Visitor Comments: 91
(89) Zev, September 26, 2011 7:13 PM
THink of this every day
(88) Esther Rochel, August 12, 2011 5:42 PM
Wow!
(87) Richard Smith, August 9, 2011 10:15 PM
thank you
(86) Chana Tova, July 31, 2011 12:46 PM
great video
(85) mario bardales, July 18, 2011 11:10 PM
(83) Chris, March 31, 2011 11:55 PM
From A Gentile Believer
Thank you so much for this . . . It's always a humbling and sobering thing to hear that the Creator of the universe believes in me. I really need to get that into my spirit, not just my head. This video has helped me see just a little more that He loves me and is waiting for me to realize that I am His creation not my own. Bless you, Israel, your Jewish people, and most of all, the G_d of Abraham forever.
(81) blesson thomas, March 26, 2011 2:08 AM
(80) Anonymous, March 24, 2011 5:05 PM
quit your day job Charlie!
(79) Anonymous, March 23, 2011 1:10 AM
(78) Dale, March 21, 2011 1:46 AM
Truly Inspiring
(77) Mitch, March 20, 2011 12:18 AM
Thanks!
(76) Anonymous, March 3, 2011 5:36 PM
Truly inspiring message - todah raba!
(75) Ranee, March 1, 2011 5:59 PM
The Shot, Wow!
(74) Louise, February 27, 2011 2:31 PM
Great
(73) Chana, February 27, 2011 12:53 AM
Knowing when to give up also takes courage
Your advice is inspirational to a degree but knowing when to quit and to find satifaction with what you have must eventually be a consideration. Eventually one has to grows up, and act responsibly. This means knowiing when to take a back seat. Specifically my 61 year old sister is always inspired by some new idea because she thinks she was born fo greatness. She has been through three marriages and has three children. . She gave birth to the twins at the age of 52 because she wanted to get a second chance since she screwed up the first child's life by being too busy for him. . She has always pursued her dreams and our entire family has been through the grist mill supporting her every whim only to have her come back repeatedly for both financial and moral support. Finally we decided to say that enough was enough. She vis obdurate and obsessed with her project to the point where she neglecting her 9 year old twins. This is not fair to them or us. It takes courage to call it quits, to tell yourself to stop looking for that pot of gold under the rainbow. This is why it would be nice if you put your insirational speeches in the context of behaving responsibly because the flip side of this doscussion also matters,
(72) Guy Hirsch, M.D., February 27, 2011 12:06 AM
(70) Adrian, February 25, 2011 10:31 AM
What can I say...
(69) Anonymous, February 25, 2011 3:25 AM
(67) Anonymous, February 24, 2011 11:17 AM
(66) Anonymous, February 23, 2011 5:37 PM
(65) matthew, February 23, 2011 10:45 AM
wow!
(64) Chana Yosefa, February 23, 2011 3:59 AM
Inspired!
(63) B. Katz, February 22, 2011 4:35 PM
A great metaphor
(62) Anonymous, February 22, 2011 3:22 PM
After 51 years, You'd Think I Learn
(61) Yehuda Peiser, February 22, 2011 1:34 PM
Thank you for re-awakening this message. Thank you for grving a great illustrative example/application. The title will serve me well as a hook/handle that will keep the message hanging in my brain....to be sent to my "heart" when appropriate. Wishing you success - looking forward to the next production.
(60) Malka B., Feb. 22, 2011, February 22, 2011 9:41 AM
An injection of inspiration and strength
(59) miri, February 22, 2011 8:43 AM
thanks!
I am referred to as a FFB -- frum from birth . I had a wonderful Jewish Orthodox Education and was raised in an Orthodox home. However, I NEVER, EVER connected w/Modeh Ani in the way that you just showed me to. I vaccillate between being totally confident and totally insecure and sometimes, i dont even understand why i feel the different emotions at differents moments. However, after watching your video, I know that iyh, I will NEVER say Modeh Ani as a rote tefilah anymore. I will fight the yetzer hora that tells me that i cannot accomplish the things that i want to do,, or pass the tests/nisayons that Hashem continuously sends to me. I, bli neder< will remember your video and will wake up tomorrow morning knowing that although my father zl' and mother a'h are not here anymore to "believe in me", I have a much greater "COACH" , who indeed does love and believe in me and I know that my day will start in a very new and different way! thank you!!
(58) Eli Weinstein, February 22, 2011 6:39 AM
AMAZING!!!
(57) R.M. Rosen, February 22, 2011 6:34 AM
Inspiring
(56) Debbie N, February 22, 2011 5:00 AM
Baruch Hashem
(55) A, February 22, 2011 4:17 AM
ah... if I"m not believing in myself... He still does
(52) Anonymous, February 22, 2011 2:21 AM
Appreciate the message..
(51) Joel, February 22, 2011 2:02 AM
Thank you
I've heard this concept previously, in the form of a quote from Wayne Gretzky, who said "you miss every shot you don't take". But I've never considered it in this way - that God is my coach and God has put me in this position or situation, and God has faith in me that I can make the shot. And who knows - what if it's not Gods will for me to make the shot. Doesn't matter - if I don't even try, then I'm letting God down, or I'm not living up to Gods will for me. Beautiful!
(50) Zvi H, February 22, 2011 1:00 AM
Superb lesson for all
(49) Tana, February 22, 2011 12:48 AM
Thank you!
(48) Leah Glaser, February 22, 2011 12:36 AM
Were there two guys with # 13 on their backs?
(46) Peg, February 21, 2011 11:35 PM
video
(44) Anya Didziuk, February 21, 2011 10:46 PM
(43) Mark Leaman, February 21, 2011 10:13 PM
Great
(42) Menucha, February 21, 2011 8:47 PM
never too late
(41) Anonymous, February 21, 2011 8:29 PM
Charlie, you did it again!
(40) Anonymous, February 21, 2011 7:56 PM
(38) June, February 21, 2011 7:32 PM
I really needed that!
(37) jerreal lively, February 21, 2011 7:29 PM
Thank you!!!!!!
(36) Anonymous, February 21, 2011 6:56 PM
Thank you.
(34) Ella, February 21, 2011 5:56 PM
Excellent
I have twin grandsons who I will show this video too. One especially is just as depicted and won't take the open shot when he can but will pass it off. I have printed off the prayer and will give it to them before their game today as a reminder to be confident in the confidence that God has in them. Rav Toldot!
(33) Yvonne Lowes-Bird, February 21, 2011 5:02 PM
Faublous....
(32) Alan, February 21, 2011 4:38 PM
Take the shot!
(30) Chaya, February 21, 2011 4:18 PM
(29) Anonymous, February 21, 2011 3:42 PM
Super - really makes an impact!
(28) Anonymous, February 21, 2011 3:42 PM
WOW! Charlie, this is a must see message for every individual in the world! Just beautiful & very inspiring.
(24) Anonymous, February 21, 2011 3:08 PM
Lori and Charlie ...
(23) David Chowes, February 21, 2011 2:54 PM
On: "Take the Shot"
(22) sharona, February 21, 2011 7:47 AM
we can
(20) , February 21, 2011 4:32 AM
(19) Linda, February 21, 2011 12:45 AM
the first thing
(18) marie, February 20, 2011 10:06 PM
amazing!!!!
(17) Anonymous, February 20, 2011 8:48 PM
After all these years, an explanation !
This person wonders why after "being forced" to memorize this awakening prayer back in "Aleph class" about 50 yrs ago, I had never heard any rabbi or teacher or "Jewish educator" give an explanation of this short easy to remember daily prayer since then. What a nice thing to realize with a more mature adult mind now. Comprehension is not the same at age 7 as it is in adulthood. Thank you.
(16) Rimmer, February 20, 2011 7:46 PM
(15) Anonymous, February 20, 2011 7:16 PM
You are the one
(14) Sam Omekara, February 20, 2011 6:12 PM
The ultimate words of wisdom
(13) Avigayil s, February 20, 2011 5:48 PM
one word: wow!
(11) Darlene, February 20, 2011 3:34 PM
Amazing
Charlie, this was one of your best. Everyone should listen to / watch this clip. I don't know what Lori is referring to but she's write that even the author of great words should review his own wisdom. I hope your words give many that "push" to believe in themselves and the energy to follow thorugh on that belief. Thank you.
(9) Anonymous, February 20, 2011 3:22 PM
(8) Rosen, February 20, 2011 3:18 PM
no such thing as "all or nothing"
There is really no such thing as "all or nothing" when it comes to trying. I know there was an earlier video from Aish.com that had the late Rav. Noah Weinberg's words of wisdom, and one poignant thing in that video was that saying one can't is idolatry. So, for sure, it's a mitzvah to try and make an effort (even if it means forcing one's self out of reluctance or hesitence), which I learned is mentioned in Ethics of the Fathers.
(7) Bracha, February 20, 2011 2:50 PM
This man is amazing!
(6) Anonymous, February 20, 2011 2:42 PM
Thank you
(5) mike, February 20, 2011 2:39 PM
it's easier to pass the ball
when i was younger many times i felt and acted the way charlie did at the basketball game. the pressure of shooting the ball, my belief that i couldn't score and the fear of setting myself up for failure made me pass the ball whenever the game was close. it was easier not to shoot than miss-that's the point! thankfully, my dad encouraged me to practice, gain the confidence to take the shot and not second guess myself once the ball was in the air. as a kid i thought it was only a basketball lesson. i wasn't as smart as i thought! thanks dad
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(3) Michal, February 20, 2011 2:04 PM
"rabah emunatecha"
-This came right for me! Apparently I am loosing my emuna. I once knew how to do it, but nowadays the thought kreeps into my mind: "I can't do that anymore, because I am too old, not healthy as I once was. And dont't remember: "When Hashem thinks, I can do it, I should forget those excuses and do what I can. I am grateful for that little film!!!
(2) lisa, February 20, 2011 1:53 PM
Hey..where are your cool glasses??
My kids are in sports....championship games are coming up......so not only was this film packed with confidence and excitement , it was also timely...as if you knew!! We can all bring your message into our lives...even without a basketball or a hockey puck.......thank you as always for your refreshing videos that always make a home run!!
(1) Lori Palatnik, February 20, 2011 11:12 AM
We need to listen to our own video blogs.
About the Author
Charlie Harary
Charlie Harary is the First Vice President of Residential Operation and Legal Counsel of RXR Realty, a multi-billion dollar Real Estate Company based in New York.
He received his J.D. from Columbia Law School where he was awarded the James Kent Scholar and the Harlan Fiske Stone Scholar. Mr. Harary received a B.A. in Political Science and Communications from Queens College, where he graduated magna cum laude.
Mr. Harary is an active volunteer in many community organizations, most notably the Orthodox Union. At the Orthodox Union, he sits on the Board of Directors and Executive Board and is the Founding Chairman of the Young Leadership Cabinet. Charles is also the Chairman of New York NCSY.
Mr. Harary is a prolific speaker and has traveled all over the country and abroad speaking for a plethora of organizations on a variety of topics to audiences of various sizes - particularly for affiliate organizations, various schools, synagogues and college campuses.
For more, please visit www.CharlieHarary.com







