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(69) karen, August 14, 2013 6:02 PM
Thanks for relaying another significant message in such an inspirational manner. Just wanted to add something in accordance with your message. I read somewhere that the word "fear" in Hebrew- פחד, written backwards makes up the word "push"- דחף, teaching us that our fears aren't obstacles in our way, rather they are the force which drives us to push ourselves forward.
Once again, your videos are motivational and relevant to all of us!

(68) Anonymous, June 25, 2013 2:35 AM
(67) ross, June 11, 2013 4:01 PM
Um, sorry, not convinced
(66) Michal, June 11, 2013 8:34 AM
Amazing!
(65) John, June 10, 2013 12:13 PM
Burn the bridge
(64) Jaya, June 9, 2013 4:45 PM
Burn your bridges ...
(62) Thomas, March 20, 2013 2:42 AM
I have done this once. I was in an impossible situation in life that was holding me back. I read somewhere in Torah where hashem stated "Do this my son and set yourself free"....So.....I actually moved to another city where I knew noone and had no job. The fear forced me to start a new life. I found a job and a nice place to live. Burn YOUR bridges too! Good advice, Charlie!!!!!

(61) Rachel, November 15, 2011 12:54 AM
David Etenburn, June 10, 2013 5:51 AM
Not necesarilly, Rachel
While in many instances, fear will freeze a person dead in their tracks, such "fear that freezes" still allows you to retreat to a previous position, to the point of setteling for much, much less than you are capable of. This is the scenario many of us are facing in the abysmal economy in the US and around the world. We are settling for less, because it is at least paying the bills. I start a new profession in sales next month. I had to quit my job, and literally burn that bridge behind me. I can never go back to not only that job, but that industry again. As a result, my chances of success went up from 10% to 90%! It's just me and God now. Faith is an excellent weapon in war of any kind. The Rabbi gets it! Shalom!

(60) Limor Kopel, October 6, 2011 7:21 AM
Best Advice Ever!
(59) Ephraim, July 13, 2011 6:25 AM
Don't Burn Bridges?
All peoples on this earth today burn bridges. I have burned a few myself--but perhaps I have been burning the wrong bridges. I wish I had this kind of information 40 years ago. Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of my life--I will use this information. May G-d bless and keep us all in peace...Shalom

YehudahLeib Fisher, November 4, 2012 9:43 AM
To Ephraim
(58) Javier Gautier, February 15, 2011 2:35 AM
Fear is my gasoline!
(57) Michal, January 25, 2011 1:14 AM
Burn the bridges behind you.
Maybe, that is one of the reasons, why I am depressed : I always look back at the bridges I had to leave behind me. A very new thought: I should burn them. A frightening thought in the berginning, but maybe it is the only possibility to live now and accept life at it is today... Maybe that's what my Creator asks of me? ?? Thanks for aish.coms eye-opener!

(56) shimon, October 11, 2010 1:40 AM
great insparation!
It is always easier to be proactive about things when you first hear about it. This was a motivating and inspiring speach, however, if we dont act right away, we may loose the mindset that got us started. It is hard to suddenly burn our escape bridge. All that we need is to make the enitial push that will get the marbil rolling to greatness!

(55) John, August 24, 2010 2:22 PM
wow
(54) Benjamin Blakeman, July 29, 2010 7:50 PM
Great video!
(53) moshe, May 26, 2010 6:03 PM
(51) Shlomo, April 27, 2010 10:23 PM
Mega Great !!!
(50) Santy Barrios, April 15, 2010 4:14 AM
in front of reality
Good video! sometimes the people need to face the problems and the situations, it is much better than run away, and escape. Because, when you face your problems, your embarrasing situations, you can find the solution faster than when you go away and escape of your problems. you can find the balance, when you study The Torah and apply It to your life. H' blesses you and gives you Shalom, simchah and wisdom for to understand the misteries of The Torah

(49) Anonymous, April 1, 2010 4:29 AM
(48) Anonymous, March 29, 2010 6:38 PM
(47) Inspired, March 26, 2010 2:00 PM
(45) Donna Perel, March 4, 2010 3:45 AM
Wow!
(42) Anonymous, March 1, 2010 12:45 AM
(41) Chaim, February 26, 2010 4:37 AM
Great message!
(40) yehudith, February 22, 2010 9:19 AM
Burn your Hamets
In this situation, and with no way out, or time to buy, I find myself a couple of days before Peisach, and it doesnt matter how early on I started to clean. I;d better finish or finish before deadline!!! Without realizing I was capable to do it, I stay awake and work as a slave 40 hrs non stop. So true and inspiring what Charlie presents, well done!

(38) Mary, February 21, 2010 9:03 PM
Well..
Well, that's the way the Zealots felt and they were wrong which is what led to the downfall of Israel and the destruction of the second temple and the deaths of Jews and the slavery of Jews brought to Rome. So I guess my advice is to do it for yourself but don't make the decision for others.That is the decision Ahmadinejad is making about Iran and the Palestinians and that is what makes him a Zealot. Europe should watch this film to get an education. As Rabbi Cooper from the Simon Wiesenthal Center said "Ahmadinejad denies the Holocaust and wants to finish the job." Because Ahmadinejad does not think clearly, he does not realize that the Naziis were up against inhabitants of the shtetl. Things have changed. Now Israel is a country and is armed.

(36) , February 20, 2010 10:14 PM
- a thought of this moment ...
(35) Yecheal, February 20, 2010 1:57 AM
Cross Generation Success
(34) Susan, February 20, 2010 12:42 AM
Thanks for the lift.
(33) Anonymous, February 19, 2010 5:45 PM
Awesome
(31) C.Sam, February 18, 2010 9:56 PM
WOW..
(30) Anonymous, February 18, 2010 6:03 PM
The title sticks with you
(29) Anonymous, February 18, 2010 7:15 AM
(28) Rolf-Helge, February 18, 2010 5:15 AM
war analogies
There is powerful philosophies written and spoken about the transitional qualitys of the peaceful beauty and suble mysteries of life. Unfortunately these are not predominant in times of great turmoil and noise on the surface of excistence, like the period we live in now, of course depending on location and culture. And sadly war has been one of the main forces changing societys and destinys throughout known history, rendering all matters of lucid dreaming and slow, thoughtful change absolete and sweeping away both fruitful and harmful confusion to a clear point of do or don´t in everyone that has to face it. We now live in the third world war, that has been going on since the second, and because of developements in media and technology we "all" face it together. The consept of war grows utterly absurd as we mechanise and commercialise the battleground and thereby remove the distinct quality of facing yourself and your enemy in battle, or fighting for a ridgeous cause. Wars are usually started by the few, and fought and suffered by the many. Maybe the perplexing and intriguing perspectives of war will loose its grip on our minds as the masters of war loose their powers of illusion, and they are left naked with their basic motivations of fear and greed. Hopefully some people will keep their believe that faith can move mountains, but my guess is that most modern men will still resolve to the use of dynamite, and will have to be led back to the place were life grows in peaceful abundance, by those humble ones who are disregarded as weak, utopian dreamers in a more violent time and place.

(27) Anonymous, February 17, 2010 10:56 AM
(26) , February 17, 2010 1:00 AM
Unbelievable! what a beautiful idea. And represented in such a clear, powerful way! Watching this, I was reminded of a quote I've seen: "Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore." True, it's a risk, but it's worth it! Even if you don't "discover new oceans" or win the battle so to speak, if you don't take the chance and risk it, you may just spend the rest of your life wondering what would have happened if you had. Thank you Aish.com and Mr. Harari.

(24) Miriam, February 16, 2010 6:46 PM
Unreal.
(23) misterb, February 16, 2010 5:36 PM
War analogies?
(22) Louis, February 16, 2010 4:07 PM
good video
(21) anonymous, February 16, 2010 2:54 PM
(20) Anonymous, February 16, 2010 4:27 AM
SO TRUE!!!
WOW! This is SO TRUE!! As a result of the economic down-turn, my company was reorganized, meaning that my 12-year position with the organization was rewritten to include a significant pay-cut and decrease in responsibilities. When a new position at my company later opened-up at my previous pay-grade, I jumped at the opportunity, eventually starting a completely new job in a completely new field. Although I have spent many days of the last few months "as lost as a ball in weeks," I must admit that I've loved (practically) every minute of it and that the change in my former position was actually a huge blessing. I'm college educated with several advanced degrees, am mentally stable, and have had a steady 24-year work-history that has demonstrated continuous growth. Yet, I must be honest and admit that I have NEVER (technically) been qualified for anything that I have EVER done. You are SO RIGHT, FEAR is a great motivator! Even if we don't really know what we are doing, if we remember that Hashem guides our steps, remain open to the "wisdom" of others, be willing to share the spot-light, and "fake-it" until we do actually know what we are doing, burning our bridges (or ALLOWING them to be burned) can be a GREAT thing!! Thanks for the reminder.

(19) Anonymous, February 15, 2010 7:44 PM
Good
He was well spoken so I got much of what he was saying despite the fact that I 'hear' only with a cochlear implant. I've let fear dominate too much of my life. I've been debating if I should take a trip to some exotic place - my firsvacation in many years. Now, I feel that this was a message to get me moving.

(18) saro campisi pinto, February 15, 2010 2:08 PM
just thanks
(17) Anonymous, February 15, 2010 2:06 PM
Amazing!!
(16) Anonymous, February 15, 2010 9:28 AM
kol ha kavod
(13) Laura T, February 14, 2010 11:07 PM
Old people can learn new tricks
(11) Millertime, February 14, 2010 10:40 PM
Yasher Koach!
(10) Chanan Tzionov, February 14, 2010 9:40 PM
WHOAH
(9) andrew, February 14, 2010 9:09 PM
AMAIZING!!
(8) lisa, February 14, 2010 7:25 PM
Feel the Power
(7) Anonymous, February 14, 2010 4:14 PM
Cortes not a good example
shoshana, June 16, 2013 7:02 AM
cortes
I've searched all the comments for this remark. you are so right. he makes it sound like poor cortes had to face this huge mean army. and he won because of his fire arms. the Torah forbids us to put ourselves in dangerous situations. there are people who say that their cancer has brought out the best in them. tragedies can indeed transform ordinary people to heroes and found great organizations like zichron menachem or dor yesharim. but who goes looking for that?

(6) Anonymous, February 14, 2010 3:11 PM
Thank you
(5) Zvi Friedman, February 14, 2010 3:09 PM
Charles - very impressive - 11598 ROCKS AGAIN!!!
(4) Morah Debbie, February 14, 2010 3:02 PM
You've done it again!
(2) steve, February 14, 2010 12:54 PM
charlie has done it again!
(1) Anonymous, February 14, 2010 10:38 AM
Great message, powerfully delivered
I truly felt compelled to write and to say thank you for such a powerful message. I also liked the way with which you presented it; it was in such a humble, yet convincing way that made me completely focus on your message and take it home with me. May Gd continue to provide you with inspiration so that you will also continue to provide us with such insightful messages.

(74) jay, July 9, 2016 8:30 AM
Great
and inspirational.
(73) Anonymous, May 13, 2015 5:48 AM
That was so powerful! Thanks for the inspirational message!
(72) Anonymous, September 30, 2014 12:05 PM
Those bridges have now been burned
Dear Charlie Hararay--
This video was just what I needed to hear this morning. I owe you a major debt of gratitude. Shana Tova.
(71) Anonymous, September 15, 2014 1:43 AM
BURNING BRIDGES
This is such a great article. I've felt that fear, and now I'm thinking "Just do it".
(70) Boca Mom, October 30, 2013 5:27 PM
great
One of my favorite quotes which I have posted right on my cubicle wall by Max De Pree is "we cannot become what we need to be by remaining what we are" - your video is a great compliment to help get us there. Thanks!