I've been in New York this week. Everywhere I go, every hotel lobby, every public square, every shopping area, has a large Xmas tree set up in one corner and a (smaller!) Chanukah menorah in the other. It's a testament to America and its effort at equality.
But I think perhaps it promotes, or at the very least, reflects confusion as well. It suggests a certain equivalency – they have their winter holiday, we have ours. And it leads to...they have their presents, we have ours (yes, presents are fine, but they're not exactly traditional and what the holiday is all about) and to...they have their trees, we have our bush...
And that's just the superficial. The real problem is that it fosters the very challenge that Chanukah and the Maccabees arose to address – assimilation.
Unlike our more recent enemies, the Greeks did not want to destroy the Jews; they wanted to destroy Judaism. As long as the Jews would adopt Greek philosophy and practices, all would be well. It was our stubborn need to cling to such antiquated practices as circumcision and keeping Shabbos (to name a few) that aroused their ire.
It was our desire to have a relationship with God, to stand for the soul in direct contrast to the Greek celebration of the body. Nothing puts a damper on body indulgences like the voice of morality. The Jews were the ultimate buzz-kill, the fish to the Greek's Cat in the Hat, if you will.
This was the heart of the battle. The holiness of beauty versus the beauty of holiness. This was the war that waged for years. This was the threat to the Jewish people and to the essential nature of our existence.
And although the Greeks are long gone, it is the same threat we face today. It is the same temptation that confronts Jews in the diaspora on a daily basis. It is an ongoing struggle that is highlighted at this time of seemingly parallel holidays.
It is wonderful that the United States is so welcoming. I don't want to sound like a Grinch (is that an inappropriate reference?), I'll even confess to enjoying the pretty decorations and the holiday spirit that seems to pervade the atmosphere. But we can never forget the risk, the risk of forgetting who we are and what we stand for, of forgetting our unique mission in the world, the risk of becoming too American but not too Jewish.
Our ancestors were willing to die so that we would stay true to our roots and our goals, so that we would maintain our values, so that we would continue to strengthen our relationship with the Almighty and deepen our connection to the Torah. It’s up to us to be willing to live for it.
(7) Jacob Gould, December 7, 2018 5:19 PM
Thank G-d for the menorah in public
If you are Orthodox, you probably grew up not thinking much about Xmas; your family, friends, associates were engulfed in Chanukah. But if you were like me, an assimilated Jew from a secular family, growing in a small town in SW Florida with only one other Jewish family, then in December, you were surrounded by Xmas lights on every house, I mean every house, Christmas trees on every corner, even Xmas presents when you woke up on the 25th. BH and thank you to Aish and Chabad for making Judaism and our traditions understandable, meaningful, and instilling Jewish pride in millions of Jews around the world. I can tell you that menorahs in public squares, offices, and everywhere you turn, in this country, has not only brought tremendous understanding and commemoration to millions of secular unaffiliated Jews, but it has also done the same for Christians and other non-Jews and created a common thread and bond between our religions. Chanukah is a miracle for all G-ds children; in which a band of people, dedicated to the service of G-d and the Torah stood up to oppressors, a vicious dictator. So let those Chanukah light continue to be a source of inspiration and to all those hoping and praying for religious freedom and push back on the ethical and moral spiral down of the countries or communities in which they live. Happy Chanukah and thank you Aish and Chabad for all you do.
(6) Anonymous, December 7, 2018 3:30 AM
Ignoring Chanukah history
The yuxtaposition of the Christmas tree and the Menorah has already familiarized the mind of generations of Jewish kids, especially the ones coming from mixed marriages, to view this time period as one holiday celebration for both Jews and Christians, reinforced with the gift symbol as well, without knowing the exact meaning of Chanukah celebration. That is unfortunate, it should never be allowed in the first place, I am not saying this because I am radical or religious, simply because I treasure One of the oldest religion in the world, which is Jewdaism, and its traditions, where so many world ideologies have stem from, and these changes can brings others, and it is sad. By the way, in Israel you also share gifts for Chanukah, I don't know from where it comes from, recall in the Sefardic tradition, we never share gifts, only for Pourim, we just ate fried food,
(5) Anonymous, December 6, 2018 6:29 PM
It's not X-mas everywhere
Outside of Israel, South Florida has little to no feel of the regular x-mass holiday. There are several reasons why. The first is that most of the complexes in South Florida are run by associations. The Associations do not allow any ornament for any holiday outside the dwelling. However, if someone wishes to place a menorah or tree inside their home, they are permitted to. Second, South Florida is comprised of a lot of Jews. Third, it is just too hot for someone to stand in a Santa suit. Even if there is a cold front, like 65 degrees, it would still be extremely hot to don a suit. Fourth, x-mass goes together with Winter weather and when it feels like summer, there is a lot less of the x-mass atmosphere. I love South Florida in the winter. Last year, on Dec. 25, the day was magnificent and hot. It seemed like July, causing me to forget a good friend's birthday that is on Dec. 25th!
(4) Anonymous, December 6, 2018 2:44 PM
Someone will always remind us
Sadly, once again, we see that even when we try to forget that we're Jews, the world finds a way to remind us. Even those Jews who turn against their fellow Jews are still Jews to the haters.
PL, December 7, 2018 3:27 AM
Don’t hate ourselves
In my experiences, those who are the haters are non-religious Jews. Religious American Christians have no problem, and in fact, a good deal of respect, for the wisdom of the sages, as well as for religious Jews.
(3) Yoseph, December 4, 2018 7:48 PM
Menorah and tree
Isn't it beautiful how we associate Chanuka with the tree!
(2) Rachel, December 4, 2018 5:28 AM
Poor choice of words
The Hellenistic Empire is long gone. However, many of their descendants live in modern Greece, as well as in other countries. So while I agree with the premise of the article, I am disturbed by the writing off of modern people in a modern country, one which has generally been positive toward Jews and modern Israel. Happy Chanukah.
(1) Nancy, December 3, 2018 12:38 PM
An additional Menorah
My husband had inherited a Menorah which had belonged to his grandparents. I cannot even imagine how old this menorah is, or how many moves it has survived! I decided to light the candles on this Menorah as well as the one in my living room. I bet ALL of the grandparents would be proud of us. Happy Chanukah!