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Possessing Time

Possessing Time

No matter how hard we try to possess it, time possesses us.


 I recently came across a fascinating magazine called “Chronos,” devoted exclusively to luxury timepieces and to the international auctions where they can be purchased.

These are not ordinary watches. They tell time, but they are more than vehicles to keep us from missing appointments. On page 81 of the Fall, 2013 issue, for example, was a watch that sold at a Sotheby’s auction for $461,000. Others went for $150,000, and some for a mere $22,000.

A Patek Philippe watch sold at a Sotheby’s auction for $461,000.

What aroused my curiosity was the unique manner in which they were housed and encased. The $461,000 item was a Patek Philippe with “an exceptional platinum automatic minute-repeating calendar with retrograde date and moon phases.” If that is a bit much for your pocketbook, there is a different one that can be yours for a mere $8,750, made of “white gold with a 15-jewel proprietary curved movement.” If you don’t understand why a platinum minute-repeating calendar watch with moon phases should go for half a million dollars, or don’t appreciate the significance of a proprietary curved movement, you clearly do not belong among the readership of Chronos magazine. (I couldn’t help thinking that all this gives new meaning to the expression “time is money.”)

One might expect that for $461,000, the watch would at least offer more time, a temporal bigger bang for the buck: say, 65 minutes per hour instead of the commonplace 60. For such a bundle of money, one should get a decent return on his investment. Five extra minutes an hour means an extra 120 minutes per day, which would be an extra 14 hours per week, which would translate to an extra 56 hours per month. Not a bad return.

Naturally, the timepiece scoffs at such mad hallucinations. Despite what one paid, it moves inexorably forward, its bejeweled little wheels refusing to slow down for a mini-instant as it tolls the identical seconds and minutes as the $4.95 Mickey Mouse watch one picks up at the corner drugstore. Time will not be bought off.

Man and time have been involved in a complex love/hate relationship ever since Creation. Man is a captive of time, limited and controlled by an unrelenting taskmaster. To be sure, time can also be a beneficent healer, curing old wounds and covering up physical and emotional scars. Without its help, unhappy events would never fade away, grief would be unending. The passage of time regenerates us, pulls us up from the depths of despair and allows us to function again as normal human beings.

But man is all too aware of the dual nature of his master. He knows that in time, the helpless, newborn baby becomes a mighty Olympic athlete; he also knows that in time the Olympic athlete becomes a frail and helpless old man. Time can be a friend, but more often than not it is far from friendly, transforming smooth skin into wrinkles, straight backs into bent ones, vivid memories into fogs of haziness

Unable to arrest its relentless forward march, man confronts it — by squandering time, by killing time. Failing at this, he tries to pacify it by placing it in his pocket, on the walls of his home and his buildings, on his wrists, as a pendant on his clothing. Failing at this as well, he tries to indulge it by housing it in luxurious encasements, transforming it into a thing of aesthetic beauty. In an effort to make it even more attractive, he refers to his timepiece as a chronograph, enhancing it with various colored surfaces, date displays, appointment reminders, perpetual calendars, moon phases and planet tracings.

But beneath all the glitter, no matter how lavishly clothed or luxuriously adorned, it continues to move ever forward. Even were we to pay millions of dollars for a timepiece, we would never be able to possess it. It will always possess us.

Mindful of all this, the thoughtful man begins to suspect that perhaps time gets its eternal power from the fact that it is part of Creation, and that it originates with the Timeless One. As such, it can neither be propitiated nor bargained with. Instead, man wisely chooses to make time meaningful and perhaps even sacred. He learns to achieve this not only on holy days, but even on ordinary days and ordinary hours, which can be made meaningful by deeds of loving-kindness, by attentiveness to the needs of others, by introspection and sensitivity, by considering one’s role and place in the great scheme of the universe. Acts such as these help him transcend time and put him in touch with eternity.

This can be achieved either with a million dollar chronograph or a simple $4.95 wristwatch. Neither of them will budge from the 60-minute hour, but they each offer the same opportunities within those 60 minutes. In fact, don’t tell Chronos magazine, but those 60 minutes can be made meaningful without any timepiece at all.

June 7, 2014

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(13) Yehudith Shraga, June 11, 2014 1:59 AM

The meaning of the Beauty

The article has a good message, but I have a difficultly to follow the article's logic. I am sure, that those of us who can afford $461,000 watch know better than anybody else that there are 60 minutes in an hour and can teach us a lot about 'time" and how to use it for gaining a purpose be it material wealth or spiritual growth, besides there must be always a self-check to be done, when we speak about luxury items as a "useless" spent of money. One may be sure of his/her preference of the 4.95$ watch to the $461,000(or a10 $ cream to 1000$ cream), if he/she can afford both on the daily ground.All the time one can't afford a $461,000 watch, there is no place to know if one's choice of 4.95$ is true or it is just a watch one can afford, but sparing the truth to his/her ego makes lots of "reasons" why he/she has no interest in the expansive item.
There is nothing shameful in being rich and being able to afford luxury items, all the time they are not the purpose of the person's life.

The beautiful things have a certain magic over us, and it is because the Beauty has a very strong Root in the Spiritual Reality of the Creator, Who is endlessly Perfect, and Who bestows us with the endless potential of the ability to bring the beautiful things into the world. The Creator Himself is the Best Master of Art, and He wishes us to be His Co-creators in this field too.
The Sages ordered us to say the blessing "sh'e kacha Lo beUllamo"=this is how His World looks like, when we see a beautiful person. The Prophets say that Jerusalem of the World to Come will be decorated with the precious stones and materials. Rabbi Akiva, bless be his memory, gave his wife as a present "Jerusalem of Gold" tiara, which was so expencive,that the wife of the Nasi, Rabban Shimon ben Gamliel, complained to him that she does not have so expensive an ornament. I strongly believe, that nobody of us may question the meaningfulness of the Life of Rabbi Akiva.

(12) Dave Swartz, June 9, 2014 4:46 PM


(11) chava grossman, June 9, 2014 1:39 PM

Practices what he preaches

Rabbi Feldman has been a central figure in my life for 5 decades, so I can vouch for his ability to use every G-d-given moment productively. Throughout the years, I have watched Rabbi Feldman
maintain and nurture a special friendship with Time - never taking a moment for granted, always accomplishing, producing, and giving of his own precious Time to others - seemlessly. I'm still struggling to keep up with him!
His Daughter

(10) Cindy, June 9, 2014 1:29 PM


Beautiful article, one that I thoroughly enjoyed reading!

(9) Anonymous, June 9, 2014 12:06 PM


This is excellent! Thank you so much for posting this!

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