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GOOD MORNING! I hope you are enjoying a spectacular week. Perhaps the following will help!
Q & A: WHAT IS THE SECRET OF HAPPINESS?
Pirkei Avot, Ethics of the Fathers, a 2,000 year old compilation of Jewish Wisdom found in the back of many prayer books, has tremendous insights into life. Rabbi Noah Weinberg, founder and head of Aish HaTorah, has created a personal self-development course, The 48 Ways to Wisdom, which I think of as "The Jewish Dale Carnegie Course" -- a synthesis of Jewish Wisdom on how to get the most out of life and be the best possible YOU. It is a 25 tape series available from your local Jewish bookstore or by calling (800) 864-2373. In the 6th chapter, the 6th section, it states that one of the 48 Ways to acquire wisdom is through happiness. Following are some of the insights that I have learned from Rabbi Weinberg:
Torah
Portion of the Week
Ekev
Moshe continues his soliloquy guaranteeing the Jewish people prosperity and good health if they follow the mitzvot, the commandments. He reminds us to look at our history and to know that we can and should trust in God. However, we should be careful so that we are not distracted by our material success lest that we forget and ignore God.
Moshe warns us against idolatry (the definition of idolatry is the belief that anything other than God has power) and against self-righteousness ("Do not say because of my virtue that God brought me to occupy this land ... but because of the wickedness of these nations that God is driving them out before you.") He then details our rebellions against God during the 40 years in the desert and the giving of the Second Tablets (Moshe broke the first Tablets containing the Ten Commandments after the sin of the Golden Calf.)
This week's portion dispels a common misconception. People think that "Man does not live by bread alone" means that a person needs additional foods beyond bread to survive. The quotation in its entirety is, "Man does not live by bread alone, but by all that comes out of God's mouth."
The Torah then answers a question which every human being has asked of himself, "What does God want of you? Only that you remain in awe of God your Lord, so that you will follow all His paths and love Him, serving God your Lord with all your heart and with all your soul. You must keep God's commandments and decrees ... so that all good will be yours."
Dvar Torah
based on Growth Through Torah by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin
Before entering the land of Israel at the end of 40 years wandering in the desert, Moses speaks to assuage the fear in the heart of the people, "If you will say in your heart, these nations are more numerous than we, how can we conquer them? Do not fear them, remember what the Almighty, your God, did to Pharaoh and all of Egypt." (Deuteronomy 7:17-18) How will this lessen their worry?
Worry is being afraid that in a future situation you will not be able to cope. (It is also interest paid in advance on a debt which often times never comes due.) Remembering how the Almighty has helped you in similar situations in the past makes it easier to trust in Him in the present. Thus, Moses had the Jewish people focus on how the Almighty dealt with the Egyptians. Likewise, whenever you find yourself worrying about the future, ask yourself, "When has the Almighty already shown me that He can help me overcome a difficulty similar to this?" It will increase your calm and your trust in God.
CANDLE LIGHTING - August 18:
Jerusalem 6:44 Miami 7:42 New York 7:33
L.A. 7:19 Hong Kong 6:33 Singapore 6:55
Guatemala 6:05 Honolulu 6:41 J'Burg 5:17
Melbourne 5:17 Moscow 8:12 London 7:58
Atlanta 8:04 Toronto 8:00 Montreal 7:41
QUOTE OF THE WEEK:
Worry doesn't help the future,
but it sure ruins the present!
Dedicated by...
In Honor of
Selma Rappaport