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Published: Sunday, February 24, 2008
 
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tamar
7/4/2008 7:22:00 PM
Do it! Mrs. Palatnik, i think its very important to become an american because then you have the right to vote- and the vote of even one person can have an effect. become an american so you can vote for people who show more favor to Israel! vote for a politician that you know will take actions to protect israel and fight the arab threat! if you have the power to influence who will become president, you should use it because there's no such thing as being nuetral- if you dont vote for one candidate, its as if you're validating another (2) Charles B. 4/16/2008 10:41:00 PM Be a role model to your children. Being an American citizen would ensure you a right that many people around the world do not have. That is the right to vote. Help make sure that America stays pro Israel by voting for politicians that support pro-Israel policies. You can't do that if you are not a citizen. (3) Esteban Alvarez 4/9/2008 12:43:00 AM no! I think you should not be an american. Why? Canada is considered one of the most educated countries in the world. They have an excelent relationship with Israel, and, if you keep your citizenship, people from other parts of the world will not associate you with the stereotype of "arrogance" and "ignorance" that shadows the USA today.
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Anonymous
4/6/2008 5:10:00 PM Be private about it Thank you for your weekly divrey Torah. I love your videos. If you want to become American, do it and don't worry about the rest of the world. Just don't tell anyone what you are or who you want to vote for. People don't have to know everything about you. Keep it to yourself. Thank you for spreading Torah to all of us. (5) Melissa (from Texas) 3/18/2008 8:05:00 PM America needs more citizens like you! America would be honored to have you as a citizen. And maybe you could do as one of my best friends does when it comes to politics. When my friend is asked which party she belongs to, she answers that she is an Independent and that she votes for issues not parties. (6) Erica 3/15/2008 8:03:00 PM Become an American citizen? Laurie, I think that you should really think about the pros and cons. Ask your self why? Why do you want to be am american citizen, and what are you gain? What door can open for you? Like you said you don't have to give up your canadian citizenship. I personally dont think you own it to anyone to become an american citizen. But if you are in to politics, way the matter carefully. Your voice will still be herd for the Jewish people american citizen or not. When I am going to do something big, first I ask G-d , and when I wait and when it's been a few months and my mind had not changed than I do it. I love being an american, and I love politics. What is G-d telling you? Erica (7) Sarah 3/9/2008 10:58:00 AM Yeah! Dear Lori, First of all I love all your movies and second of all come on be a citizen and vote Because"Every vote counts!" (8) Michelle 3/6/2008 6:54:00 PM Go for it! It would be a great honor to have you as an official US Citizen. (9) mike 3/4/2008 7:42:00 PM American citizen dispute Dear Laurie, This is one time where you are really wrong! If you live and enjoy being in America, you have a responsibility to become a citizen. You cannot sit back and not have political opinions. You can, of course, keep them to yourself if you want, but you are a doer, not a sit-back-and-watch-it-happen person. You owe it to the rest of the American citizens to be part of what makes this country one that you enjoy and like living in. You make a difference and your views count. So does your vote! You absolutely must become a citizen for your family's sake if nothing else. You stand up for Jewish rights. Now stand up for American rights. Mike (10) Marvin Rosner 3/4/2008 3:09:00 PM Yes become a proud USA citizen. You are already an American. If you choose to live in the USA and receive all the benefits of bing a citizen, I think you are obliged to become a proud citizen of the USA. (11) Elonna 3/3/2008 2:24:00 PM Go American! Isn't the saying, "Don't talk to STRANGERS about politics or religion" (especially at the dinner table)?! You should be able to talk to your FRIENDS about those things! If people can't handle your politics, too bad for them. What kind of friend is that? I have friends from different religions and political parties! It doesn't kill us! (12) Anonymous 3/3/2008 9:59:00 AM I am a Canadian now with dual citizenship living in Florida. I used to think living in the US would be great. Now that I see it from the inside out I think the nicenst thing about living in the US is the weather. (13) Ray 3/3/2008 6:03:00 AM Third Option Since I have 77 years, I feel eminently qualified to suggest a third option. Marry me and become a Jamaican. P.S. I would not ask you to convert. (14) Richard Busch 3/2/2008 10:49:00 PM Brief answer Lori, get your USA citizenship with great pride and register as an independent. You are a Jew of this world and the world to come. The rest is commentary. Richard Busch, Pittsburgh (15) aliza 3/2/2008 7:22:00 PM went the opposite direction I'm an American who married a Canadian and am now living in Canada, contemplating Canadian citizenship ;) Here's my take: if you want to have a "say" in your community by voting, get citizenship. If you want to have a "say" in how your taxes are spent, get citizenship. If you are afraid of losing your perceived neutrality in front of your students or guests, just use a variation of the Canadian excuse: because you're Canadian and didn't grow up with American politics, you are taking your time deciding where you stand and aren't joining any party until - if ever - you've completed your research. Whatever you decide, good luck! (16) Tim 3/2/2008 4:09:00 PM America's best friend I believe we all need to be equally yoked, and so our party affiliation then becomes as important as religion. I agree with your husband and children (17) Natanya 3/2/2008 3:26:00 PM If you have to ask, you should not become a citizen. I am really suprised and disappointed that you would initiate a discussion about this topic. It is really of no concern to anyone whether you want or don't want to become an American citizen. There are so many people who would be proud to call America their home,just as my parents and grandparents did so long ago. It would be a shame if you took a slot away from someone who really wants to be here or needs to be here to make a better life for themselves and for their family.Don't do us any favors by becoming a citizen. We should focus more on what unites us as Jews, than on your citizenship issues. (18) Ellen 3/2/2008 12:44:00 PM Yes you should I feel if you live here & enjoy the benefits of our country, your children are American - YEs, Yes, Yes. My son (the american) is married to a Canadian (Toronto) and though she has a green card & works here, I feel she should be a dual citizen also. PS I just love to listen to you . . . (19) Anonymous 3/2/2008 10:06:00 AM response to politics, shmolitics Hi Lori, Last Pesach we were at the Ritz in Puerto Rico, and I had the pleasure of hearing you speak. I wanted to get a chance to speak with you, but it was crowded and the opportunity never arose. But, after we got home I discovered your weekly Live with Lori segments and they have been a wonderful contribution to my search to regain a spiritual or religious footing in my life. Today, I was surprised by your solicitation of people's opinions about your becoming a U.S. citizen. Somehow, I think the answer will come to you. Yes, maybe something someone will say will sway you in one direction or another, but answers seem to come to you in much more interesting ways. The recent segment of the "Burning Bush" comes to mind! Good luck, I will look forward to hearing about how you make your decision. Be well. (20) Sandra 3/2/2008 6:39:00 AM I have a different suggestion for you, Lori. I am both an American and an Israeli. I have family who live in Canada and I have visited with them many tmes. I understand your dilemma. My suggestion to you is to plan Aliyah and then, become an Israeli citizen. I see no advantage to you as an American citizen, except the privilege to vote in the forthcoming Presidential Elections. Whatever you do, you know that it is all in Hashem's hands. His will, not ours be done. All the best to you! (21) Karen 3/1/2008 9:26:00 PM ...and when they came for me... Not becoming an American because you don't want to have to proclaim your political party affiliation? First, you can register as unaffiliated (as I and many, many Americans do). Second, just because you are not a citizen doesn't mean you do not have an opinion, and just because I am an American citizen doesn't mean I'm required to share mine. Finally, and most importantly to me personally, is that you are the mother of American children. Don't you want a say in what happens to your children's country? You don't even have to give up the citizenship of your own country. Everything I feel about my country, I feel four times stronger (one time for each child) than I did before I had children. My children's future depends upon what happens here. Not to vote in every election is tantamount to me to not feeding my children. I consider it my duty as a mother. Just my opinion. (22) David Tzvi Hersh 3/1/2008 9:02:00 PM Cop out Since when does being a Canadian mean you can have no opinion about American politics? Since when does being an American require you to participate in political discussion? I believe that you are using this tiny conflict as an excuse and you really have a much deeper issue about becoming an American Citizen. Look at it this way, what would you say to me if I was reluctant to become an Israeli citizen, just because I was afraid of getting involved in a discussion about Israeli politics, after living in Israel for many years? You would probably give me a long list of advantages of being a full participant in Israeli society, along with all the atributes and benefits of being a voting citizen. None of which include being required to discuss Israeli politics at Shabbat dinner. Better examine your real issues and motives. For now, you should not be a citizen. Not until you really know what's inside your head. Good Luck Lori, David (23) Anonymous 3/1/2008 9:00:00 PM stay a mystery! hi lori- been a long time since the karans have been in touch! my wife sara also refuses to take on american citizenship- and i would stay neutral on politics and leave them guessing. i have strong feelings as you know on just about everything but in kiruv- generally, it is wise to keep it close to the chest, especially re: party affiliation, there are enough challenges in our generation breaking through all the klipot of materialism, ignorance, misconceptions and resistance to the discipline of learning and the performance of mitzvoth.- all the best to you and your great family! (24) C.Sam 3/1/2008 8:15:00 PM Me too I too felt the same way, born in Jamaica, live in America for 21 years before becoming. so goahead Become an American. (25) Yecheskel 3/1/2008 7:50:00 PM Lori - Become an american Dear Rebbitzen, You have done a gret service to the Jewish people over the years. We want you as an American as weel. America has done much for the Jews, join us. You don't have to be overly political. All the Best, YM (26) Judah Rosen 3/1/2008 7:20:00 PM What a typical Canadian dilemna that's all I have to say (27) moshe palatnik 3/1/2008 6:23:00 PM Dear Ima, I have told you for years and years that who cares about becoming an american. whats the benefit??? YOU GET TO VOTE!!!!! WOOPDIDOO!!! WHO CARES, it doesnt make you a better person. and you dont have to get involved in politics talk. if someone says "who are you voting for" you can say I am Canadian!!!! GO CANADA!!!! (28) al resnick 3/1/2008 2:26:00 PM If you moved out of Washington, politics is not usually a topic for discussion, nor important for a relationship. Become a citizen and keep your political views private. NY Mayor Blumberg of NYC has officially left both parties and has become neutral. (29) DAVID FRANKEL 3/1/2008 10:44:00 AM NO STAY AS YOU ARE BEING A CETEZEN ITS ONLY A PIECE APAPER THERE IS MILLIONS OF USA CITIZENS WHO HATE USA ITS NOT WHAT YOU PROCLAIM ITS WHATE YOU DO (30) Alex 3/1/2008 9:35:00 AM Shalom Lorry, I understand your dilemma. Many people in you situation will feel the same, Included myself. I had problems of identity as I was born in DR Congo, not from a Jewish family and now I'm livivng in the UK. The person I thought was my father was not, and I realised that only 16 years ago when I was 16 years old. All these mix-up confused me and my identity. I started to feel ok only when I started to learn the Torah on the net. I don't know what attracted me in Judaism, I can not explain it. But I'm going to tell you what I learnt form you personally,with G-O and Torah messages that you send. I would like you not only to think about the answer but feel it too. Feel why you have been passing to people the message of G-D and Torah. Feel why you should share the same identity with your love one's, then you will have the right answer for the dilemma. You will became American citizen as you and your love one's want it,or you will be " politically correct" by avoiding to become American citizen and be neuter to prevent any political polarisation, that will protect your message of G-D and Torah. I learnt from you that I should have G-O in all my decisions, that helped me to resolve my problems of identity. The right answer is the one that has a place for G-D. Bless be His Name. (31) Anonymous 2/29/2008 9:34:00 PM Become an American Those are the three words I have for you, nothing else. (32) Paul Elder 2/29/2008 4:56:00 PM Up to you. Shalom! Lori, The decision to become an American seemed to lack any Canadian input. Do you feel patriotism for Canucks? Go with that. If not, I disagree with X who said it is coming between you & your family. I feel love when I watch your wisdom videos from Aish. You seem to be close to Hashem. Bless you, Lori. (33) theo koopmanschap 2/29/2008 3:23:00 PM be yourself yust be an american, you strong enough to still be yourself (34) gwendoline lamb 2/29/2008 1:19:00 PM What I think! Lori....Yes, become n American to regularise the whole mishpochoh! If you are grateful for Anerica`s support of Israel, then become an American and have dual nationality! Why Not! Shabbat Shalom gwendoline (35) Dr Jack Shiffman 2/29/2008 12:21:00 PM Canadian is not a dirty word. I am a Canadian snow bird and have been for the last twelve years. US politics is certainly much more complicated than ours at home and is taken much more seriously. In a way that is good thing but taken to the extreme it can be dangerous. The Canadian sytstem is definitely simpler but also in certain cases leaves a lot to be desired. With regards to American Jews my observations lead me to think that Jews here want to be accepted as Americans only and hide their Jewishness, even to the extent of taking the side of the antizionizts. Keep your Canadian citizenship your Jewishness and be proud of it. (36) Ilene Benzman 2/29/2008 10:51:00 AM American Citizenship Go for it! As long as you have your dual citizenship, what's the problem? You can be a PROUD American and a PROUD Canadian. There is no law that says you must reveal to others which party you feel represents your viewpoints, nor do you have to share the "why" of your selection in the voting booth. It is no one's business. Nothing has to change except your response. Instead of saying, "I am Canadian and can't vote," all you have to say is "I wish to keep this part of my life private." It seems simple to me! Shame on people, anyway, for asking such a private question. Good luck with your decision. I know you will make the right choice . . . for you! (37) Rheachel Smith 2/29/2008 10:24:00 AM Be an American! Dear Lori, My family contains some hardline conservatives,liberal Democrats even Independants. I am an Independant conservative with a bit of a bleeding heart. I drive my husband nuts but he keeps on loving me. As an American I have always respected everyones right to thier own opinion.Washinton DC is a different animal. Be an American I would be honored. Rheachel Smith (38) Matityahu 2/29/2008 10:22:00 AM Do what your heart calls Not everyone who is American takes on that politics are of most greatly important. I couldn't care less what party I am in (and I have none) nor do I care what party someone else is. Yet I was born American. I think that if it a big deal to your family, you should become American and keep your politics personal and to yourself and know in your heart what is you. It's all legality anyway and serves only Man in this world. If it truely makes no difference to your family (and you can ask them with all seriousness) then perhaps you shouldn't unless it makes it easier for you living here. Ask yourself what the benefits are for becoming an American vs. what they are for not. Ask yourself what the benefits are about being dual and what they are for not. (39) Annette 2/29/2008 9:57:00 AM Is the Lord Your Shepperd? Talk to G-d! what would Rabbi Weinberg tell you? will you be making aliyah or will you remain in North America the rest of your life? if you'll make aliyah... why would you care about US citizenship?? especially since you don't have to give up your Canadian citizenship! Being Canadian is Great and nothing to snub, however being a Jew First and Foremost is THE best We have both Canadians and Americans in our family, it does not pose any barriers; we have both Jews and non Jews in our family: THAT poses barriers! Talk to HaShem, talk to your Rabbi, listen to those who are wiser than us. I can't imangine taking on 'this one' or that one's' citizenship should be an issue. (40) Yisraela "Izzy" 2/29/2008 8:55:00 AM Trust G-d is leading you I trust so much that G-d is leading you with this...it reminds me of Elijah and some of the strange things G-d asked him to do in order to be a symbol. Being different causes people to stop and think. Sometimes the Spirit of G-d leads a person to step out of the boxes that humans have designed and say, "Hey, there is a higher way of doing things...we don't have to be so caught up in all these worldly things that we forget about the higher things of G-d." I appreciate you so much, Lori. I didn't have the gift of being raised Jewish and your teachings are a real comfort to me and take some of the pain away. (41) Bonnie 2/29/2008 8:32:00 AM Strong discussions are a sign of THINKING about issues but nevertheless do not necessitate your participation. Dear Lori, I "discovered" you two years ago, and ever since, your thoughts and commentary have been a true inspiration to me in my daily life. Thank you! I cannot advise you on becoming or not becoming a US citizen. That is something only you can decide after thinking and praying about it and perhaps, reading others' thoughts. However, it is difficult for me to realize that you, as such a thoughtful person, nevertheless, is so concerned and maybe somewhat fearful at the prospect of dealing with strong conversations on politics. As others have well said before me, that is not necessary if you don't want to participate. But you should realize also, that these strong discussions are evidence that individuals are THINKING about issues. I would much rather that they think about and discuss these important issues that have such great affect on their daily lives than not. My own family is quite ecumenical, both in the religious and political sense, and it does make for lively discssions around our table! More often than not, some of us have to just "agree to disagree" on some issues. Once again, nothing says that you, as a citizen or as a non-citizen, must participate in such discussions. And, by the way, becoming a citizen does not in itself necessitate such discussions. Lori, I wish you the best in making this personal decision! (42) Anonymous 2/29/2008 7:14:00 AM Yes, definitely become a citizen Because you are living here, you have a responsibility to become a citizen and vote in elections. As an American you can express your feelings to our government about all aspects of our lives , including Israel and other Jewish topics. As far as your Shabbos table, you can tell others that you keep your politics private and you are open to all ideas no matter what party. I personally am an independent. I love your blog. Thank you and have a great Shabbos. (43) jeff roden 2/29/2008 4:32:00 AM neither counry is a place for Jews I think it is time to consider coming home to a Jews only real country. If a Jew does not vacate voluntarily the diaspora eventually the diaspora will vacate the Jew only it might not be pretty! So perform the most important mitzvah. Rejection of this mitzva as the sages said are equal to rejecting the whole Torah and is akin to idol worship!! Rambam, Rmban and even Rashi. (44) Batya 2/29/2008 1:04:00 AM I understand Hello Lori, Although I am an American citizen (by birth), I think I have a pretty good understanding of your Washington, DC dilemna. When I was in DC, politics was very much in the forefront of everyone's thinking and speaking. Being from the midwest, I was not used to the rabid stance that people take on such matters in common, casual situations. So while there, I simply responded that "I prefer to keep my political views to myself". Your calling is obviously to bring Torah to all Jews. That is something which you are not leary about speaking, and I love that about you. This topic reminds me of something you once "almost live'd" about. Some things are nobody's business but your own. It is at a time like that in which you indicated that it was ok to "lie". In this case you wouldn't be lying. Just conveying that you are not comfortable voicing your political affiliation. There is nothing wrong with that. It seems to me that in Colorado you were excited about taking dual citizenship. The only thing that has changed is the city in which you live. I have to admit if I lived in DC I would most likely not favor discussing politics 24/7. As for Shabbos, there is nothing wrong with saying "check your politics at the door" because this is the time in which we speak of G-d and Torah and families and love. Ultimately you will decide what is right for you. But please don't let the political atmosphere in DC be the deciding factor. Aferall, you may not live there forever. Back in the "real world" people may have friends for years and never know their political affiliation. And we can all still be good friends. =) (45) paula wagner 2/29/2008 12:24:00 AM citizenship Dear Lori, Hashem understands you much better than anyone of us who could comment or advise. He knows the secrets of your heart and what disturbs you and what your greatest need is. If I were you, I think I would take a long walk in the sunshine and have a heart to heart with your "dad." Ask for help. Ask for guidence then "wait on the Lord." Your answer will come...you can trust that. I think our King David said it best..."the Lord is my shepherd..." not the government, not opinions, not politics, or even family as much as we love them and want to make them happy. Hashem made you the way you are and brings you to many places for many reasons that only he can understand. Relax about this Lori, and remember...God is in charge...Pray about it. (46) Anonymous 2/28/2008 10:35:00 PM Yes become a citizen Become a citizen for your sake as well as your family. Not being a citizen puts a barrier between you and your family. Nothing says you must be drawn into political discussions... (47) Hinda 2/28/2008 9:47:00 PM Become an American There is a definite chisaron in showing your children that you are not willing to take a stand on matters that concern this country. The very gift that America offered to the Jews was freedom of religion and freedom of expression. What better way of acknowledging the advantages that this country has given to you and your family then by becoming an American Citizen. But remember we are Jews first and Americans second. As far as your political affiliation is concerned, you don't have to belong to either party, and you could judge each election on its own merit. In our family we are both republicans and democrats, and it makes for a very lively Shabbos discussion indeed. Having an input into who will lead this country should concern every single Jew. Meet you at the voting booth. (48) Rey 2/28/2008 9:04:00 PM AmeriMexci Dear Lori I love your on-line comment, I wonder when you are coming to Radio, So that I can hear the New American Citizen on the waves of America. Yes you should hold the dual Citizenship if you become an American, I did! Your Jewish Heritage is in your Heart, your body comes from Canada, but your life will continue in America. Baby with all do respect, arrived already. Just do it the Lori way, Join us in upgrading American way of life. Your comments have already changed life's. Love you Lori keep up the good work, Shalom. Rey. (49) Paul Leddy 2/28/2008 8:28:00 PM You have to want to become a citizen in order to become a citizen Dear Lori, G_d bless you for you. Since you asked: as in my summary above, you have to want to be an American to be an American. If it isn't your heart's desire, then why become a citizen? America is home for me. When you ask what you should do, to me it means, you're asking: "where do I call home?" Is this question one of convenience or principal, or of emotion. And, what's the deal with dual citizenship? Are you hedging your bets? Do you weigh your options when things don't go well in the States? or in Canada? It may feel safe, dual citizenship; but if (G_d forbid) you have to make a choice, do you base it on convenience or principal? If you decide to make America your home, perhaps then, there's no doubt of what your answer will be, it will always be America. peace -Paul Washington, DC (50) Anonymous 2/28/2008 6:34:00 PM benefits outweigh risks This is a wonderful country that needs wonderful, intelligent citizens voting. Please become a citizen and place your votes. You can still avoid talking politics. Plenty of people do! I think it would be a nice message to send to your family, that you are "officially" joining the community to which they belong. "Do not separate yourself from the community." You can do it, Lori! (51) Deborah 2/28/2008 6:15:00 PM Yes, become American Lori - I love listening to your videos and hearing you in person. You are a marvelous and inspirational speaker. I hope I can articulate my feelings half as well. I think you should become American. Follow your heart with this decision. Remember to differentiate between feeling nervous and listening to the quite voice of intuition. America is a wonderful country, why? We are founded on the right to pursue. All those political discussions, as uncomfortable as they may be, are possible in America, without threat to your life and family! Also, in America we are afforded the opportunity to make more of ourselves and our lives. I am proud to be American, I am proud of the foresight our forefathers had in drawing up the Constitution. I feel blessed to live in this country. You have the right to decline to speak about politics; you do not have to share. I live in the DC metro area and it does get very heated around here at election time! However, government is the business in DC and that's how it is. One last note . . . my family is very colorful politically. We have Republicans, Democrats, Independents, Marines, police officers, Peace Activists and Switzerland (me):). We get along! (52) Herb Friedberg 2/28/2008 5:41:00 PM If u can become tri-citizens, Canada, Israel, Usa yes if not, become Can-Israeli. Thats what a Jew should do. (53) sol margoli 2/28/2008 4:21:00 PM Become an American citizen Lori - Strictly to facilitate your coming and going. Will be much happier when you join us and become an Israeli citizen. Rita & Sol (54) Barry E Lerner 2/28/2008 4:09:00 PM citizenship We Americans deal with the politics question all the time. C'mon, join the fun; with your people skills you'll have no problem. (55) Anonymous 2/28/2008 1:17:00 PM Get your United States citizenship, without fail. I love listening to you and have heard most if not all of your tapes. I was particularly impressed by your description of what happens to a Jewish person after they die. Since you can keep dual citizenship with Canads, there should be no hesitation on your part to get a U S citizenship. (56) Martin 2/28/2008 12:51:00 PM Go for it why not? Im not an American & I dont even live in America but if I was in your shoes I think that an American citizenship would definitelly be a worthwile endeavour..I say go for it. Why not? If you just want a yes or no adice then mine is a yes..anything more and..well Im confused already! Good luck! (57) BEV. 2/28/2008 12:46:00 PM Become an American!! your family is american, you live in america then i feel you should become an american. by not making a choice ,you have made a choice!! not to be a part of this GREAT country,shame on you. BR (58) Lea 2/28/2008 12:04:00 PM Passports are not our identities Dear Lori,with pleasur I alloud myself to give you an (hopefully good)advice. I am European, and European Jews don't identify themselves with the citizeship from where they live, like the American Jews. We have passports because it helps us to vote, to fight against antisemits, to have certain rights. But we all know that we are strangers in strager lands, and our final destination is Israel. I honestly don't understand your big question. You will not become different than what you are with a canadian passport, you will be always you, Lori. Concerning other people asking what you vote, well, remember you spoke about privacy once? Use it! In Europe is very private to ask for whom you vote.And I think you have the right to keep it for yourself. Kol Tuv, Lea. (59) Anonymous 2/28/2008 11:56:00 AM Leaving your power behind shouldn't be an option Just as you speak about the U.S. as a friend to Israel, remember that part of that reason stems from the strength we have as Jews in America. Politicians do care what we think and consider us when taking a stand. Sometimes WE need to take a stand as well. By remaining neutral, you lose your ability to vote and make a difference in the political landscape of our country which ultimately does impact Israel. I don't think you're really someone who is afraid to take a stand. So, get past it and do what you must - if for nothing else - than for Israel. (60) Aviva 2/28/2008 11:54:00 AM Become an American Hi, Lori, I watch your video each week. I say go ahead and become an American. Otherwise, over time, you will be frustrated by the American political process and it will be too time-consuming later on to become a citizen in time to use your voice to do something about it. Spend the time now and become a citizen. Then you can choose whether or not to have an opinion and support a candidate. I am an American, born and bred, and I still prefer to avoid politics with people even though I have opinions and choose to vote. It's too fiery a topic to share with others outside your family anyway. Be well, Aviva (61) Nancy 2/28/2008 11:34:00 AM You Already Know! Lori, no one can tell you what to do. The answer is within you. Listen to your heart. Becoming a citizen is a huge thing. If it is not right for you, you already know. You may feel differently at another time in your life, but if you need to ask others what to do, the time is not now. (62) Melissa C 2/28/2008 11:30:00 AM Yes, definitely become an American! (63) Felice Caliestro 2/28/2008 11:14:00 AM Do What I do! Dear Lori, Your books and Internet videos ( and your in- person speech in Jacksonville Florida) have impacted my life greatly; thank you! I am in the public eye a lot, so this is what I do: I make my own decisions, and keep these out of my conversations. I think that you have a right to do the same! And, by all means, Yes! Please Do become an 'American! Sincerely, Felice (64) Jill 2/28/2008 11:02:00 AM solution: don't live in dc. move to brooklyn. please don't confuse the issues. washington dc is not a real city. move to brooklyn. become american - don't become a citizen of dc. (65) Vadim 2/28/2008 10:59:00 AM The number of responses that this topic has received is quite surprising. The fact that Lori lived in the US so long without the US citizenship shows how insiginificant the issue is. It is Green Card that is important, not the citizenship (66) Philip 2/28/2008 10:27:00 AM LORI, DONT DO IT!!!!!! Dear Lori, My wife is Canadian and she is here with a green card. We love Canada so much!. We are actually moving to Canada because it's definitely a better place to live than AMERICA. Remember, free healthcare plan, as soon as enter to Canada, people are friendlier than here, they never argue political view as much as Americans do, you can actually breath clean air in Canada. We love you so much. remember where you came from. Regards Philip (67) Ann 2/28/2008 7:03:00 AM Citizen or not If let me tell you that I look forward to your articles and I intend on purchasing your tapes. s far as citizenship, does it mattter. If its a concern, do it..Why should it even be a qustion of to be or not to be. If you intend to continue living here, you should be a citizen.As your family is. (68) Linda Kopans 2/28/2008 6:10:00 AM What a world! Be a tri-citizen! Do you agree with all Canadians on all subjects? Do you agree with all Israelis on all subjects? Don't Canadians and Israelis get hot under the collar about issues? This country is founded (partly) on each person's right to have and express any opinion. So the real issue is people's difficulty with disagreement. That is not something to base a citizenship decision on. Become a citizen if it means something to you. Otherwise, what does it matter? We are all citizens of G-d. Meditate on it. Pray on it. Then follow your neshamah. (69) David Turner 2/28/2008 5:28:00 AM dont become american Your delemma is not wether you should have dual American Canadian citizenship it should be dual Canadian Israeli citizenship. If you love Israel as you say you do then the natural place for you to be is here in Israel.If you cannot for reasons of parnassa then wait....and when the time is right make the move...taking the identity of another country is another barrier to you and the promised land. An expat Canadian living in Isral (70) Scott 2/28/2008 1:44:00 AM Follow your gut! I'm a flag waving Viet Nam Veteran, and even though I know about America's foibles I still an "America Love it Or Leave It" kind'a guy, if provoked, because I'm also from Brooklyn. Canada? personally I think Jackson should've kicked the French and English out after he was done with the Spaniards, but what the hell. As far as you dual citizen issue, the only two you should hold is Israel and America. Why? Their might be a lot of anti semites in America, but when that day, and you know what day I'm talking about, comes along, there is no place on gods earth that will be safe for Jews except where Jews have the money and power and it will be a hell of a lot easier to round up the Jews in Canada then in the land of the 2nd amendment. Nachas baby ;-) (71) Dale Dunn 2/27/2008 11:11:00 PM Becoming an American Dear Lori: Yes, you should absolutely become a citizen, but only if you keep dual citizenship. First, do it for your family just because they want you to. You're giving them a gift & you're giving yourself a gift and you're not losing anything at all...which you will come to realize with time. While you are living here & enjoying all that this country has to give, why not have the privilege of voting? Knowing that your vote counts & is just as important as everyone's will give you such a sense of pride that you will be amazed. Also, it is another bond with your husband. Toronto will always be your heart is but after becoming a citizen & while you are living here, this will truly feel like home. Then, home will really be wherever you are with your family. Remember, you have nothing to lose and will be gaining so much! You'll see! Take my advice; I always take yours! Your friend, Dale (72) Anonymous 2/27/2008 11:05:00 PM Not Very Becoming Regardless of what you decide, remember what, I believe Rav Yaakov Kaminetsky (once a Rav in Canada), said referring to Jewish immigrants from Russia. He said they are NOT Russian Jews, bur rather Jews from Russia. The point being we do not -- or hopefully do not -- become Americans, or for that matter Canadians, Italian, German, or any other nationality. We are Jews who live in these countries. In the case of the USA we are very happy to live in this country. Perhaps gratitude suggests we become a citizen. But to become an American is not very becoming. Their cuture, musoc, mode of dress, use of language, etc. are all not very Jewish to say the least. (73) Robert 2/27/2008 9:20:00 PM Yes You're welcome, Lori. (74) Phil 2/27/2008 9:06:00 PM Become one of the few truly North Americans - become a dual citizen Don't let politics get in the way of becoming one of the few truly North Americans. Be proud of both your Canadian and US lives and share in the privileges of both. Become a citizen and vote however your thoughts move you. You can always register as an independent and keep out of some of the debates. (75) ron 2/27/2008 7:45:00 PM Becoming an American Lori- What a choice, become an American so you can vote and have a say in the politics and governing of your adopted country or choose to live in America but not vote! It points out to me that Americans and Canadians are so close , so similar, (especially in my part of the country, western NY where we travel back and forth with ease)that it is almost arbitrary where we were born. It won't change who you are as you will still be Lori and I assume that your strongeest identification is as a Jew. Some 34 years ago as my wife and I contiplated marraige and we wondered how it would change us, and it didn't change us in reality, but when I speak to young people who ask why get married we are committed to each other without the formality and the document> I respond that there is some special undescribable magic in the marriage, its a deeper promise to each other. So American citizanship, will it change anything other than voting? I believe so , I believe tyhat there is a special magic aspecial thank you to the country that has been the best friend to us Jews ever in the history of this planet and a great friend to Israel. By the way, if I had taken a job in Canada to live in Toronto, I would have taken joint Canadian citizenship. i welcome you to America. You can still keep your politics private. We need more Jewish voters. Let me know what you decide. I very musch enjoy your videos. Shalom Ron (Rueven Ben Eliezar) Newman (76) Stacey 2/27/2008 4:39:00 PM Be whatever you want to be One of the great things about America is the freedom to choose. If you decide to become American, you have the freedom to choose a party or not to choose a party. In fact, for quite some time, (until I was encouraged otherwise), I called myself an independent, since I shared views with both parties. My point, don't let a silly thing, like choosing a political party get in the way of becoming part of a country you hold so dear. However, if you want to stay a Canadian, thats cool too. Remember....freedom to choose! (77) Joseph 2/27/2008 4:37:00 PM no, you should become israeli!! your country!! needs you!! (78) Ari Jacobson 2/27/2008 4:05:00 PM Taking sides: "Jewish Protestant" or "Jewish Catholic"? People you meet insist you take a side? Reminds me of the Jew in Belfast during the "Troubles". He's accosted by a gunman in an alley, who demands to know his affiliation: "Protestant or Catholic?" A wrong answer will be fatal. For once, he can safely announce: "Jewish", and begins to walk away. Unsatisfied, the gunman demands to know: "Jewish Catholic or Jewish Protestant?" (79) Anonymous 2/27/2008 3:08:00 PM Lori, Lori, Lori, Lori, I watch your "Lori almost Live" weekly and am frankly surprised to be hearing you express this concern. A strong, smart, confident, brave, proud Jew, and you are afraid of someone asking you a question---so much so that you'd avoid becoming a citizen of this great country? There are plenty of folks just like you here who are religious and handle any political questions just fine. You really don't have to hide behind the Candadian flag and say, "I can't vote." Quite frankly, if I asked you which candidate you liked, and you gave me that answer, I'd simply follow up with, "Well fine, but if you COULD vote, who would you vote for." So, you wouldn't be able to avoid it anyway. I don't know you well enough to say this, but if you were my close friend, I'd say, "Lori, get over it." Become an American citizen and enjoy all of the benefits of full citizenship, which include the right to vote. One last thing, consider that your vote for a pro-Israel candidate just might make a difference one day between a pro (or anti-Israel)candidate winning or losing at some level of government. If you aren't a citizen, you obviously can't vote. (80) Sarita 2/27/2008 1:29:00 PM I enjoyed your speach, and understand your feelings. You asked for advice. Well, being that your husband and children are U.S. citizens, it is easier and makes sense to become an American. Remember, you will be on the same line when passing customs. As to your politics, you can say that your an Independent, end of questioning. I enjoy listening to you, you make sense. Shalom, and maybe send me a reply? Sarita (81) Batya 2/27/2008 12:52:00 PM You are a Canadian Lori,you have already made up your mind.If you wanted to take out American citizenship you would have done it years ago.Listen to your inner voice. (82) Dan Salomon 2/27/2008 12:34:00 PM Your Life Lori, The best advice saying I could give you is the following: Its your life...Do what you feel is right, regardless of what you think others will say. Based on the video, I can tell that you are a: -Woman of substance and valor (Haset Hial) -Someone who knows right from wrong. -Follows the torah. -Loves Israel. -And is a G_D fearing person. So, why would you ask me (or anyone for that matter) what you should do? You are already the best (and most qualified) person to answer this question. "This above all, to thine own self be true". In closing, I will tell you, that as an American (who just moved back here after living in Israel for eight years) I welcome you as a positive influence (I believe you to be) to this fine land of ours. (83) Bill Vanderhoof 2/27/2008 11:47:00 AM Choose one Lori; Choose one!! The Bible tells me that no one can serve two masters for they wil hate one and love the other. Don't have your children become torn between but rather have them make a decision for one or the other when they are mature enough to choose wisely. Bill (84) Scott 2/27/2008 11:43:00 AM What does God want for you? Lori, have you prayed about becoming a US citizen? Maybe god has brought you to this place to show you both sides of living in the US. Now the opportunities for you to help perfect the world are more evident. Only you can decide, the choice is yours alone. (85) Miriam 2/27/2008 11:36:00 AM An American Family Hi Lori, Your family is looking for cohesiveness, not only in religion, but also in citizenship. They are encouraging you to decide to join them to help create a complete American family. It has been noted that Hashem blesses America because America protects Israel and the Jews. Israel has no better friend. Hashem brought you to America to bring Judaism back to to the Jews. As an American, you will add to Hashem's blessing. We welcome you you to be part of this great imperfect nation because we love you. (86) Anonymous 2/27/2008 11:26:00 AM A,merica is NOT Israel's friend if you believe that America is Israel's best friend in the world then you do not understand Israel or Israeli life or how we are suffering because of how YOUR America is not allowing our government to do what they have to do to stop our wars on two fronts right now. And dont think it will get better after your upcoming elections - with all the candididates running it will only get worse... hence we and we alone are our own friend and we alone will have to take care of both the Hamas and the Hisboulah and the American govt can take a hike . ACCORDING TO YOUR SITE MY ISRAELI EMAIL ADDRESS ISNT EVEN VALID AND I HAVE TO USE ONE THAT IS AMERICAN BASE (87) steven fox 2/27/2008 11:15:00 AM YES you should.... But why???? America needs people like you... People who care, and are able to say why they care (88) Graciela Gerber 2/27/2008 10:27:00 AM You are your own person Lri, I do not think anybody can doubt you honesty or your strong Jewish beliefs. Be yourself, if you feel strongly about being neutral because of your Canadian citizenship. Stay Canadian. Nobody should dictate to another person how to feel or what to believ. (89) Margaret 2/27/2008 9:52:00 AM Don't worry about it! Hi Lori Just tell people that the politics are very complicated and that you have no interest in finding out the ins and out of the situation, the country is doing fine and you don't think that they need one extra vote from you. I don't think anyone feel badly about your opinion, just be honest, they will appreciate that. (There are millions of people who are eligible to vote and they don't so you could become a citizen, have a US passport and still decide not to vote if you don't want to vote.) If you don't want to be involved discussions, just tell people that you have no interest and finding out the situation, you leave it to people who are more informed and I think that people will be happy with that response from you. Looking forward to hearing your decision - good luck!! (90) Chaya 2/27/2008 8:55:00 AM No Lori, You are Not an American You are a Canadian. You were born in Canada. You are not entitled to be an American just because you married one. It is clear you disdain American politics and pooh-pooh our party system. My bet is that your heart thrills to the sound of Oh! Canada! not The Star-Spangled Banner. Sure, the benefits here are great. Sure, we've got great baseball teams. Sure, we're rich. But you are a Canadian. Be satisfied with your green card. Don't take advantage. (91) Dave 2/27/2008 7:48:00 AM Need You You are smart, articulate, thoughtful and productive. What better fellow citizen could I possibly ask for. You could provide intelligent discourse on politics as well as religion. Love it! (92) Anonymous 2/27/2008 7:30:00 AM Your Heart Do what is in YOUR heart. No body jumped right on the kidney donation BUT look at the blessing that came from that. He will show you the right way for YOU. Thanks for all you do. ~iris (93) George Miller 2/27/2008 4:31:00 AM On becoming American Lori.., you are a beacon in the dark. I find your presentations very inspiring. It isn't necessary for you to become American. You are a success in 'your own right'. Becoming American could possibly 'complicate' a well rounded Lady. From an American by birth. Mazel Tov...Am Israel Chai... George miller (94) Natalie 2/27/2008 3:36:00 AM Yes go for it! Hi Lori, thanks for asking us. Yes I think go for it, you are getting all the benefits, let them benefit from having you! And enjoy your dual citizenship. ( I would love USA citizenship but dont want to have to leave my country to come live in USA) (95) Anonymous 2/27/2008 2:12:00 AM Politics is a part of life... Lori, Firstly thank you for valuing your readers' opinions. That is very "American" of you :-). Secondly, it seems to me that there is no way to escape politics, dafka because you are a Jew. If I am not mistaken, living in Israel is no different in terms of where you stand in the religious "political" spectrum. Is it not true that the Haredim in Eretz Yisrael are in one political party and keepah srugah in another? Isn't it also true that a yeshivish woman would probably not date a guy with a keepah srugah in Eretz Yisrael? Isn't it also true that when someone asks you where you stand in the Orthodox spectrum (yeshivish, modern orthodox, hassidish etc) your answer may cause the person who asked the question to think of you in a certain way? In my mind, labeling yourself a Republican, Democrat or Independent is no different than religious labels. L'havdil, of course a person's relationship with G-d is more important than an election. However, if you think about it, at the end of the day you are still Lori. Yeshivish, modern, hassidish....it doesn't matter you are still the same person. The labels just serve as a way to show yourself and the world HOW you relate to G-d and what you stand for. In the end we are ALL Jews. Republican, Democrat, Independent...this just shows how one realtes to a precious thing called a democracy, and also what one stands for. In the end we are ALL Americans! I do hope that I have made a parallel here and not a comparison. Like I said, I also agree that G-d comes first. It just seems as though we as human beings have created these labels in most areas of our lives. Thanks so much for your continued insight! (96) Yale 2/27/2008 12:40:00 AM Became an American We need citizens like you. Become an American. You can always remain neutral in your stated opinions. Listening to you often, I personally feel good about how you would vote behind that curtain. Thanks for your messages. (97) miriam lane 2/27/2008 12:17:00 AM Become an American, Keep your Vote Confidential One important aspect of American democracy is voting confidentiality. If you consistently refuse to discuss your political positions, most decent people will respect this. My mother,aleha hashalom, would never reveal whom she voted for despite everyone's nagging and badgering. I think she was right. By the way, I think it is always positive for a Jew to have more than one citizenship, if possible. It increases our options.In view of Jewish history,one just never knows what might come in handy, hopefully only for good reasons. Behatzlacha in your decision! (98) Janna 2/26/2008 11:45:00 PM We need you! Go for it! Your biggest concern seems to be the heated political passions of the people who are your friends and neighbors in Washington, D.C. If you were to drive a few hundred miles from your home in any direction (New England, the mid-Atlantic states, the Midwest), you would find a very different environment politically...and that is what our country is all about. Just as Canada is a big country, ours, too, stretches for more than three thousands miles from east to west. Between coasts are many different kinds of people - but we all are united by the fact that, though we may not agree with each other, we will staunchly defend our individual rights to an opinion. Washington is what it is...a town ruled by politics and politicians. Go to L.A. and you will find a town ruled by actors and the movie industry! That doesn't mean you'd have to get your Screen Actors Guild card to continue to live there! Don't let your decision be affected negatively by the people and lifestyles of the (relatively) small part of the country where you live. Even though I am registered in a political party, I tell people I am an independent and will vote my conscience when the time comes. No one bothers me about voicing a favorite here in NY, and I'd venture to say no one would bother you anywhere else in the U.S., either. Of course people want you to be on "their" side - that's what all the brouhaha is about right now! Ultimately, it's all about freedom of choice - and freedom, if you so desire, to keep that choice to yourself until you vote. I hope you will decide to become an American citizen, because we need more thoughtful, caring citizens (who support Israel!!!) like you here. Go for it! (99) moshe 2/26/2008 11:08:00 PM i don't think it really matters. whatever you decide it should be the right one!- hatzlacha (100) Ella Adler 2/26/2008 10:57:00 PM I don't think it makes a difference because we are living in extremely critical times. The entire country/world could change drastically at any given moment. There's a saying " if it aint broke, don't fix it!" Hatzlacha Lori- regards,. Ella Adler ( Jewish Aeorobics) close friend of Rebbitzen Leah Cohen) YOu're sooooo good! (101) Cheryl Sanger-Morrison 2/26/2008 9:52:00 PM Lori Becoming a Citizen of USA Love ya Lori. Yes, do become a citizen of the country in which you you reside and the country that is accomodating you in so many ways. Your hubby and kids are right. Listen to them. (102) G.M. Grena 2/26/2008 9:27:00 PM Lori, Help Us in the US! The fact that so many idiots have already voted for Obama & McCain is proof-positive that we need every intelligent person like you that we can get! (103) Anonymous 2/26/2008 9:19:00 PM You already know the answer Shalom! Lori, First and foremost take it to HaShem!Now,I will tell you a quick story. My youngest son Joanthan, works for his Dad, in his Dad's machine shop. He runs a lathe. My son Jonathan also plays bass guitar. One day while he was machining parts, his hand got caught in the lathe machine, and cut his right hand. He called me on the phone, to ask my opinion if he should go get stitches or not, since his Dad felt stitches were not needed. I told him this, son why are you calling to ask my opinion, when you already know the answer? It turned out he went to E.R. and got stitches. The Dr. told him he made the right decision. So will you, Lori!!! Hashem is in your daily life, and you wil make the right decision! Keep this in mind, since my husband is Canadian with his green card, and has lived and worked here in the U.S.about 22 + years, if he should die a Canadian, before me, all his social security benefits will go back to the government.I won't get a penny of it, and I've been diagnosed with fibromyalgia and with some heart problems, and may have to retire, soon. He's going for his American citizenship because he says it is the right thing to do. (104) Leonard 2/26/2008 9:19:00 PM Go ahead. Just don't talk about politics. I understand that you wish to avoid political arguments. However, you could still be asked, "Well, if you were an American, then which party would you support?" What would be your response to that? I'm sure you would have a polite method of changing the subject. Couldn't you use the same response if you became an American? I think that you should become an American. Just think about all the countries throughout history where Jews were not allowed to become citizens even if they had been born there. You were not born in America, but you have a chance to become a citizen anyway. That is not something to be taken lightly. If you already have a green card, then you have been through the hardest part of the process. Go ahead. Listen to your family. (105) Bruce Birnberg 2/26/2008 8:29:00 PM Falling in love with America It sounds to me like you've already fallen in love with America. Declaring your love thru becoming a citizen, sound like a natural progression. My 13 year old daughter and i always enjoy your videos...and i enjoy the way you pronounce "almost" when you say "Lori, almost live." (106) David from TEXAS! 2/26/2008 8:26:00 PM Become an American, but..... ....keep your politics a secret. It WILL affect our perception of what you say. We may miss something that we need to hear while we are wondering "How could that seemingly intelligent woman be a DEMOCRAT!!!" LOL, please keep your politics a secret! (107) Alan Bunin MD 2/26/2008 8:24:00 PM You can help us more by staying Canadian Americans tend to love Canadians and British people. Love and respect are very similar emotions. That bank of good will can be channelled like a bully pulpit.Yasher Koach (108) Oscar Carillo 2/26/2008 8:21:00 PM Follow your instinct; follow your heart's desire Shalom Lori, My suggestion? Follow your heart's desire. I am a Canadian and Australian myself...I did it because I wanted it. I am also from Toronto. Ask HaShem. (109) Marlene 2/26/2008 8:11:00 PM Stay Canadien in my humble opinion there is a great power in be able to be neutral in any situation, so really I don't see any really important point in giving up that neutrality power. something to think about it :-) (110) Ruth Kaplan 2/26/2008 7:36:00 PM If you hesitate to become American only because we are passionate about our politics, don't bother. (111) Carmin Rosenthal 2/26/2008 7:28:00 PM We belong to G-D Follow your heart. No matter Where you live or which country you claim, in the eyes of Hashem you will continue to do His work and by the way,you do it very well. Shalom (112) Penny 2/26/2008 7:24:00 PM When in doubt - don't! Why not base your decision upon what is right for you, not upon what others suggest? If you lean strongly in one direction or the other - go for it. For me, I like to wait until clarity comes from within on the 'big' stuff. In the mean time, keep up the wonderful work you do - it is usually a mid day bracha to stop and listen to the short clips that give a lift! Todah Rabah (113) Anonymous 2/26/2008 7:16:00 PM Chicken Do what is in your heart. Don't rely upon other people to make the decision for you. If you want my opinion, however, you sound Anti-American by saying, after living in this country for years, that you are not sure you want to become an American. If you truly do not like what America has to offer, then let me politely tell you to go back to Canada. You can continue your Jewish work from there. America has enough problems and does not need non-Americans living here telling them they are undecided about American culture. (114) Anonymous 2/26/2008 6:35:00 PM do it! Become an American so you can vote. I watch you every week and really enjoy it. (115) Moishe 2/26/2008 6:21:00 PM Yes Shalom Lori, I asked myself the same question long time ago, I am a Venezuelian (South America)born jew who grew up in Berlin Germany and because of the avantages of the EU, I had to choose becoming a German citizen, so you could imagine as grandchild of survivor of the holocaust how difficult was for me by then to take that decision of becoming German...and I am German now. America has not such a past history, so Go for it, you should be proud of. In addition, that's how you are going to pay back US for letting you be there, becoming a grateful citizen. Besides you pay taxes and live in a country you have not the right to vote? In a country like the US, a symbol of a strong democracy...How many people, how many countries would envy you for that? Your family and friends will be happy, you will still be Canadian and no matter what passport you are holding there is one thing nobody can take us away, we are jews, we are "am israel", we are a unity. May H' bless you and your family. I love your articles, keep going. Zei gezunt! Moishe (116) Anonymous 2/26/2008 6:09:00 PM Go for it! Hi Lori, I too, born in Ontario, married to an American, was very reluctant to become an American citizen.There is a certain pride being with Americans, and standing out as a Canadian! However, my sisters and I opted to become Americans, so that we could sponsor our parents. Just do it....you won't regret it. Good luck (your accent will still give you away, no matter what!) (117) francine 2/26/2008 6:03:00 PM Be an "Independent"! Definitely you should become a citizen. When they ask you what party you belong to just say you are an Independent! (118) Stephen Mohr 2/26/2008 5:41:00 PM Lori, I think you should go for dual citizenship, because it can give you a voice in American politics. By the way, I have a soft spot in my heart for Jews from Toronto, as my father was a cousin of Freda Lyons, the wife of former mayor Nathan Phillips, who I met as a teenager. (119) Nate 2/26/2008 5:29:00 PM Apathetical I am also living in Washington DC. I however, do not vote or take a stance on politics. Why? I do this because rather than politics making us closer as Americans, it seperates us and is destructive. My opinion? It is a wonderful thing to become American. Remember, in Pirkei Avos it is stated that one should not become overly farmilliar with the government. Pirkei Avos really was forshadowing the way politics can form people. (120) yonah 2/26/2008 5:17:00 PM thumbs down to becomming an American Stay above the fray by being a non partisan, apolitical, non citizen. In a highly politicized environment such as Washington D.C., your non citizenship is an assest that allows you to effortlessly sidestep the polarization phenomenon you describe. I agree with you that you will dilute your all important message about G-d, and Torah if you open the door to the quagmire of American politics by becomming an American citizen. Tell your husband and kids that your choice to be a non citizen isn't about appreciation, loyalty or patriotism. It is about pragmatism in a highly politicized environment. Brocha v'hatzlocha in whatever decision you make. All the best, Yonah Ginsburg Monsey, New York (121) Anonymous 2/26/2008 5:17:00 PM Re: YES! All that said, you should remain a citizen of Canada. It sounds like your country means a great deal to you, and I encourage you to remain a citizen there. (122) Anonymous 2/26/2008 5:00:00 PM YES! I think you should become an American because of your views about Israel and America. If you believe that America is Israel's best friend in the world, then you should give yourself a voice on the issue. There are plenty of candidates in this country who disagree with you, and do not like Israel, and vice-versa. Don't you want to ensure that America remains the friend of Israel? If yes, then you need to have the ability to vote. As for your neutrality, by having views about US policy towards Israel, you automatically lose your neutrality. With all due respect, I believe that you have convinced yourself that you remain neutral, when really, you only perceive the illusion of neutrality. While I believe that you should give yourself a voice and vote FOR Israel in our elections, I think that you should be very careful not to become a "one purpose voter." This is a very dangerous thing, but I know, from watching your videos that you are able to look at all sides of the argument, so please DO! Finally, I would just like to say that you are obligated as a Jew to become a citizen here. The Jewish people have been persecuted from the beginning of our faith. Nebuchadnezer and his army raided Israel and the holy city and took the Jews captive. Later, under Cyrus the Great, the Jews flourished in Babylon. However, time after time the Jewish people have fallen into a government that eventually changes unfavorably. If you are a productive member of American society, and want to ensure equality for the Jewish people, you MUST become a citizen, and raise your voice with a vote or a megaphone (or a short video clip on our favorite educational website). If you truly want to be taken seriously when you really for strong, positive US policy towards Israel, you need to tell everyone that you have the ability to vote for what you believe in because you have become a citizen. I urge you to understand the impact you will have as a citizen. To quote Mahatma Gandhi "be the change you wish to see in this world." B'shalom, Joseph (123) Channie 2/26/2008 4:50:00 PM There is a certain responsibility we have, especially as Jews, and hakoras hatov to a country that has embraced us and has been such a strong ally of Israel for so many years. Perhaps the best way of exercising this responsibilty and giving concreteness to our hakoras hatov is by becoming full citizens of the country that has given us the opportunity to be full citizens, and by exexcising all the rights, privileges, and additonal responsibilities citizenship confers. Continued hatzlacha in all you do. (124) Anonymous 2/26/2008 4:33:00 PM If you are not sure, don't do it Commiting to be a US citizen is a big step. If you are not comfortable taking that step, don't do it. For me,if people want to judge me entirely on my politics, then it's their choice...and their loss. It is their choice not to be adults about differences in thought. This is a great country with many freedoms. Be comfortable with your decision. After all, it is yours when you live here. (125) Gail 2/26/2008 4:29:00 PM Be a Citizen and remain neutral I have an answer for you. Become an American citizen. Your children, your husband and you will be happy. Now, as far as remaining neutral...tell everyone you are neither Democrat or Republican but you are an independent so you vote as your heart and mind dictate at the time. Also, one of the most important things about this country is "the secret vote". You don't have to tell, that's one of our rights. We've fought wars for our freedoms and that is one of them.So don't let living in the seat of our democracy drive you nuts. The rest of us keep our politics a bit more 'tamped down'. (126) Raymond 2/26/2008 4:25:00 PM Problem solved! Can I complicate things further? Why not make aliyah?! (127) Anonymous 2/26/2008 4:14:00 PM Canadians are Americans too. The last I looked, Canada is still a part of North America. Geographically you are already an American. Your question really is should I be a United States Citizen. There are plenty of United States citizens who are politically neutral and/or politically ignorant. In fact more Canadians vote in their elections tnan US citizens vote in theirs. It seems to me that becoming a US citizen basically increases your options as you are also potentially an Israeli citizen by having the right of return. If it doesn't cost you anything more than a small fee and an easy civics test;and if your family wants you to be an American, I see no harm in acquiesing to their wishes. I wish you well whatever your final choice. (128) Katie 2/26/2008 4:12:00 PM Become an American Blessings to you. You raise valid points, but I think you can always NOT discuss politics. It is no ones business how you vote. In a pinch, you can always say you are an Independent! (129) ralph 2/26/2008 3:58:00 PM Shalom sister You needn't worry about this, work on the important things, the mitzvos, and continue to teach others to do the same. r (130) Karen 2/26/2008 3:54:00 PM neutrality and pleurality are gifts Lori, I WAS born in the US and have often wished I could be a citizen of a more open-minded and less political country. You have that in Canadian citizenship. By residing lawfully in the US you also have the benefits without the need for citizenship or partisanship. Do not feel pressured to take a step that is not firmly resolved in your heart. Your husband does not feel pressured to take Canadian citizenship just because your children have dual citizenship. Be a citizen of the world, the rest is just detail. (131) Anonymous 2/26/2008 3:36:00 PM Dear Lori; I'm a Canadian, married to an American (from New York, in fact)-and I'm an American citizen as well (I became an American before I met my wife). The reason is that I'm proud to be Canadian but I'm also grateful to America for being the wonderful country that it is to Israel, the Jewish People and to all people. I'm proud of what the USA stands for and, yes, I believe that "America is different." Even as a "green card," I would never feel an integral part of this country. As a citizen, however, I'm not an outsider but part and parcel of the "woof and warp" of America. With all good wishes, Your fellow Torontonian, Howard (132) Ronald M. Landau 2/26/2008 3:29:00 PM Go for it, Lori! I totally agree with (1) below. You need to stand up and be heard, not only on Shabbat among our Lundsmen, but within our greater community (in this case, the entire USA). Welcome to the family, Lori. Shalom. Ron (133) David 2/26/2008 3:27:00 PM Do it! One of the best things about being an American is that it is OK to agree to disagree. I sure it doesn't seem that way in DC. But, the USA really follows to lines of the Passover story. "Let My people go that they may worship Me". There can be no freedom without responsibility. In the USA that responsibility is a voice, a vote, a letter to your congress person. (134) Anonymous 2/26/2008 3:26:00 PM No. I don't think you're yet ready for citizenship. The love and loyalty, the deep commitment that you feel to Israel should also be part of your feelings for America . . . along with an attachment, whether literal or emotional, to its past, which would help you smile forgivingly at those whose bad manners permit them to demand to know your "stand" on the political parties. (135) George Gumbiner 2/26/2008 3:18:00 PM response Hi Lori, I hope you're feeling well. I am going to show Sheera your trip to Israel for couples. Regarding being a U.S citizen, I think you are doing well for U.S. Jews with your vidios. It is your choice if you want to vote or not. yours, George Gumbiner (136) Dina 2/26/2008 3:05:00 PM Go for it. I was born in Montreal to a Canadian mother and a naturalized German-American father. We moved to the states when I was 3 weeks old. Mom was a dual national, as am I and my kids. Dad and bro are just American. You can stay neutral. Use the excuse you already use - - it is not considered advisable to discuss religion or politics, but since you always discuss religion, you simply choose not to discuss politics. Being a dual national gives you options, and options are great! (137) Susan 2/26/2008 3:04:00 PM I don't know either You're talking about becoming a citizen; I'm wondering if I want to be one and I was born here. Our government has become a joke and when I vote, it is always for the lesser of two evils. Leaving is not an option as my children and grandchildren are here. Israel with all its dangers sounds better every day. Good luck with your decision. (138) Pat Toensmeier 2/26/2008 2:55:00 PM Take the Plunge—Become an American There are opinionated and vexatious people everywhere. (I was once hectored at the Toronto airport by a Canadian complaining about cutbacks in government healthcare.) But good people like you make good citizens, something America needs to maintain its vitality and promise. Take the plunge, become a citizen. You'd be very welcome. (139) Anonymous 2/26/2008 2:45:00 PM It's interesting that you mention that you don't want to be an American because of the conflicts with your family and friends between Democrats and Republicans. There are many ways to be a Citizen other than choosing what party to belong to or trying to make peace with others in their decisions. What it means to be an American is accepting the constitution and what are founders put in the Declaration of Independence. If you believe in that, it would seem best to become a citizen for all those reasons and not only to vote Democrat or Republican. There are many Independents,Libertarians and members of the Green Party that take other positions. You must choose to be an American not only to have the liberty to vote but what America means to you. This is a diecision no one else can make but you. Keep looking and being open to yourself on what it means to be an American. G-d Bless you. (140) Micki 2/26/2008 2:37:00 PM Go for it, Lori I think you should become an American since that is where you live. It is most important that you vote to keep those freedoms that you value. You really don't have to tell people what party you belong to...you can always vote as an Independent and not declare a party. I have lived in Maryland close to DC for almost 17 years and I make it a point not to talk politics.. (except with a very few close friends)So, I say go for it Lori! We need thoughtful people like you in the US. (141) Anonymous 2/26/2008 2:31:00 PM Hi Lori, I am married to an Israeli, and can assure you that the Dems and Republicans are amateurs when discussing politics. You haven't lived until you've listened to two Israelis, one on the right and a leftist, discuss politics. Now we're talking! Lori, I am a faithful reader...please join us and become an American...and keep your Canadian citizenship for sentimentality....thanks for reading, "almost live." (142) KAren Kaplan 2/26/2008 2:28:00 PM Be an American Lori I watch your spot every week and read your writings. I think you are very intelligent I have learned so much from you. You really have a pretty good handle on life I think you would be an awesome American and I know that your vote would always stand for the right thing Thnaks KAren (143) Suzanne 2/26/2008 2:24:00 PM Think twice I am a proud American, and I am also a proud Israeli. I know that Israel will always be there for me, in times of trouble and in times of celebration. That is not always true here. But the other side is, if you are not able to vote, then you are not able to affect change. One more point that really needs some thinking is, Hitler came to power due to ONE vote. Your vote does count. (144) Anonymous 2/26/2008 2:24:00 PM If you really desire to be an American citizen, you should. Although American citizens are politically divided, they unite behind each other because of our common link as American. It doesn't matter what race, religion, or political stance people hold, you will be defended if people insult/assault you. Why? Because you would be a fellow citizen. Although we may not agree on everything, we are united together. (145) Meira D. Lerman 2/26/2008 2:20:00 PM My vote for you Dear Lori, yes, neutral position is necessity of today life and I absolutely agree with you. If I had a choice I were staying Caucasian ( I'm from Caucasus) and quit my American Citizenship now. It's a kind of treatment, when the impair organ is isolated from the main blood supply for a while to reinforce its potential. (146) Anonymous 2/26/2008 2:12:00 PM Become a citizen Become a citizen so you can participate as an American. And then, tell people when asked, "I don't discuss politics" instead, let's talk about God since He doesn't recognize politics and we can talk about what is important. (147) Elam 2/26/2008 2:02:00 PM To question one's self.... To question one's self is a true mark of inteligence. I lived in Alaska as a child and as a teenager. Many State citizens in Alaska are also Canadians and I have heard this question many times. If you become a dual citizen you will always be Canadian and American....if not...you will always be asking this question. You love both places and they are both your homes. And, gues what....you don't have to vote unless you want to...that's the beauty of being American. You are a smart teacher ... you will do the right thing! (148) Wes Peaker 2/26/2008 1:41:00 PM Lori....I was delighted to learn you are from Toronto where I was born and raised. Don't do it. I am always dismayed when one of our home brews is successful, moves, and converts. Would you give up being a Jew. I don't think so. So, why would you give up being an All Canadian Gal. (149) Michael Fenton 2/26/2008 1:32:00 PM yes, you should become American In your video, you site the uncomfortable nature of American politics as reason for neutrality. Being an American has it's privileges many that I am sure you enjoy. It also has its responsibilities, some of which I am sure you do not enjoy. To enjoy the benefits without the responsibilities is to short change yourself and is simply a cop out. I think you can make the same argument about what it means to be a Jew. I love your videos! (150) Anonymous 2/26/2008 1:29:00 PM Become an American, and participate more fully in the dynamics and influence of the world's most powerful democracy. America's greatness and virtues are undeniable, as are its impact on the world and Israel. You don't have to buy into the politically polarized atmosphere of D.C., and as a Jew, the privilege of voting for the President of the United States - or any government official - is not something to take lightly. (151) Reva Van Leeuwen 2/26/2008 1:28:00 PM I have a better idea! This is a heartfelt suggestion: Come on aliya with your wonderful family and have Israeli citizenship! Teach Torah in English here in Israel, where so many people need it. Am Yisrael should be together here in Israel!!! (152) Dick Kent 2/26/2008 1:28:00 PM Go for it ! Avoiding conflict is not a good way to conduct your life. All of life is contest and conflict - embrace it. In confronting differences with an opposing individual or group, you often find that you have a lot in common and become friends who "agree to disagree". This is far superior to pretending that differences don't exist or deliberately avoiding half of humanity. Conflict adds spice to life! (153) Kay 2/26/2008 1:23:00 PM get your citizenship If you are worried about how people will judge or accept you according to your political viewpoint, then do you really want to be friends with those people? If they are true friends they will respect your opinions and leave it at that. I love your video's! (154) ELLI 2/26/2008 12:17:00 PM DONT BE A COWARD You don't want to become an American citizen just so that you don't have to tell people what political | ||||||||||||||
