Mishpatim(Exodus 21-24)

The Seed to Succeed

In the previous Torah portion, God gave the Jews the Ten Commandments. And in this portion, the very next commandment God gives the Jewish people is:

"If you buy a Jewish bondsman, he shall work for six years; and in the seventh he shall go free..."
Exodus 21:2)


A LIFE LESSON

God instructs every Jew that if he has a Jewish slave working for him, then after six years he is to be set free. On the surface, it seems like when the seventh year arrives the slave would eagerly, happily, and enthusiastically run from his master's house into his new found freedom. But this just isn't how a slave feels. The reason for this is that the longer a person is under the "rule" of someone or something else, the less belief he has that he can actually make it on his own.

One of the most debilitating aspects of any form of enslavement is that it robs a person of his self-worth and self-confidence. He becomes enslaved physically, emotionally and mentally. But the fact the God commands the slave to be set free in the seventh year demonstrates an incredible and powerful seed that God plants within all of us. And that is knowing, without question, that we all have the ability to make it on our own without this master.

Whether you realize it or not, each and everyone of us are enslaved to someone or to something. Whether it's continuing to stay in at a job we dislike, in a relationship that's unhealthy, engage in destructive behaviors, or need to watch hours of television in order to escape the thoughts of the day - we all choose to be slaves.

While no one wants to be controlled, this enslavement is far better than we fear what will become of us if we chose to leave. The bottom line is that within all of us is a powerful and driving belief that questions if we really can make it on our own without this master. And although the enslavement is hard, frustrating, and painful, we don't leave because we doubt our ability to make it in un-chartered waters.

But the exact opposite is true. Whatever unhealthy situation controls a part of your life and keeps you from blossoming and becoming great, then also know that you can walk away and make it without this master. And when you do muster the strength to leave and fight the inner voice that questions your ability to succeed, then the battle is 99% won. Because when you commit to being free, you just have to hand the ball over to God and He will give you everything you need to make it.

Published: Saturday, February 18, 2006

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Visitor Comments: 8

(8) Sara, January 24, 2011 9:00 PM

The greatest ensalvement today....

One of the greatest ensalvement today is prison. When a person is given a long prison sentence, it is without question that person no longer has the ability to succeed on his own. That person returns to a life of crime because he became so depended on the system. This is self ensalvement and when it happens at a young age the greater degree of mental enslavement. That person almost become the walking dead in and once released out side of prison. Very few without of the help of society or family can not make it. How can that person succeed? In many cases it becomes hell on earth because that person didn't follow God's laws for whatever reason.

(7) SusanE, February 11, 2010 8:41 PM

I've Read your Article Three Times

I read your article "The Seed to Succeed". Then I read the comments section and considered the commenters views. Then I read you again and then again. Lots to think about and great information there. In accepting charity from the wealthy should we, then, strive to become less poor (if possible in our society) so we don't have to accept the charity? Similar to giving me a meal everyday for the rest of my life, or teaching me how to afford to buy my own food and then I can give charity too. Are we a slave to the charity if we choose to accept it? I don't quite have that figured out yet. -------------------- When I was little, I had two school dresses. One to wear while the other was in the wash. (I think we were having hard tmes.) My Grandmother (mothers mom) wanted to make me a couple skirts, and my father was proud and said no. So my Grandmother said she found a bolt of fabric fallen off a truck and was making skirts for all the Grandaughters from that bolt of fabric. Dad didn't refuse that offer. Well!! I got a new skirt. Then Mom took me to Montgomery Wards and bought me a NEW blouse to go with it. That was 60 year ago. I'll never forget my feelings that day. I think Grandma made it up about finding a bolt of fabric. I don't think my cousins got new skirts. Just me. Grandma never had to offer again. My Dad took a job working for someone else and we were not in want again. I will never be prideful about accepting someones kindness. We can't know how far reaching that act of kindness can be. Thank you for helping me remember that day.

(6) Anonymous, February 8, 2010 11:13 AM

answer to Mr. Nachman

To Mr. Schwartz (2) Refusing a meal so as not to be a slave to charity is not the Jewish way. G-d wants the wealthy to help the poor, and once, when someone told a rabbi that someone had died because of hunger, the rabbi replied that he didn't die of hunger, but of pride (he was too proud to accept charity). Don't forget that the Hebrew word for charity is tzdaka, which comes from tzedek (justice). Because G-d's justice requires that the rich man help the poor one. I wish you all the best.

(5) Anonymous, February 8, 2010 2:09 AM

This was a great and meaningful divar torah. Great job.

(4) Edith, February 17, 2009 8:37 AM

Today there are more things to become a slave

It is quite enlighting to read this interpretation, because today, I believe, we are less and less free and simple. And, what is worst is that our children are becoming slaves without knowing or questioning. Today, children adopt lifestyles with strict boundaries that do not let them grow healthy. Just going to a school is enough to see the different ideologies that separate them from talking or integrating with others. In my opinion, this interpretation is very powerful not just to us as Adults, but for children too, who today are more tied to material things or ideologies.

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Adam Lieberman

Adam Lieberman is a business consultant and who advises executives and companies across a spectrum of industries. He also runs a non-profit foundation which helps Jews of all backgrounds to see the beauty and relevance of their heritage. The insights he receives from the weekly Torah portion enable him to live a happy, meaningful, and balanced life. He lives in New Jersey with his wife and children.

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