There is a major distinction between just saying the "right words" versus truly believing in the abilities and potential of the person you wish to encourage.
Saying encouraging words only because you know it's the right thing to do, but not believing in what you are saying, will limit the effectiveness of your words. Your negative feelings will come through in your tone of voice, facial expression, and posture, despite your encouraging words.
When you sincerely and authentically believe in someone's abilities and potential, your inner confidence and certainty will be obvious in your tone of voice, facial expression, and posture.
We're human. We need food. We need meaning and connection. And we most definitely need encouragement.
Now, in this wise and charming new volume, we learn how to effectively use the massive power of encouragement,
to encourage ourselves and others, particularly when we feel overwhelmed or depleted.
In Encouragement, Rabbi Pliskin shares meditations and affirmations, inspirational true stories, and his trademark
wise, practical advice. He shows us how our words can help others - and ourselves -- become more confident,
optimistic, and upbeat people.
Rabbi Zelig Pliskin is the author of 25 books with his specialty in mastering happiness and other positive inner resources.
His last 15 books include such titles as: "Taking Action", "Happiness", "Kindness", "Courage", "Serenity", "Building Your Self-image" "Conversations with
Yourself" and "Marriage." These books are available at: Artscroll.com.
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