Heartfelt Prayer Is Never in Vain
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Heartfelt Prayer Is Never in Vain

Heartfelt Prayer Is Never in Vain

Rachel Frankel said, “If tomorrow, God forbid, I’ll hear the worst news, I don’t want my children to feel that where did all my prayers go?”

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I am feeling intense pain. Pain for those beautiful teenage boys whose lives, full of potential, were cut short in a horrific way. Pain for their families. Pain for their friends and communities where they lived. And pain for the entire Jewish nation which unified during this time to do what they could to bring them home.

In addition to the incredible efforts of the IDF to find the boys, people around the world were doing anything they could to try to help the cause.

Sitting in my office that faces the Western Wall, I witnessed thousands of people from all walks of life coming daily to pray for them. There were 24-hour Torah learning programs set up in the boys’ communities to serve as a merit for their well-being. People accepted upon themselves to be more meticulous in their speech and in the way they treat others. Shabbat was accepted early. The nation united; we felt like one family.

Now we are left reeling, devastated by the vicious murders. And many are wondering: what happened to all of our prayers over the last 18 days? Were they for nothing?

The Hebrew world for prayer “tefillah” comes from the root “palel” which means to connect. A successful prayer doesn’t necessarily mean that we get what we ask for. God is not a vending machine and there are times when the answer we receive is “no.” But the prayer may still be deemed “successful” since the primary goal of prayer is to connect with God. That has been accomplished.

Our responsibility to this terrible situation was to do whatever was in our power. We prayed, we performed extra mitzvot, and we united in a unprecedented manner. We gained a greater appreciation of preciousness of life, of the Jewish people, and we genuinely connected with God. All that will go to the merit of Naftali, Gilad and Eyal.

The parents of the three boys displayed enormous strength and faith in God. In an interview with the Times of Israel last week, Rachel Frankel said this: “We repeatedly requested people to pray, and people from different faiths, and people that are secular. They each have their own way of sending positive energy, whatever it takes, and prayer means a lot to me. I just want it clear and I kind of repeated myself a few times: Prayer is very powerful but it’s not a guarantee for anything.

“I didn’t know they were taking pictures then [at the Western Wall] but I think the words they caught me saying were, “God doesn’t work for us.” Just because I’m praying with all my heart. It might help. I believe it could help, especially when thousands and millions are praying. They are. But nobody owes me anything. And if tomorrow, God forbid, I’ll hear the worst news, I don’t want my children to feel that where did all my prayers go? It was a group of children I don’t know and I feel a responsibility. God forbid, it shouldn’t be a crisis for them.”

No prayer goes wasted. Our sages teach us that all prayers, even ones which seem to go unanswered, are stored away by God and come into fruition at a later date. Kind David says to the Almighty, “You have counted my wanderings, place my tears in your flask, are they not in Your record?" (Psalms, 56:9) Rabbi Shimshon Pinkus explains that every tear shed in prayer is saved and kept by God until it is used at its designated time of need. Only God can know when that time is.

The holy Steipler Gaon of Bnei Brak once said, “Do not be dismayed. There is no such thing as a sincere prayer that goes unanswered. Any heartfelt request addressed to God must be answered. It can’t be otherwise. If it is not answered today it will be answered tomorrow. If not tomorrow it will be answered in a week. If not a week, in a month. If not answered in a month it may be answered in a year, or in ten years, or in one hundred years or more. If your prayers are not answered in your lifetime they will be answered for your children or for your children’s children. We cannot say for sure when a prayer will be answered, we can rest assured only that every prayer will be answered somehow, someday.” (A Letter for the Ages, Artscroll)

Our pain is great and we cannot understand how this fits in with God’s greater plan. In just over two weeks these boys were able to create great change within the Jewish People, more than some are able to do in a lifetime.

May we be comforted together with the family and may all our prayers, extra study of Torah, and performance of mitzvot serve as a merit for these holy souls and the Jewish People.

United in Grief: A compendium of articles and reflections

Published: June 30, 2014


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Visitor Comments: 12

(8) Anonymous, July 5, 2014 11:35 PM

God watching us !

Dear family, of Israel .
please I owe a excuse , about my condolences note;
in July 2th , I wrote a note saying; I will never supporting the people of Israel ; pardon me, is not what i mean to said ; here a missing a word what a try to said is , I will never Stop supporting the people of Israel, my son call me from Mexico, just when a was writing the condolences note,the little distraction, the next day cost me tears,my note was not intended to hurt any body. GOD Bless The Great Nation of Israel !

(7) Rafael, July 4, 2014 4:47 AM

Putting all faith aside. I feel terrible

As a human being, this is sickening. The life we live on earth is not dependent on faith and this family unit has been destroyed . It is this life that everyone can agree on that is a guarantee . Those sick murderers think they are guaranteed and after life and have little regard for this one. What sort of religious psychosis would inspire these killers to think this could further any agenda?
I hope faith kicks in big time for the parents. Please Lord brake your silence and say something to them. I so. so sorry

(6) Anonymous, July 2, 2014 10:20 PM

God Watching us !

I want to express my most sincere and deepest condolences from the bottom of my heart,please know that I am already united with you in prayers to the almighty GOD. I will continue to pray for their families and for the people of Israel in general so that they can find peace and grace in their hearts in this difficult journey ,as well as justice.please receive our unconditional support. I will never supporting the people of Israel , GOD Bless the Holy land of Israel Amen.

(5) zippi, July 2, 2014 4:41 AM

The only thing we can do is, be better, be more loving and make the world a better place, and fight the evil! HASHEM loves you! And he wants us to come close to him!

Barb, July 3, 2014 6:48 PM

Adopted, lost found my Jewish ancesters

Hashem is the way, the light, the deciding factor in my life. Being adopted is difficult, shuffled thru the catholic system. Alone, stretching my branches, yearning and loving. I can only reach and HOPE that my lowly leaves hit a branch or at least dance with the leaves in the wind. Meanwhile I'm alone and just trying to stretch to my people. :(

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