Mikeitz(Genesis 41:1-44:17)
Doing Without Being Told
One night Pharaoh had two dreams that disturbed him greatly. The first dream was of seven thin and ugly cows who were eating seven large, healthy cows. The second dream was of seven thin, wilted ears of grain swallowing up seven healthy and full ears of grain. Pharaoh was desperate to find someone to interpret these dreams, but he couldn't find anyone.
Pharaoh was told that Joseph was successful in analyzing dreams, so he had him summoned. Joseph told Pharaoh that his dreams meant that Egypt was going to have seven years of great abundance, which would then be immediately followed by seven grueling years of famine. After Joseph interpreted these dreams for Pharaoh, Joseph then offered some unsolicited advice and said:
"Now let Pharaoh seek out a discerning and wise man and set him over the land of Egypt." (Genesis 41:33)
A LIFE LESSON
The only thing Pharaoh asked Joseph to do was to interpret his dreams for him. And then, without ever being asked, Joseph went on to advise Pharaoh on just how he to deal with the impending situation.
Most people standing before a king would only do what he or she was told, and nothing more. It is a unique person who identifies a problem and who also has the courage to actually come up with a solution and verbalize it.
There's so much to do, fix, and change in the world and there certainly isn't a shortage of people who can point out all of the problems that exist. They're only too excited to share their negative thoughts with anyone who'll listen. But how many of these people will just as eagerly and readily offer up solutions? Very few.
The tendency to be problem-oriented and not solution-oriented usually parallels our own lives. It's not that we proactively choose to focus on negative things (although a lot of people do just that), but negativity and problems are just the default thoughts for our brain.
Our minds can be likened to a garden - whatever seed you plant in a garden, that seed will grow. But if don't plant anything in the garden, then weeds grow in abundance. Our minds work the same way. Absent of our thinking of productive thoughts, our minds will naturally drift toward something negative and unproductive.
People who are moving and growing tend to have many positive and productive thoughts while those who are stuck and not moving will usually focus only on negative thoughts.
There's a surefire way to instantly rid yourself of negative, unproductive, and unhealthy thoughts. Since our brain is capable of having only one thought at a time, focus on a positive future, be action-minded, and work each day toward meaningful objectives.
We live in a world where people love to point out all the things that are wrong. Be that rare person who offers up concrete answers and will even commit to being a part of the solution. This can easily be achieved once you plant productive seeds in your mind which are then certain to yield a large and full crop of productive and happy thoughts. And this will make you want to go out there and change the world.








(8) Judith Wolters , December 24, 2008
When the Power of Love overcomes the Love of Power the World will know Peace.-Jimi Hendrix
As I have experienced many times,not ALL solutions are worth being taken,that are advised by others. For example..my dad has had SO MANY of them for me,without even considering my personal situation,my interests,without asking anything,but found his ideas of solutions from his piont of view only!That's a good reason not to take advise for solutions from another,which has nothing to do with being negative about solutions at all.When is something part of the solution or not?That question can be answered WITHIN YOU not from others anyway,don't you agree?!
(7) leon pickus , December 8, 2007
Facing cancer
We just learned my wife has cancer (lung and colon). Your words are just what we need to face the future. Thank you.
(6) Dvirah , December 6, 2007
But Will the Solution be Accepted?
It's alright to propose solutions, but be prepared ahead of time for them not to be accepted. People reject proposed solutions for any number of reasons: they think it is too hard (too much work); they prefer another solution; or believe it or not, they would rather have the problem! (Gives them an excuse, I guess.) Once a solution of mine was rejected because - get this - it was too fair! The group wanted to explore compromises and complications, and my solution left nothing to be explored. So yes, have courage and suggest solutions. But have understanding and compassion when your advice is not taken.
(5) shells , December 6, 2007
Thank YOU Adam!
YOU are one of my fav all time Adams! This should be published EVERYWHERE. thank you for writting and sharing it with the World. shalom Shells x
(4) MichaelaSchmar , December 22, 2006
Converting to Judaism
My heritage is Jewish, a lot of my family were killed by Nazi's. My grandparents were afraid to practice Judaism. I want to explore my heritage