In some areas, competition motivates us to do our best. But at other times, competitiveness can be a negative trait.
Work on transcending your competitiveness. Go out of your way to let another person have the last word in a conversation. This will put you in control of the trait.
(For a series of probing questions on this topic, see Rabbi Pliskin's "Gateway to Self Knowledge," p.163)
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