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Talking Back to God

Talking Back to God

We learn from Abraham that it is possible to have an argument with God and win, and that, indeed, God invites us to dialogue with Him.

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Sometimes, reading the story of humanity's behavior in the Bible feels like sitting on a seesaw. It's good followed by evil, kindness followed by cruelty, love followed by hate. Before long you begin to discern that one balances the other, that the undulating rhythm of human progress through time would be impossible without both, just as the movement of a seesaw would be impossible without two weights.

 

  • So we get the beautiful, idyllic Garden of Eden. But then we get the snake and the expulsion from Paradise.
  • We get Abel. But then we get Cain.
  • We get Noah. But then comes the Tower of Babel.
  • We get Abraham, the most righteous of men. But then come the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah, where sin and perversion abound.

 

These two cities -- and God's plan to destroy them -- provide a supreme challenge to our biblical hero.

Abraham knows that good people do live in Sodom -- among them his nephew Lot and Lot's family -- and he realizes that they, too, will be destroyed. To Abraham, it seems a great injustice that the good should be destroyed along with the evil.

So Abraham questions God. He asks -- and his tone of incredulity is apparent from his very words,

'Will You sweep the innocent along with the guilty? What if there should be fifty innocent within the city; will You then wipe out the place and not forgive it for the sake of the innocent fifty who are in it?' (Genesis 18:23-24)

Thus far, Abraham has been most submissive to the will of God. When God first called him, he said "Yes" without qualification. He left the house of his father, breaking with his family; he made the covenant with God, knowing that this great honor would also bring great suffering to his descendants; he allowed himself (at a time when no anesthesia existed) to be circumcised at the age of 99. (Later, as we all know, he is willing to offer his beloved son, Isaac, as a sacrifice, obeying a command from God.)

Abraham must do what does not come naturally to him -- speak out.

It seems that it was in Abraham's nature to be submissive, that he was an innately gentle, humble man, always welcoming strangers and attracting a considerable following through his kindness and generous heart. But now he is put into a position where he is about to see such a grave injustice done that he must do what does not come naturally to him: speak out against it.

ANGRY WITH GOD

And this gentle man becomes angry with God. He actually accuses God, saying,

'Far be it from You to do such a thing, to bring death upon the innocent as well as the guilty, so that innocent and guilty fare alike. Far be it from You! Shall not the Judge of all the earth deal justly?' (Genesis 18:25)

Thus he calls God to account -- not submitting, not wringing his hands, not dismissing what is about to happen as the "Will of the Almighty" but arguing, questioning God's intentions, demanding justice. And he wins the argument.

God concedes that Abraham is right. The cities will not be destroyed even if there are only ten good inhabitants. Amazing, isn't it? The Bible is actually saying you can argue with God and prevail.

This story teaches us two important lessons:

  1. that our greatest challenges are apt to demand something from us that is not natural, not easy; and
  2. that our relationship with God is one not of silent submission but of dialogue.

 

Abraham teaches us that a meaningful relationship with God is a partnership. We are allowed to question, to speak up, and God pays attention.

It is important to note that Abraham was a person of great faith. You cannot live your life according to your own rules and then, when things go wrong, accuse God of unfairness. But if, like Abraham, you live a life of faith, you are allowed to question. And you are not only allowed to question, you are mandated to question. So go ahead, speak up!

SPEAKING OUT AGAINST EVIL

It is our obligation to speak up in the face of injustice or evil, no matter how mighty the opposition might be, no matter if the opposition is God Himself, because an injustice may take place simply because people stand idly by and do nothing.

Tragedies occur all too frequently because people find it too hard to get involved.

Tragedies occur all too frequently because people find it too hard to get involved. But "I should have" is meaningless after a person dies or is irreparably harmed. It is just this kind of behavior that has led to the vast changes in the laws surrounding child abuse.

In one case I shall never forget, a boy of eight was so brutally and systematically beaten by his mother over a period of years that when he finally died, the coroner was at a loss to find the one injury that had caused his death. He had serious injuries to his kidneys and liver, internal hemorrhaging, broken bones -- old and new -- and skull fractures.

He had been seen by school nurses, teachers, neighbors, and social workers and had been treated in various emergency rooms on several occasions. Yet the soul searching did not begin until after he died.

Another example. Some years ago, I was shocked to read about an incident in Germany where neo-Nazi youths attacked a family of foreign laborers from Turkey. They threw a firebomb into the home where the family was sleeping, and by the time the parents managed to get all the children out, they were badly burned.

The parents were screaming for help in the street, trying to cope with the terrible injuries to their children. No one came to help them. People looked out to see what was going on, but not one soul went over to offer aid or comfort.

Now, I would expect that these lookers-on pay their taxes on time, mow their lawns, put out the garbage, and obey the law. If you asked each one of them about himself or herself, he or she would claim to be a good person. And yet ...

SPEAKING UP IN EVERYDAY LIFE

While we can all cite examples we've read in the newspapers of harm done because people minded their own business, opportunities to speak up arise for us all quite frequently.

The most obvious example of taking responsibility is not allowing a friend -- or even a stranger -- to drive drunk. It can take real strength of character, even courage, to risk a friendship when someone does not want to be persuaded. It is so much easier to mind your own business.

Yet it is out of seemingly simple, everyday acts such as this that the strength to tackle much greater challenges is born. This strength does not spring up overnight; it is nurtured little by little.

And when the time comes, we are ready to battle the worst of evils because we have been getting into shape for it little by little -- by voting, speaking up when need be, minding our community's and our country's business, and, as partners with God, keeping up a dialogue with Him that enables us to face all the challenges we encounter.

Published: June 16, 2001


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Visitor Comments: 2

(2) Joy, June 13, 2008 12:53 PM

I agree, but I am still waiting to win an arguement with God. Glad He's on my side though!!!!!!!

(1) Anonymous, May 12, 2004 12:00 AM

Abraham, a humble man !

Humility gives corrage to do the right thing and to speakout against injustice
as we see Abraham fighting the 4 kings
to save Lot, so i dont understand your initioal question.

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