A Husband's Promise

Because every husband could use a little reminding.

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Comments (19)

(17) nechemia coopersmith, November 27, 2019 1:40 PM

Text for this video

This video is based on a longer article by Rabbi Lob that you can read here:

(16) Shirley Kauffman, November 27, 2019 1:26 PM

Request words....

Yes, I would like all the words to this video to share with my family please.

(15) Marvin Silverstein, November 25, 2019 6:23 PM


Over 300 residents live here at The Fountains,.
Only about 20 are Jewish.
The owner / management should provide a Jewish Life Teacher at least once per week. thanks

(14) Akiva, November 25, 2019 12:44 AM


My favorite question to be asked is "how long have you been married?"....my answer - NOT LONG ENOUGH, but our eldest is 43 :>) My favorite time to be asked is when I AM WITH MY INCREDIBLE BRIDE.
Great video....keep em coming!

(13) Anonymous, November 24, 2019 7:42 PM

Yeah, right.

Yeah, right. I got it, but he doesn't get it.

(12) Nancy, November 24, 2019 7:35 PM

A great video with a crucial message for BOTH spouses

That video contained messages which I needed to hear. I am not an easy person to live with, but I will never stop working on correcting my weak points!

(11) Anonymous, November 24, 2019 6:46 PM

Why is this only for husbands??

(10) Elliott Berlin, November 24, 2019 6:24 PM

It is so true and beautiful.

I am a widower since my wife of 49 years passed away in 2006. Every word of what you say is so true as i can tell how I miss her every day of the past thirteen years.

(9) Anonymous, November 24, 2019 5:41 PM

This is great! Thank you Aish for the reminder. A husband.

(8) Anonymous, November 24, 2019 4:26 PM

Dr J video made me want to cry. Beautifully done. Thank you for continuing to inspire us all. Captured so many important points.

(7) Celia weber, November 24, 2019 4:20 PM


Why wasn’t there something for the wife as well?

Anonymous, November 24, 2019 5:20 PM

Obviously this is for both the the husband and the wife.

This beautiful message should be integrated into every home and the results will be pure Shalom - perfection.
Beautiful words of true wisdom for all who inhabit the world.

(6) Richard Polak, November 24, 2019 3:52 PM

Thank you

Thank you for the reminder. Terrific video.

(5) Anonymous, November 24, 2019 3:33 PM

Wives are one-third of the equation

along with husbands AND Hashem. Let's have equal opportunity. I've seen more than one marriage/family destroyed due to the wife having had all of the traits listed in this video, which are attributed to men! Signed - A Woman

(4) Shirley Kauffman, November 24, 2019 3:31 PM

Please give me these words written....

I want to share this in written form, can you please send me all the words?

I. Lob, November 25, 2019 1:24 AM

entire piece is on Aish.com - "A Husband's Promises"

The beautiful video is an abbreviated version of the full written piece which is on Aish.com, "A Husband's Promises"

(3) Laura, November 19, 2019 11:38 PM

We should all strive to live by the rules in this video presentation, not just husbands.

(2) Lisa, November 19, 2019 10:29 AM

My spouse did it all wrong!!

I experienced so much anger!! So toxic!! He even got arrested on Shabbas due to his anger!! This is one ingredient that you have no idea your spouse has until you marry. Your advice to husbands is right on target! I also experienced financial abuse....I guess that’s a branch of anger.....

(1) Alan S., November 17, 2019 2:23 PM

A wonderful video.

Beautiful words to live by.


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