Cut to the Chase: Defining Your True Self

Breaking free from needing other people’s validation.

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Comments (4)

(3) cee, April 1, 2016 4:45 AM

Not when you are married

Dr Dave, this contradicts the Torah's views on marriage. Marriage is about giving of oneself, accommodating your spouse over your own needs. Very few people are the same people they were when they were single, able to do what they want. Please comment on this.

Dr. Dave, April 1, 2016 4:35 PM

Good point!

You raise a great point and I should have clarified this better. Of course, we want to grow and give and strive in every way to be better---however, we want to make sure that the direction that we choose is a healthy one, and that it comes from a healthy place!

(2) Heidi T., March 31, 2016 1:45 PM


Wonderful advice! Thanks so much!

(1) sheila, March 28, 2016 12:14 AM

Just the advice I needed to hear

Thank you for crystalizing in such a perfect way what i have been grappling with. I plan to forward this video to a friend of mine who is dating and is thinking of breaking it off because of that her family will think.


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