Anytime you become angry, view that as a lesson to gain more insight into yourself. What pushed your button?
Recall experiences when you didn't become angry, even though others might have. Be aware of what thoughts, attitudes, and beliefs enabled you not to become angry in the first place.
(For a series of probing questions on this topic, see Rabbi Pliskin's "Gateway to Self Knowledge, pp. 111-5; and see Anger: The Inner Teacher)
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