The only clue that something extraordinary was happening on my recent flight to Israel was a half hour delay in boarding. Otherwise, everything seemed to be quite unremarkable as we buckled up, raised our fold-down trays and brought our chair backs to their full upright position prior to take off.
Within minutes, roaring engines peeled us away from the ground. When the seat belt indicator dimmed just after dinner, I alighted from my seat and took a spin around the cabin to encourage the blood in my legs to reacquaint itself with the rest of my body and to rub shoulders with new and hopefully a few familiar fellow passengers.
As I approached the rear of the aircraft I could make out a hospital-blue curtain which seemed to hover above the last 5 rows of the center seats in the shape of a bathtub. Upon closer examination I could see all type of hospital gear attached to hoses, pumps and wires adjacent to what was a flying intensive care unit (ICU), complete with EKG monitor, feeding tubes and intravenous drip equipment.
My first instinct was to satisfy my curiosity and try to steal a look at the patient inside, but I suddenly recalled a talk given by my rabbi in which he underscored the enormous importance the Torah places upon respecting every human's right to privacy -- especially the ill -- and walked on past the impromptu ICU and into the aft galley of the plane.
Swinging around the rear of the aircraft, I re-entered the passenger cabin and my eyes instinctively darted again towards the blue curtain. I nearly bumped right into the man attending to the patient, someone I recognized as an old acquaintance from my native Brooklyn. Wearing a kipah on his head, a stethoscope around his neck and rubber gloves on his hands, he was occupied drawing some fluid into a syringe.
"Shalom aleichem," I said heartily. He looked up and remembered me as well.
"Aleichem shalom," he responded warmly. Casting a glance towards the makeshift ICU, I asked him if he was allowed to tell me anything regarding what this was all about.
"She had major heart surgery in the United States," he replied, and we're bringing her back to Israel to be with her family.
Tens of questions instantly began forming in my mind. Why was she being moved while in such a precarious state of health? How did they get the airline to agree to transport someone so ill? How much did it cost to arrange for this mini flying hospital?
As if reading my mind, my friend said, "Don't ask me anything I'm not supposed to answer. A lot of people had to pull strings for all this to happen and if word got out, future missions like this could suffer."
As I looked deeply into his face I could plainly see rings of exhaustion around his eyes. He told me of the many hours of careful preparation that took place before the patient could be brought on board the plane. He had been awake many hours before dawn to prepare for our late afternoon flight, and I obviously can't sleep during the flight, he said sweeping his hand toward the EKG and respiration monitor.
"How long do you get to stay in Israel?" I asked, figuring he'd take advantage of the 'mission' to get at least a few days of R&R in sunny Israel.
"About nine hours," he smiled.
"They don't pay for this. You have to volunteer if you want to do it."
I remembered that he worked as an Emergency Medical Technician for a major ambulance company in New York and so I casually asked him if the firm paid extra compensation for this extraordinarily difficult assignment.
"Actually," he said sheepishly, "they don't pay for this. You have to volunteer if you want to do it." I started feeling very small next to this truly generous man.
"Well then, it's nice of them to at least give you the day off to allow you to do something as amazing as this."
"They didn't. It's coming out of my vacation time." Generous didn't begin to describe this guy.
"You're kidding aren't you?" I incredulously asked.
"It's no big deal. A few weeks ago, I had requested to take today off anyway."
"But how could you have known a few weeks ago that this patient would need transporting precisely today?"
He chuckled, "Who knew? Tonight my wife and I are celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. Looking down at the floor of the plane he paused for just a few seconds and said, We had plans to get away for the day."
"So what happened to your plans?"
"When the opportunity arose to transport this patient, I mentioned it to my wife and she thought my being here would make a terrific anniversary gift for the two of us."
When our flight began its steep descent into Tel Aviv the stewardess' voice rang out over the public address system and thanked everyone for flying. She then apologized for the delay in take off due to our very special passenger in the rear of the aircraft.
She couldn't have known just how very special, indeed.
Epilogue: Due to his deep humility and utter selflessness, Mr. Beinish Mandel insisted that his name be left out of this article when we first published it 11 years ago. It is now with great sadness that we share the news of the passing of Beinish Mandel during Chanukah. In the short time since, hundreds of individuals have come forward with stories of his incredible self-sacrifice as he utilized his genius for saving lives, to do just that, in his native Brooklyn and literally across the globe. He was 59.
(38) Alberto, January 5, 2017 9:21 PM
I'm crying
Baruch Dayan Emet
(37) Maurice Shemper, January 4, 2017 5:18 PM
Kaddish
Let us all include this mensch in our Shabbat Kaddish.
Wow!
(36) Trevor Katz, January 4, 2017 7:27 AM
In everyone of us resides an angel.May more of these angels pls step forward
May Mr. Beinish be allocated a place alongside the Kisei HaKavod and be given an Aliya to be in the presence of HaKadosh B Hu daily
(35) Sharona, January 4, 2017 7:11 AM
His wife sounds like an amazing person as well
It sounds like Mrs. Mandel willngly gave up on their day off together, to celebrate their 25th anniversary, in order for her husband to be on that flight. She was with him all the way.
May Hashem comfort her with the mourners of Zion.
(34) Anonymous, January 4, 2017 1:02 AM
old friend
Bainish and I were friends in the late 70s. This was a shocking way to learn of his petirah. The story of his selflessness was no surprise at all. May his family have true nechomo. Zechuso yagin aleinu.
(33) Yonah, January 3, 2017 10:36 PM
To be honored by another
Your love and honor and awe of this literally blessed person is by far the highest praise any one would ever aspire to attain. Thank you for sharing your love and admiration.
(32) Sara, January 3, 2017 6:52 PM
So sad to see such a special man leave us
When my mom was diagnosed with an advanced stage of cancer a few years ago, a friend suggested I speak to Mr Mandel for advice. He was such a mentch to a complete stranger, spent the good part of an hour going thru options and giving me suggestions for an oncologist and insurance. I will never forget his kindness.
(31) Chayim, January 3, 2017 4:55 PM
That is what it means to be Jew-acts of kindness (Chesed) May we all be well this year and for the years thereafter.
(30) Jaya, January 3, 2017 4:24 PM
Special passenger !
What a remarkable human being ! An inspiration to all of us .
(29) Leah Blumenfeld, January 3, 2017 3:12 PM
My heart has been touched by this article. May his neshamah have the highest Aliya for all the good deeds he did.
(28) Deena, September 5, 2010 8:36 PM
Truly beautiful!!
Thank you for this beautiful article
(27) Anonymous, February 13, 2005 12:00 AM
BEAUTIFUL- MI K'AMCHA YISRAEL! AND SPECIAL THANKS TO RABBI MILSTEIN FOR HIS CONSTANT INSPIRATION IN HIS UNIQUELY TALENTED WAY!
(26) Anonymous, February 10, 2005 12:00 AM
Mi Keamcha Yisroel!
There are no other words to describe this beautiful episode!! Thank you for sharing and making my day.
(25) Cecilia Liberman, February 5, 2005 12:00 AM
This things remain us that we are human
In this moment in life that we are #1 in tecnology, we forgot to be more human been. Than God some of us don't.
(24) Ari, February 4, 2005 12:00 AM
Truly inspiring!!
... I dont know what to say, but the story just shows us what the Jewish people are all about.
(23) Kate, February 4, 2005 12:00 AM
Heartfelt!
Thank you for giving us this glimpse into human generosity! The selfness demonstarted by your doctor friend can clearly only be achieved if one had tremendous love of g-d!
(22) Anonym., February 3, 2005 12:00 AM
Amazing!
Thank you to Rabbi Milstein and to aish.com for bringing us this profoundly heartwarming story! This illustrates that Human Beings are capable of tremendous love and generosity! This selfless act really moved and inspired me! Rabbi Milstien's excellent writing style tremendously contributed to the effect that this story had on me, and hopefully on many others! I hope that we all learn how to emulate this amazing EMT on a day to day basis. The world is an amazing place with people like the author's friend around.
(21) Sakhila ARosh, February 3, 2005 12:00 AM
The meaning of Torah
Live long dear doctor friend. Shalom! your love and service is very much needed for this world.This is the real meaning and messege of Torah.Torah is not a mere religion, its the way of life.
(20) Anna from New Zealand, February 1, 2005 12:00 AM
The right to privacy
Although I had not realised that the right to privacy is so important in the Torah, I have very strong feelings about it (must be my 1/8 Jewish heritage coming out) and make a point of not looking at such things (one can't help seeing, of course, but one should look away immediately.)Obviously, people are aware of what they look like and don't need me gaping at them to remind them or they are not in a position to and it is an even worse invasion of privacy to stare.
I hope that the doctor and his wife had a beautiful anniversary; they deserve it.
(19) Anonymous, February 1, 2005 12:00 AM
At the heart of it...
Thank you for your wonderful article that beatifully illustrates,once again, that Love is at the heart of Torah.
Certainly, only love of God and your fellow human being could be at the heart of selflessness to the degree demonstrated by your doctor friend and his wife; Happy Anniversary to them both and thank you for sharing your experience.
(18) Anonymous, February 1, 2005 12:00 AM
WOW
I am so moved by this selfless act, thank you so much for inspiring me in this wonderful way.
(17) David S. Levine, February 1, 2005 12:00 AM
A Truly Wonderful Man
The frined of the author is a truly wonderful man. He is among the rightous and just. Only good things should happen to him. May he be inscribed in the Book of Life for this generous act alone!
(16) Anonymous, February 1, 2005 12:00 AM
Impressive!!!!!!!
Wow! In times such as these, when it seems that there are almost no values left, it is a relief to read such a story about human generosity! Thank you Rabbi Milstein for bringing us this story. This is a rare glimpse into the nature of our jewish brothers!
(15) Anonymous, February 1, 2005 12:00 AM
very touching
This story touches one's heart. It's difficult sometimes to find goodness and nice things in the post-Tsunami, Israeli-violence world, but this article shows that it is there.
(14) Sara Rigler, January 31, 2005 12:00 AM
What a beautiful, inspiring story! I might have done it, but not on my wedding anniversary. But now that I have this man's glowing example in my mind, perhaps I can aspire to emulate him.
(13) Daniel Reuben, January 31, 2005 12:00 AM
Incredible
The life is worth living, for there are still so nice people around us, they are the ones that make this world more beautiful.
(12) Deborah, January 31, 2005 12:00 AM
Thanks for sharing your beautiful experience.
Your story was wonderfully told. Thank you for sharing it with us. It's stories like these and people like these that inspire the rest of us to shoot for the stars, to be more Godly in our behavior, as we're taught in Tomer Devorah, not just aiming to be the best possible people we can be, but aiming to emulate Hashem in his never-ending giving and generousity.
Thanks again,
Deborah
(11) Anonymous, January 31, 2005 12:00 AM
Praise the airline,, too
It was not only good of the EMT it was also wonderful of the airline (whichever one it was) to make this all possible.
(10) Anonymous, January 31, 2005 12:00 AM
Very moving
Wow, that was really very moving. I even cried a bit. We can all learn from such gmilut chasadim.
(9) Jane Solomon, January 31, 2005 12:00 AM
I was on same flight
My husband and I were on a family trip with our Rabbi and his family and several families from our synagogue. We were on the same flight. We were moved at the devotion of those caring for this young woman. She was given constant and devoted care. We too wondered how they could manage and ofcourse the expense of transporting her(they blocked off at least 9 seats) Our family hopes that she has found rest and peace in the land of Israel. That flight began our wonderful family experience being in the land of Israel
(8) Anonymous, January 31, 2005 12:00 AM
"Mi Ka'amcha Yisrael" - that story touches me deeply.
(7) Anonymous, January 30, 2005 12:00 AM
beauty
I just had to cry while I finished reading this moving encounter by R' Milstien. This person is righteous - this is true righteousness. For some reason the sheer human generosity of this person's actions moved me - I am not sure why. Maybe it was a rare glimpse into the beauty and majesty embedded within each human being. May the world merit more people like this individual. I hope to internalize this powerful message within R' Milstien's recounting.
(6) DALIA, January 30, 2005 12:00 AM
SO SO AMAZING
THIS IS A COMPLETELY AMAZING ACT OF GENEROSITY OF THE SOUL............
INSPIRING
EMPOWERING
ENCOURAGING
SOULFUL
CLOSER TO G-D.
WAY TO GO
G-D BLESS
DALIA
(5) Asher Yehuda Zidele, January 30, 2005 12:00 AM
When I read about the part that Rabbi Milstein mentioned that he saw there was someone in back of the plane with a medical situation, and yet he didn’t look to find out more about this person. It reminded me of a concept I once learned, Ve’ahavta Le’raiach Ha’kamocha, Love your fellow Jew like yourself. A few years ago I was reading up about this and I couldn’t understand the concept how can you love someone else just like yourself? Well one day I saw a Hatzalah ambulance in Flatbush and a bunch of little kids were standing around and watching what was going on. I was thinking to myself, if that person was me, then I would feel very uncomfortable having a bunch of kids look at me if I was in such a situation. Ever since then I when I pass by an accident and unfortunately I see an ambulance. I make it a point not to look, so I won’t case any embarrassment to the person. This is how I finally understood how you can apply the rule of loving your fellow Jew just like yourself.
(4) Merlock, January 30, 2005 12:00 AM
Wow. That man is so generous. I am somewhat shamed to admit I'm not completely sure I would have done that, on such an important day at least.
(3) Anonymous, January 30, 2005 12:00 AM
AWESOME!
It is people just like this generous EMT that make me so very proud to be jewish! This article is very moving and brought me to tears. Thank you to Rabbi Milstein for this very meaningful article!
(2) Joseph, January 30, 2005 12:00 AM
I am so blessed by this great act of Compassion
This truely what our faith and people are about. We are family no matter what. Whatever the reason for the trip May HaShems Hand be on all who were involved. As a man with a difficult Job as well I understand the Sacrafice. G-d Bless You All!
(1) Maria E Vega, January 30, 2005 12:00 AM
May God Bless This Wonderful Man
I love reading stories like this one..it rekindles my faith in humanity..though I know it's God working through others which brings about beautiful testimonies like this one....