A wise man said, "Most people do not feel bad because they lack wisdom; they feel bad because people say they lack wisdom."
The honor-seeker does not study wisdom to become wiser. Rather, his goal is to show off how wise he is. This is an attribute of a fool (Proverbs 18:2). A truly wise person's goal is to gain more wisdom whether or not he gains honor.
(Chayai Hamussar, vol.1, p.72 ; Kol Tzofayich, vol.1, pp.345-6; Rabbi Pliskin's "Gateway to Happiness," p.280)
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