Dating and Judging People Favorably

How to be inscribed for a good year and merit your soul mate.

Breadcrumbing: Stringing Someone Along with No Intention of Committing

Is there any hope for this relationship? Should I just relax and give it more time?

Discovering Love: Celebrating My First Wedding Anniversary

What I learned from my long journey being single and how I let go of my fears and misconceptions about love to get to marriage.

Dating Gossip

I regret listening to the negative things my friend said about a girl I'm dating because I think in the end she's right for me.

PODCAST: Taking a Break from Dating Might be The Quickest Way to Get Married

Aleeza Ben Shalom explains why taking a break from dating can help you meet the right one.

Blindsided: He’s Just Not Feeling It

After a year of living together and thinking this is the one, he suddenly tells me that he doesn't see this heading towards marriage.

PODCAST: Mistakes Assertive People Make on Dates

Rosie Einhorn and Sherry Zimmerman on what goes through the minds of singles who feel pressured by forceful people.

How Do I Know If This Person is the One?

Why deciding to marry your bashert isn’t as hard as you think.

How to Deal with Severe Anxiety while Dating

My journey to getting married was riddled with uncertainty and severe anxiety. Here are some practical suggestions for those struggling with intense doubt and fear while dating.

PODCAST: Dating: Stuck in Limbo

Aleeza Ben Shalom on what to do when you’re not feeling a big yes or no.

PODCAST: Dating with Purpose

Rosie Einhorn and Sherry Zimmerman on getting to know your date, and when it’s time to get personal.

7 Tips for a Successful First Skype Date

How to make a good first impression on video chat.

PODCAST: How to Attract Positive, Healthy People

Dating columnist Aleeza Ben Shalom on the Laws of Attraction for singles.

PODCAST: Is this the Love of My Life?

Dina Coopersmith on the Jewish view of love and dating.

Why Women Should Date Nice Guys

Why are so many women attracted to guys that just aren’t so nice?

An Open Letter to Jewish Singles

Instead of being supported and encouraged, so many Jewish singles are made to feel excluded and unworthy.

PODCAST: The Introvert’s Guide for Dating Success

Aleeza Ben Shalom explains whether love means having the same temperament and interests.

PODCAST: Dating Criterion and Life Goals

Rabbi Dr. Dovid Gottlieb on finding a suitable match for marriage.

How Do I Know if I’m Ready for Marriage?

Shifting your view of marriage from an opportunity to take to an opportunity to give.

Am I Being Too Picky?

Hold on to what's important and let go of the super detailed image you have in your mind.

8 Habits Every Relationship Needs

Creating and adapting positive relationship habits that will increase satisfaction and stability in your relationship.

PODCAST: Help! I’m Dating my Opposite!

Aleeza Ben Shalom on why some odd couples end up happily married.

5 Common Relationship Complaints

And the best way to start working on each one.

4 Ways to Create a Strong Relationship

Four core things you need to do to build a meaningful and happy relationship.

I Like You Because: 30 Sentence Starters for Dating

A practical tool to help you get clarity about your thoughts and feelings, and take your relationship to the next level.

PODCAST: Are My Pre-Wedding Jitters the Sign of a Doomed Marriage?

Rosie Einhorn and Sherry Zimmerman clarify normal nervousness vs. disaster.

Podcast: Dating with Confidence

Columnist Aleeza Ben Shalom on how to defeat your inner critic and date with more confidence.

What’s Really Wrong with the Insulting “Jewish Man’s Rebellion” Essay

Don’t minimize the inherent difficulties in inter-faith marriage.

6 Dating Mantras for the Marriage Minded

My favorite things to say to yourself to keep you focused, positive and grounded when dating.

After the Break Up: How Do I Move On?

We were about to get engaged when she suddenly ended it. I can’t stop thinking about her.

Disclosing Medical Conditions in Dating

I have a chronic illness. My friends believe I’m a wonderful catch but I am afraid I’ll be viewed as "damaged goods".

Stressing Over that First Date?

Aish.com columnist Aleeza Ben Shalom explains how to chill out.

Do You Only Date Jews?

The defining choice for children of interfaith marriage.

7 Common Dating Myths

For starters: there’s no such thing as bashert.

Betrayed: Can I Get Over It?

How do I move past this one terrible mistake and realize we can have a long future full of happiness?

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