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Would you notice one of the world's greatest violinists playing in the midst of rush hour?
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Attention, affection and appreciation. It's not rocket science.
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Saturday, June 20, 2009
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It is two Sided!!!
Lori, I agree with you that a man has to do everything to make his wife happy but I believe it works both ways. A wife has a responsibility to make her husband happy too!! Otherwise, the husband will be depleted of his energy for her. He needs to see that his wife appreciated what he does for her. A wife needs to express her gratitude when he does the right thing. It's a two way street.
My husband didn't have to see this to do what you suggested.
My husband goes above and beyond for me. While I was recently ill, my husband didn't care if he had to rummage through the clean laundry to find a pair of socks or undershirt. He did not prepare gourmet meals, but what he managed to get onto the table was just satisfactory with me and our girls. The love and attention he shows me on a daily basis is exemplary. He's not always the romantic nature, but I do know he loves me dearly. I love him for his aidelkeit from the first time we had met. Just keep it up.
If you are appreciative it normally works..
Thanks for this timely reminder Lori! If you are appreciative it normally works. My wife would also say a bit of money spent on new clothes to show your appeciativeness also can't hurt!
Brillant advice
I found this video very informative and helpful. Many thanks.
Lori Palatnik is an author and Jewish educator who has appeared on television and radio and has lectured on five continents, illuminating traditional practices and life-styles for our contemporary world. She and her husband, Rabbi Yaakov Palatnik, live in Washington, DC, where she is Executive Director of the Jewish Women's Renaissance Project. Lori is the author of "Friday Night and Beyond—The Shabbat Experience Step-by-Step"; "Remember My Soul", which explains the Jewish concepts of soul and the afterlife and a guide to anyone who has ever lost a loved one; and "Gossip—Ten Pathways to Eliminate It From Your Life and Transform Your Soul", featured on "Dr. Laura" and FoxNews.com.
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