“The worst thing to tell me is that I can’t do something because I’m a woman and I’m a religious woman,” explains Ruchi Freier in a new documentary about her trailblazing work establishing the first all-women’s emergency medical response team in her neighborhood of Borough Park, New York.
The title of the documentary, 93Queen, references the dispatch code given to Ezras Nashim, the women’s EMS corps staffed by all Hasidic women. It is the first film for director Paula Eiselt, who is Orthodox but not Hasidic, showing a dynamism and creative energy that is usually not associated with the Hasidic community.
Freier herself was never discouraged from thinking outside the box. At the age of 40, already the mother of six children, she became one of the first Hasidic women in Brooklyn to earn a law degree and open a practice. In the past year, she has gained fame as the first Hasidic woman elected as a judge in Brooklyn, where she serves in a criminal court.
Ruchi Freier on the job
Freier had an uphill battle to establish Ezras Nashim in Borough Park, where the all-male Hatzolah was first established in 1969. Back then, the average response time for emergency medical services through 911 was 30 minutes. Brooklyn’s Hatzolah, which boasts a response time of only a few minutes, fields about 50 calls a day. Hatzolah’s dozens of local groups have made it the largest volunteer ambulance corps in the world. But many of the calls are from women, some in labor, and many would prefer to be treated by other women, particularly in cases related to labor.
“How can we expect women who have never held hands with anyone other than her husband suddenly cope with 10 men seeing her exposed from the waist down?” asked Hadassah Ellis, one of the Ezras Nashim volunteers. “No woman should ever be too embarrassed to call for help.”
Opposition
In 2011, Freier decided that it was time for women to be able to choose to be treated in a medical emergency by other women. Brooklyn’s Hatzolah did not want to absorb a women’s division. They were equally adamant in opposing a competing EMS division run by women.
“They think that women aren’t fast enough, strong enough or smart enough (for this work). I think we are.”
“They think that women aren’t fast enough, strong enough or smart enough (for this work). I think we are,” Freier told an assembly of women in an early-stage meeting about creating Ezras Nashim. But not all Hasidic women were convinced.
The concept of tzniut, or modesty, runs at a high bar in this community. To some, the idea of women working as emergency responders smacked of a secular, feminist agenda.
While most of the opposition came from men, and Freier is a committed, religious woman, she wouldn’t back down. “If you can’t join them, beat them,” she quipped at an EMS convention in New York, as she and her mother shopped for defibrillators, oxygen tanks and stethoscopes.
Tzvi Dovid and Ruchi Freier
Tzvi Dovid Freier, Ruchi Freier’s husband, was fully supportive. “Some men told me that I wouldn’t be able to survive (if this succeeded.)” Seated next to him during the interview, Ruchie Freier simply laughed.
The film highlights the fine line Freier had to walk. She is a committed Hasidic woman whose freezer is filled with home-baked challah and who sets her oven to start at 3:30 to cook the dinner she prepares early in the morning before work. On the other hand, she is also a woman who refuses to accept a status quo that she feels unfairly constrains women’s choices.
“If I were a Hasidic man I wouldn’t have half the problems that I have, but I’m not afraid,” Freier said. “I believe we have God’s endorsement, and we move on.” In one scene, a black EMT tells Freier and other members that just as blacks have had to work twice as hard to succeed, so would they.
Still trying to earn the respect of her community, Freier and Yitty Mandel appeared on a Jewish radio program, explaining, “If you have a life filled with Torah values, you don’t need feminism. We have nothing against women going to men doctors, but the women should have a chance.”
On the first day when Ezras Nashim was “live,” dispatchers were excited for their first calls, but for hours, they only received prank calls from men. Finally, a real call came in from a woman in labor, and Ruchie Freier grabbed her bags and slid into her car, racing to the scene.
Freier’s success in dealing with the situation began to break the ice. Soon, Ezras Nashim’s EMTs were treating emergencies involving pediatrics, geriatrics, obstetrics, domestic violence, and dental crises.
For Freier, who had long dreamed of becoming a judge, Ezras Nashim proved a catalyst. She believed that as a judge, her reputation could only help solidify support for the organization she founded. Toward the end of the film, we see Freier campaigning in her EMT vest and stethoscope.
“I have reached a watershed moment in my life,” she said in the robing ceremony in court. “I value my fellow EMTs for their unwavering support. We created the first ever all-female EMT service in Borough Park. You helped me prove that Hasidic women can do great things.”
In 2017, only three years after Ezras Nashim launched, the organization won both the New York State and New York City Basic Life Support Agency of the Year award.
Response to the Documentary
Both Freier and director Paula Eiselt have been thrilled, and a little stunned, at the fantastic reception to the film since it opened a few weeks ago in New York. There are sold-out crowds every night, and people stay for the question-and-answer periods. Jews from all backgrounds are coming to the screenings, asking questions, saying thank you for showing hasidic women in a new light. Even Hasidic men, including Hatzolah members who normally shun movie theaters, are coming to see 93Queen.
Eiselt also had to fight to make this documentary. At first, potential funders could not see the value in a film about a population they assumed was politically regressive. After PBS offered funding, other sponsors followed, and the project won a significant cash prize in the prestigious Hot Docs pitch forum in Toronto.
Eiselt told Aish.com that she made this film “to put another viewpoint out there about Hasidic women. They are diverse, complex human beings like everyone else. This film gives them a voice. The nuance and complexity are resonating.”
Judge Ruchi Freier also told Aish.com, “Hasidic women are often seen as subjugated, oppressed, lacking opportunities. This is an inside view of what they are really like and I believe it is a Kiddush Hashem. And while we still have a long way to go in gaining full acceptance, we’ve come a long way.”
When asked if she still works as a responder with Ezras Nashim since she is now a court judge, she simply said, “Of course!”
93Queen will play in New York City through August 9, followed by screenings in Los Angeles and then rolling out across the U.S, Canada and Israel. Please visit www.93Queen.com for more information on cities, dates and showtimes.
(10) Nancy Morin, August 9, 2018 7:04 AM
Why was this posted under 'Jewlarious'? I hope it was an error, and that it will be corrected soon!
(9) D Legge, August 9, 2018 6:31 AM
Richie such a woman, a mother of Six children a Judge .and still finds the need and time to go out to help others.
(8) Yael, August 7, 2018 11:27 PM
Nice that Rachel Freier is doing something to help her fellow sisters. But what is her true motive? publicity? Why a documentary? I can totally understand why it is under jewlarios and not under jewish wisdom..
Nancy Morin, August 9, 2018 7:03 AM
Why would you question her motive? Why does she need a "motive" other than to do the right thing?
(7) Fred Campbell, August 7, 2018 7:08 PM
Liberation in service to God
As a Christian I have an investment in the fate of Judism and its adherents. Ergo, I am thrilled when I hear of personsal emancipation's that strenghten Jews, individually and collectively. The wonderful success of the Freirts and their kindred souls in breaking down traditional barriers (without compromising basic values) is therefore very inspiring. May our mutual God bless you and your efforts to serve mankind. You are an inspiration to all.
Anonymous, August 7, 2018 11:08 PM
Response to 7
Fred, I read your comment with interest. Please read some "Food For Thought" responses to comments 3 and 2 below for additional details on some of the things that were brought up in the article that many of us are so interested in and effected by. A broader context can be helpful. We're really on our way to better and better things together, much more than we realize. Also, with your permission, may I recommend that people such as yourself who care about Jews and humanity, and emancipation read "Blaming Jews for Snow" at Aish.com, and ask G-d for guidance and success in terms of taking real action against it. It goes without saying that this also applies in terms of terrorism, and in terms of (Arab) children being trained to hate and terrorize, fly kites not as toys, but as arson tools of destruction, be human shields, and die as martyrs (in Gaza, the West Bank etc.) against Jews. That really effects Jews and all humanity. We've all got to get liberated from that, and quick! Thanks for doing your part!
Anonymous, August 8, 2018 3:30 AM
More response to 7
Oops. I apologize for getting so graphic about terrorism. I just wanted to point out that that's one of the places where the righteous gentiles' concern for Jews and all humanity is really warranted, needed, and urgent (as it is also in terms of U.S. governmental anti-semitism-- see "Blaming Jews for Snow", which shouldn't be taken lightly). In stark contrast, in terms of Mrs. Frier's life-saving endeavors, it's important to have perspective; and by Divine Providence I'm close to the situation in some ways, and can discreetly provide some context which shows that there isn't a male-female power struggle in the Chassidic or "ultra orthodox" way of life. In fact, there's tremendous harmony (for example, in saving lives and helping with health in "insular" "Ultra" Chassidic New Square) and in so many instances, on a constant basis, that are "only" recorded in the "documentary" so to speak in Heaven, and within grateful human hearts, of tremendous respect and appreciation, working together for everyone's best interests. Some more food for thought: I don't get the impression that Rechy Frier herself claims a need for "emancipation" from Chassidic men. There are so many so central to her life: Husband, if among her children there is/are son/s, father, if she has brothers, an uncle who was influential to her in her choice of studying law, etc. It's frustrating, how it hasn't yet worked out, a hatzala/ezras nashim partnership in Brooklyn, like it does, successfully, in New Square. But with G-d all is possible. I intend to keep praying and thanking about it, since I live in Brooklyn. And better yet, that everyone will be healthy, without emergencies, and we'll have Moshiach now, and the Complete Redemption, a time of complete health and appreciation, understanding, and true "liberation".
(6) MESA, August 6, 2018 2:00 PM
There is NOTHING un-tzniut about what these wonderful women are doing. If anything, they're helping women preserve a sense of tzniut and dignity even at difficult times. Thank you all.
(5) AidaJudith BatMoshe, August 6, 2018 5:33 AM
We can!We do!!And we can more!!!!!
We can be good MOTHERS.good doctors,good nurses,good drivers,good teachers and anything M A N can do only better.....
(4) Deborah Litwack, August 6, 2018 4:02 AM
WHere ti see the film
I would love to see the film. Please advise where and when? The Malverne Theater in Nassau County would typically show such a film FYI. Would be convenient to a large frum community from FRFT.
Nancy, August 6, 2018 11:25 AM
To commenter #4 Deborah Litwack
I am guessing that you live close to me. I saw the film last week at the IFC in Manhattan. Granted, I took the LIRR into NYC, but it was well worth it! I used to go to the movies at the Malverne Theatre, but I prefer a different one on Long Island. Check out the Huntington Arts Cinema. It is GORGEOUS and has great parking. I realize these may not be the most convenient movie going options, but IMO they are the most worthwhile.
(3) Lyone, August 5, 2018 11:51 PM
Men
.....need to get over themselves. If they refuse to let women play on their teams, then of course women are going to start our own leagues. This makes the most sense especially in areas such as serving the medical and religious needs of other women.
The ultra-Orthodox are so fond of saying that women are more spiritually advanced then men--but then these same men can never seem to take any real advice from women on life-and-death matters.
Anonymous, August 7, 2018 12:57 AM
Some Food for Thought
The Sver Rebbe (meaning the Rebbe of New Square-- Ultra, ultra Orthodox, might he be stereotyped as?) made sure there was a woman's branch of Hatzala in New Sqver long before Mrs. Frier (who we do appreciate, and who I and many "ultra orthodox" women happily voted for, and voiced support for, including in an article in a women's magazine published in Williamsburg with a a managing editor that is one of many, many dynamic, creative Chassidic women, and distributed in several Chassidic and "ultra orthodox" neighborhoods) took the lead of a women's EMT group that had already begun to form in the Boro Park/Flatbush area, where I live. In that initial group, there was a woman who was licensed as an emergency medical vehicle driver as well. How many women do you know of any culture who are emergency medical vehicle DRIVERS? Miscommunications can come up, and while Ezras Nashim is extremely appreciated in Brooklyn for laboring , the way the group was formed, including not being able to retain/acquire female drivers, and introduced, it seems was not one that overall the existing Hatzala, with their emergency protocols was able to work with. It would be great if it all worked out like in New Square. But it didn't-- at least not yet, though with prayer, everything's possible. I don't think it's productive to judge it. Whenever there is holy work, there can be detractions. That goes for the holy work of Hatzala and Ezras Nashim, and also in situations where gender is not part of the discussion. In the end, let's just thank G-d for all that the "Ultra Orthodox" contribute, with unique zeal and devotion to saving lives, helping, and in other areas.
Anonymous, August 7, 2018 2:19 AM
Oops. I apologize for such run-on-sentences...
I re-read it after it was posted, and I apologize. I did take some time to edit "Some Food for Thought", but I guess not enough. Thanks for reading through it. Overall, the point is that sometimes we take umbrage about the "Ultra Orthodox" or anyone's seeming "issues", but actually, a matter is complex, with many details. So please take heart from those parts of the response that are written clearly enough to help give perspective.
Nancy, August 7, 2018 4:28 PM
Re: The comparison to New Square
Possible spoiler alert: It sounds to me like the Rebbe of New Square was a MUCH more reasonable and thoughtful man than the men of Williamsburgh.
Anonymous, August 7, 2018 8:07 PM
Actually, NOT a spoiler alert.
The Rebbe of New Square directed a women's EMT team to form and work in coordination with the already established male Hatzala volunteer emergency medical team of New Square. The Ezras Nashim that later formed in Boro Park/Flatbush, Brooklyn, while certainly needed, was not introduced to the pre-existing men's BoroPark/Flatbush Hatzala in a way in which it could be properly integrated and coordinated, according to emergency medical protocol. What does that have to do with "the men of Williamsburgh"? How can one know how "reasonable" "the men of" any place are, or compare how thoughtful an entire labelled group is to anyone? As I've mentioned before, Rechy Frier is very appreciated. I don't know if you're aware that she was running against an Orthodox Jewish man for the position of judge that she was elected to. As I mentioned above (although, I apologize, not so clearly) she had tremendous support throughout the "Ultra Orthodox", largely Chassidic community, including in a magazine whose managing editor is a Chassidic woman born , bred, and still living in Williamsberg (maybe that's where the confusion came up-- again, I apologize. I wasn't so clear). The magazine is distributed throughout what are sometimes called "Ultra Orthodox" neighborhoods. That's just one anecdote (the Chassidic woman managing editor and wide-spread support of, and enthusiasm for Rechy Frier). So I'm trying to illustrate how NOT to stereotype and take umbrage. Again, I apologize if I'm not so clear.
(2) Rachel, August 5, 2018 6:29 PM
Mazal tov, and what's wrong with these men?
I'm Orthodox (not Chasidic). This article is a perfect illustration of what I don't get about the ultra-Orthodox: Women cherish our tznius lifestyles, but when we have an opportunity to be more careful by being treated by other women, they have a problem with that? To me, that seems to run counter to the Torah. I have unfortunately been hospitalized in recent years, and it's very distressing when I have to expose normally covered parts of my body to male healthcare providers.
Mazal tov to the judge, the filmmaker, and all the women on the ambulance team.
Anonymous, August 7, 2018 1:27 AM
Some More Food For Thought
I'm so sorry about your hospitilization. Yes, many of us want to be able to maintain privacy, and boundaries (tsnius) in medical situations. It's crucial, and efforts like Ezras Nashim should be successful. G-d willing you are now well. I'd like to make it clear, living in a community served by Brooklyn Hatzala and the Brooklyn Ezras Nashim, that it's not that there's a bunch of awful "ultra orthodox" men that "run counter to the Torah". It could seem that way, but having by Divine Providence been privy to some of the developments, it's really that there are complex dynamics in running and setting up volunteer medical emergency teams. Women EMTs (greatly recognized as needed) were able to be integrated in New Sqver in a streamlined way (see my response to comment 3 above). The current Ezras Nashim in Brooklyn has some EMT team members who help in ways that are so appreciated, not just in terms of labor situations, but for other situations that, in honor of the Torah's belief in private information remaining in confidence (and U.S. HIPPA law considerations) I'm not mentioning here. But I don't think Ezras Nashim volunteers are "on the ambulance team". I think they need to call separate ambulances, not under their own auspices, and that is why, when it's a question of every second counting, in many situations, women and girls have to call the men's Hatzala. I do believe the more we let go of "what's wrong with..." [others], the more blessed we are to see oportunites (like in New Sqver) to work together for everyone's good. It's something to pray about and thank G-d for, the improved working together. You should enjoy good health and good news. Thanks for being open to some details.
Rachel, August 7, 2018 9:16 PM
Thanks for additional info
I was responding to the original article, which seemed to imply that a large number of men opposed Ezra's Nashim for questionable reasons, such as thinking women are not strong, smart, or fast enough. Given the many praiseworthy incidents credited to women in the Tanakh (the midwives in Egypt, Miriam and Paraoah's daughter, Queen Esther, Yael, etc) my question was about the specific men opposing the women's team. Thank you for the additional info and your good wishes.
(1) Nancy, August 5, 2018 12:18 PM
The film is brilliant......
And so is Ruchie!! I deeply admire her. She gives me hope for my future endeavors.