time a man in Auschwitz was robbed of his daily ration of bread. Because of the starved and emaciated state of concentration camp inmates, this was tantamount to a death sentence. So Bart – also starving – gave the man some of his own bread.
After the war, Bart moved to Los Angeles. He would stand on the street corner every morning to watch the kids on their way to Jewish day school. He said: "After the war, my greatest joy is to see happy, free Jewish children."
Bart said, "I think I survived Auschwitz for a reason, and I am going to dedicate the rest of my life to help connect young people to their Jewish heritage. For decades, and well into his 70s, this slightly built man with a thick European accent (not exactly the type you'd expect to hang out with the Southern California youth), would literally walk the streets of Los Angeles on Shabbos and shlep young people in for a Shabbos meal. On Rosh Hashanah evening, he would invite 30 people, and if there were another 15 that didn't have a place, Bart said, "Send them too."
Auschwitz didn't make him bitter. It made him better.
Dr. Rahamim Melamed-Cohen, a pioneer in special education in Israel, was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig’s disease and told he had three to five years left to live. That was 18 years ago. Today he is completely paralyzed; he can only move his eyes. Using a computer that is operated through eye movement, Rahamim has written over 12 books, creates works of art and communicates with people from all over the world. “There really is no place for self-pity,” he says. “Don't despair. Be optimistic and work on joy in your heart. No matter what you're lacking think of what's possible to do in your present situation. These are the most beautiful years of my life.”
On May 8, 2001, Koby Mandell and a friend, Yosef Ishran, took off from school to hike in a canyon close to their home in Tekoa, a settlement in the West Bank. Koby and Yosef were found bludgeoned to death with stones, an act attributed to Palestinian terrorists. “We were determined to create something out of the tragedy of Koby’s death,” Seth Mandell said. He and Sherri, his wife, founded the Koby Mandell Foundation in their son's memory, running healing programs for families and widows that have been directly affected by terror in Israel. The Foundation sponsors Camp Koby, its flagship program, for children that have lost a parent or a sibling in an act of terror.
(Photo Credit: Joe Shalmoni, Standwithus.com)
The Israel Defense Forces takes the Jewish mission to be “a light unto the nations” very seriously, offering humanitarian aid to devastated spots around the world hit with enormous disasters. From the 2010 7.0 earthquake in Haiti to the 2013 typhoon in the Philippines, the IDF is often the first to arrive on the scene, saving lives with a state-of-the-art hospital comprised of hundreds of doctors, nurses and rescue workers.
With thanks to Breindy Lazor