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New Zeidy!

Mar 23, 2012 at 02:22:33 AM

Yesterday, life hit a new high: My daughter gave birth to my first grandchild ― a beautiful, bouncy baby boy.

It is, in my estimation, life's greatest milestone.

When my wife and I got married and started a family of our own, we enjoyed every moment of this new and exciting adventure. Yet as the main characters in this script (and due in no small measure to our youth and inexperience) we did not appreciate it all from a deeper, outside perspective.

Now one generation later, as my daughter and son-in-law repeat the process, we are able to relive our own transition to parenthood, this time with a deeper appreciation. We know the dynamics, the pitfalls, the learning curve ― and the pure joy. We can step back and watch the thrill of this beautiful new family unfold.

Now here's why this strikes me as the peak lifecycle moment: Even more than the joy of having children is the joy of grandchildren.

Most creatures in the world have parent-child relationships ― whether a mother lion protecting her cubs or a mother bird feeding her young. Only the human being has a concept of grandchildren, of perpetuation beyond a single generation.

Our forefather Jacob, on his deathbed, blessed his grandchildren before blessing his children (Genesis ch. 48). It was a recognition that being a grandparent connects us to our future family line, an expression of our uniqueness as human beings.

And the reverse applies as well ― in my grandson's eyes, I am a key link to his past. That's why I've chosen to be called not Grandpa or Saba (Hebrew), or even Abuelo (Spanish), Dedushka (Russian) or Oupa (Afrikaans). I'm going to be called the Yiddish ― "Zeidy." Judaism is so steeped in tradition and this will be a link to our ancestral roots in eastern Europe.

Indeed, my own father would have wanted to be called Zeidy, had he lived long enough. This is my small way of honoring his memory. I only hope that I can be as good a Zeidy as he surely would have been.

My prayer is that our new (as yet unnamed) grandson will bring much nachas to his family and community, fulfilling the will of God with sincerity and joy, and always blessed with health and peace.

March 23, 2012

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Visitor Comments: 8

(8) Abraham Seiman, March 28, 2012 8:37 PM

This is what our hearts tell us.

To you, Rebecca, Josh and Gina (please pass this along to your parents.)

(7) Anonymous, March 28, 2012 3:26 PM

Mazel tov!

Being a grandparent is SO much fun! It is very different than being a parent. It's strange & wonderful. As my rabbi likes to say, "If I knew having grandchildren could be so much fun, I would have had them first!" Enjoy and lots of nachos to the entire family!

(6) Joyce, March 27, 2012 5:47 PM


Mazal Tov Rabbi Simmons!! A big Mazal Tov to the members of your family too. Thanks for your wonderful blog.

(5) Tzporah, March 26, 2012 8:02 AM

Mazel tov! Mazel tov!

Mazel tov! Mazel tov! The first mazel tov in on the current simcha and the second is a bracha for continued simcha!

(4) Cathryn, March 23, 2012 3:51 PM

Mazel tov!

Mazel tov, Rabbi Simmons! It is indeed a very special time for you :) I look forward to hearing the name of your grandson :) May he grow up to Torah, chuppah and good deeds.

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