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GOOD
MORNING!
I saw the following "Refrigerator Piece" on ... a
refrigerator in Atlanta. It used to be entitled "101 Ways to Love
Your Child." It is now "99 Ways." I took out "flatter" and
"tickle". Flattery is insincere and should be avoided. As for
"tickle", I have a cousin who used to tickle me until I had an asthma
attack, so there is no way that I could include "tickle". (By the
way, go ahead and count them ... there are 99.)
99 WAYS TO LOVE YOUR CHILD
Accept Admire Adore Advise Advocate Aid Allow Amaze Answer Applaud
Appreciate Approve Ask Assist Assure Attend Believe Care Carry
Celebrate Challenge Champion Charm Cheer Cherish Comfort Commit
Compliment Confide Consider Console Defend Devote Discipline Discover
Educate Empathize Empower Encourage Endorse Enlighten Excite Explain
Guide Hear Hold Honor Hope Hug Imagine Influence Inspire Involve Join
Kiss Know Laugh Learn Like Limit Listen Marvel Motivate Need Notice
Nourish Nurture Observe Offer Participate Play Please Praise Protect
Provide Recognize Regard Respect Respond Show Smile Speak Squeeze
Stimulate Suggest Supervise Support Surprise Talk Teach Thank Train
Treasure Trust Understand Value Watch Wish Wonder.
Hold his hand so that he can walk, let go so that he can run, cheer so
that he can fly!
Three weeks to Pesach and counting ... It's time to give some
thought to making the Seder more enjoyable and effective in creating
a warm family experience. Most Jews would like their children to
feel positively about being Jewish. You cannot transfer your
feelings, but you can create the atmosphere and the experience which
will engender positive feelings. Anyone I have ever met who loved
being Jewish, fondly reminisced about their Zaideh (grandfather)
presiding over the Shabbat table or their Bubbie (grandmother)
lighting Shabbat candles ... and their Seder! You are a link in that
chain!
Q & A:Â HOW DO I MAKE MY SEDER ENJOYABLE, CREATIVE AND MEANINGFUL?
Remember that the Seder is for the kids, to transmit our history and
understanding of life. You've got to make it interesting and
intrigue them to ask questions. If a person asks a question, he'll
be inclined to hear the answer! The only way to transmit your love
and feeling for Judaism is through shared, positive experiences.
Some ideas from the Passover Survival Kit:
Torah
Portion of the Week
Vayakhel-Pekudei
Moshe relays the Almighty's commands to refrain from building
the Mishkan (the Tabernacle) on the Shabbat, to contribute
items needed to build the Mishkan, to construct the components
of the Mishkan and the appurtenances of the Cohanim. The craftsmen
are selected, the work begins. The craftsmen report that there are
too many donations, and for the first and probably the only time in
fundraising history, the Jewish people are told to refrain from
bringing additional contributions!
Pekudei includes an accounting of all the materials that went into
the making of the Mishkan and details of the construction of the
clothing of the Cohanim. The Tabernacle (another translation of
Mishkan) is completed, Moses examines all of the components and gives
his approval to the quality and exactness of construction, the
Almighty commands to erect the Tabernacle, it's erected and the
various vessels are placed in their proper place.
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Dvar Torah
based on Growth Through Torah by
Rabbi Zelig Pliskin
The Torah states, "Do not kindle a fire on the Sabbath." (Exodus
35:3). In addition to its literal meaning, what lesson for life can
we learn from this verse?
The Shaloh (an acronym for the title of his commentary SHnei Luchos
Habris -- Two Tables of the Covenant) writes that this verse alludes
to the fire of anger and disputes. Rabbi Eliyahu Lopian writes that
"ideally a person should never feel angry; someone who nonetheless
feels angry, should at least not speak out of anger. On Friday, in
the rush to finish the Shabbat preparations on time, a person is apt
to become short-tempered. On Shabbat when the entire family sits at
the table together, parents might become angry with young children
for not behaving properly. Therefore, special care should be taken
on the Shabbat to control one's anger."