Even if someone has done something wrong to you, before getting into an argument about it, think of the outcome you are striving for. If there will be no practical benefit from your argument, avoid it.
"Outcome thinking" is wisdom. A wise person considers the outcome before speaking.
(see Vilna Gaon - Proverbs 13:30; Rabbi Pliskin - "Consulting the Wise")
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